Chai Lines
International Northeast Region
Women's League for Conservative Judaism
Networking to Engage, Enrich and Empower
Conservative Jewish Women
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July 28, 2019 Volume 3, Issue 26
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FROM THE EDITOR--LOIS SILVERMAN
This article is a revised version of one I wrote for the Fall, 1995 issue of the NY State Branch Chai Lines. It is as pertinent today
as it was then.
Shabbat Shalom
Lois
TO BE OR NOT TO BE A MAJORITY OF ONE
By Lois Silverman
This August marks the 100th Anniversary of the 19th Amendment to the US Constitution which granted the right to vote to women.
Certainly 100 years ago the desire to vote wasn't a universal one among women. The culture and mores of the time taught women as well as men that women were created to be subservient helpmates for men; that women were not capable of making the decisions necessary in order to cast an intelligent vote due to frailty and lack of intelligence; that women's voting was against God's Laws.
For those women who fought for suffrage during the more than 75-year fight for passage of the 19th Amendment, the struggle appeared to be a hopeless one. They fought for an unpopular cause against foes who weren't afraid to use insults, physical and emotional attacks, and just old-fashioned verbal abuse. Many gave up the struggle; some never gave up. But the cost for fighting was high.
I remember reading John Kennedy's Profiles in Courage when I was about 13. I remember thinking how great it was to fight an unpopular battle, not for honor, not for glory, but rather just for principle.
If you were fighting a battle for an unpopular cause, would you continue the struggle when the fighting got "low down and dirty?" I for one can say I would since I have.
In the years I've been active in our synagogue, I have championed many unpopular causes. At the beginning of each cause, I was alone. Then as time went on more and more people joined me, and many times we were victorious. Of course, there was a price to pay for these victories.
Each struggle becomes harder and harder to fight because one becomes tired. Each struggle becomes harder to fight because, over the years, fewer people want to become involved; they don't want to become involved because they don't want to lose friends or invitations to parties; they don't want to get too involved because with involvement come personal groundless, inappropriate attacks and insults. Being a majority of one is not for everyone.
An article by Lawrence Hardy appeared in the August 20, 1995 issue of the Utica Observer-Dispatch about Harry Burns, a 24-year-old representative in the Tennessee Legislature, whose unpopular stand and changed the course of history.
In August, 1920, 35 states had ratified the 19th Amendment--one less than the number needed for passage--when the debate shifted to Tennessee. Activists from both sides descended on Nashville, "buttonholing" representatives and arguing points. The anti-suffragists held an edge because they opened a bar in a local hotel and plied the uncommitted with bourbon while Prohibition-era police looked the other way.
When ratification finally came to a vote, it was Burn's vote which gave the victory for ratification.
After the vote, Burn fled to the State Library and Archives Building to escape the crowds. Rumors flew. Some claimed he was kidnapped to keep him from changing his vote. Others said he was threatened.*
Tennessee had three days to reconsider its vote. But another vote was not taken and the 19th Amendment became law.
The article does not state what became of Harry Burns. Most likely his political career was over at 24 because he stood up for what he believed no matter what the cost.** And so should we. Doing what is right should not be a liability. Having a social and moral conscience should be a universal characteristic and not one reserved for the people branded as troublemakers, firebrands, odd balls, or the "L"-word.
Certainly Harry Burns deserves a place in any new edition of Profiles of Courage--especially if it is written by a woman.
NOTES UPON REVISION THIS ARTICLE: *Contrary to popular belief, Burn was not chased out the Capitol by an angry mob of Anti-suffragists; rather the Antisuffrage forces accused him of bribery and a grand jury was called to investigate the accusations.
**Burn narrowly won reelection to a second term in the house after a grueling campaign back home in McMinn County. He went on to hold public office for much of his adult life, including positions in the State House of Representatives, 1918-1922; State Senate, 1948-1952; state planning commission, 1952-1970; and as delegate for Roane County to the Tennessee Constitutional Conventions of 1953, 1959, 1965 and 1971. Burn also ran unsuccessfully for the Republican gubernatorial nomination in 1930.
