CHAILITES

January 18, 2024

" I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders."

(Jewish Proverb)

UPCOMING EVENTS!



Friday, January 19, 8:00 am - Daily Bread Food Pantry (to volunteer, contact Jane Alexander)


Friday, January 19, 6:00 pm - #Shabbat of Love dinner; 7:00 pm service - Click here to RSVP -- Click here for zoom (See below!)


Sunday, January 21, 12:00 pm Congregation for Humanistic Judaism's Tu B'Shevat Seder at TBC (and we're invited!) - Register here


Click here for more TBC Special Events and Happenings!


For the full TBC calendar, click here.

SHABBAT OF LOVE!

FRIDAY, JANUARY 19, 2024


Please join us this Friday in the TBC Social Hall at 6:00 pm for a "#Shabbat of Love" as we gather for a delicious Shabbat dinner of pastas, salad & garlic bread (sponsored by members of the Board of Trustees and Executive Committee). We'll engage in conversations that uplift love and community to counter the dark times in which we find ourselves today. Join Jews throughout the U.S. and Canada as we set the table for the largest Shabbat dinner celebration in North American history!


A "Songleader Style" Shabbat Service, led by Ellie Gluck, will follow at 7:00 pm, and there will be a festive Potluck Oneg afterwards!



Click here to RSVP

Photos from Last Friday's Civil Rights Shabbat!

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TBC Members Are Invited to the Annual Congregation for Humanistic Judaism's Tu B'Shevat Seder

This Year at TBC!

Sunday, January 21, 12:00 pm


Join the Congregation for Humanistic Judaism's Tu B'Shevat Seder at TBC on Sunday, January 21 from noon to 1:30 pm. Additional information and the (free) ticket link can be found here on eventbrite.


A special TuBShevat announcement by CHJ's song leader Adam Feder is available on YouTube here. Check it out!

SAVE THE DATE - Sunday, February 4

Speakers will include: Cantor Harriet Dunkerley (Temple B’nai Chaim), Father Reggie Norman (Our Lady of Fatima), Rachel Simon, ED (from the LGBT+ community), a representative of the Muslim community, along with local and state representatives. They will share their communities' sensitivities, experiences with hate incidents and the impacts these have had.


We hope this event can help lead to the creation of a coordinated system of responses to future hate incidents and also help ensure support for those who are victims of such acts.


To be held at the Riverbrook Regional YMCA, 404 Danbury Rd, Wilton, CT. More information here RSVP required.

Links Worth Noting!

TBCY & NFTY Israel Extravaganza for Jewish Teens, Feb. 10!

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Event Description:

Please join us for the day on Saturday, February 10, 2024 from 11:00 am - 4:30 pm for a fun-filled Israel