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FROM WOMEN'S LEAGUE FOR
CONSERVATIVE
JUDAISM
Networking to engage, enrich and empower Conservative Jewish Women
Shabbat Message:
"Mirror, Mirror on the Wall..."
By Margie Miller
WLCJ President
Several months ago, I strategically placed a mirror in the entrance foyer of the WLCJ offices.
On the wall of this small area is a beautiful rather large photograph of our founder Mathilde Schechter, and then two walls filled with 8x10 photographs of all the past (and current...me) international presidents.
Every morning, when I walk into the office, I switch on the light and stare at the 22 faces on the walls. Quite honestly, I actually say "Good morning" to the group and walk back to my office. It still humbles me to be included on the wall and to be serving as your president.
So, where did I place the mirror? Right next to my picture! Why?
Because I want every member who walks into our office to consider the possibility that she, too, could become president. I want her to take a moment, look into the faces of all our amazing past presidents, and then look into that mirror and see her own reflection. I want her to have that moment to imagine...me? Why not?
Each of us looks into the mirrors in our homes a million times a day. Is our hair combed? Is our makeup smudged? Are our clothes ok? This mirror isn't there for a beauty check. This mirror isn't there to judge and adjust.
This mirror is the mirror of possibility.
As our nominating committee begins its work, now is the time for each of you to consider how you can serve our organization. Look into the mirror of your soul and embrace the possibility.
Come to the office and look into the mirror in our foyer. Can you imagine your face becoming the next one to grace our walls?
Ponder that, this Shabbat.
Applications are now open for the Convention 2020 Jewels in the Crown Awards!
Sisterhoods who met the criteria of a wide range of activities - those developed and sponsored by Women's League as well as home-grown programs and initiatives - have been acknowledged as the glittering jewels in the Women's League crown. Women's League will honor these exceptional programs with the Jewels in the Crown Awards at Convention 2020
Are you interested in Judaica Crafts?
Are you looking for craft program ideas for your Sisterhood of for yourself?
Have you had a successful craft program that you would like to share?
The Hiddur Judaica Listserve is for you!
Please share this message with all members of your Region. This listserv is not only for the Creative Judaic Arts Chairpersons, it is for every member who is a paid member of WLCJ.
Joining is simple - just email Lois Silverman at lsilverman@wlcj.org to request an add to the WL Hiddur Mitzvah listserv. In your email, you will need to send your full name, the email address you would like to join with, and the Sisterhood/Region that you are a member of. You will receive notification when you have been successfully added.
I look forward to being creative together!
Jody Glass
WLCJ Creative Judaic Arts Chairperson
Mishnah Berakhot - Video Now Available!
Links to all sessions are available on the Members Only section of the WLCJ website, under the Mishnah Berakhot folder.
Weekly Words of Torah Goes PC
(Parashah and
Chesed)
Parashat Pinchas 5779
Our Torah reading this week,
Parashat Pinchas,
is named for the main character in the Torah reading this week, Pinchas, the son of Eleazar, son of Aaron the priest, who is rewarded for killing people who cursed God. A census is once again taken, for the purpose of preparing for the war against the Midiantes. Machlah, Noah, Hoglah, Milcah, and Tirzah, the daughters of Zelophechad, from the tribe of Menasheh, are faced with the dilemma of what will happen to their inheritance, since they had no brothers. Their inquiry spurs a change in the laws of property inheritance, to include daughters, and not just sons, in inheritance. Since Moses will not be leading the children of Israel into the Land of Israel, a successor needs to be chosen. Joshua ben Nun is chosen as Moses' successor. The Torah reading concludes with a listing of the public sacrifices made on the holy days, which are read as the
maftir
(final Torah reading) portions on festivals, and
Rosh Chodesh,
the new moon.
The daughters of Zelophechad paved the way for all women in the future. There are so many
chesed ideas related to women's rights, and helping women, which can be suggested as a tie-in to this week's Torah reading, Parashat Pinchas. Here are five examples, one for each of Zelophechad's daughters:
1 - Continue Mathilde's Mentionables, in your Sisterhood. For Mathilde's Mentionables, in honor of our founder Mathilde Schechter, we have been collecting new and gently used undergarments for women in need. Delegates brought over 5,000 bras to our Convention in 2017! The project supplies bras to women in need, homeless women, women in shelters, etc. In cooperation with Support the Girls, through our donations of new and nearly new bras, we repair one of the tears in the world.
2 - Collect and donate unused makeup and perfume to donate to a battered women's shelter.
3 - Collect personal hygiene products, and donate to a homeless shelter, or a battered women's shelter.
4 - Collect handbags that you are no longer using, and randomly give them to people. If you live in an area where there is a homeless population, put something special in the handbag, like some perfume, a personal hygiene product, or some money. What one might not use is another's treasure!
5 - One of the greatest chesed we can give someone else is our ear. Ask the women in your Sisterhood to share their story and something they are passionate about. Truly, the greatest chesed we can do for another is to say, I listened, and I heard you.
Thank You for Your Contributions!
The following have donated recently to Women's League and its many initiatives.
Masorti WL Days of Study
Rego Park Jewish Center, Rego Park, NY Midway Jewish Center, Syosset, NY Anise Parnes, Forest Hills, NY Sisterhood of Temple Emanuel, Woodcliff Lake, NJ
Donate here
or send checks to Women's League made out to "Women's League for Conservative Judaism."
Please indicate the name of the program you are donating to in the memo line of the check (i.e. "Masorti").
All contributions are welcome.
Save the Date!
WLCJ Convention 2020
Sisters Journeying Together
Sunday, July 12 - Wednesday, July 15, 2020
Hyatt Regency Schaumburg in Schaumburg, Illinois
(Suburban Chicago)
We look forward to seeing you there!
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FROM THE TORAH FUND V.P. -- MARILYN COHEN
"
Atid" (future) was the theme for the Torah Fund campaign that just ended on June 30, 2019. The design of the
Atid pin proved to be very popular and helped increase donations. The Torah Fund office is processing all the donations they received before June 30, from the 13 Regions, for the 5779 campaign. Thank you to all our donors in the International Northeast Region (INR).
The new theme of the 2019-2020 Torah Fund Campaign is Chesed, symbolizing the heart of kindness. The word can also be translated as "lovingkindness," to convey the deep love that motivates Jewish acts of kindness, done without thought of reward. Rabbinic tradition makes chesed one of the three central pillars of Jewish life, as Shimon HaTzaddik taught. "The world rests on three things: on Torah, on service of God, and on deeds of kindness." (Pirkei Avot 1:2)
Al haTorah, V'al Ha'Avodah, v'al G'milut Chasadim.
The 5780 Torah Fund pin depicts a heart surrounded by three circles, each one larger than the next. This symbolizes the heart of kindness in ever-widening realms of generosity: from family, to community, to the larger world. Or from North America, to Israel, to the entire world. Or from Sisterhood, to Region, to our international Women's League for Conservative Judaism.
Suggestions to Torah Fund and other event planning officers:
- Know your synagogue's deadlines for submitting TF materials/articles.
- Include a picture of the Chesed pin in your materials.
- Have tzedakah boxes at all meetings, especially your opening event.
- Have a display board with all Torah Fund cards on it at each meeting.
- Donate the remaining 5779 pins to a nursing home... or use them in a craft project.
- Check dates of Region events before setting your dates, to avoid conflicts.
- Put a Torah Fund program/event on your 5780 calendar.
- Invite the Region President and me to attend!
I am looking forward to another great year working with so many wonderful volunteers who are dedicated to Torah Fund. Please feel free to contact me at any time.
Marilyn Cohen, Torah Fund VP
International Northeast Region
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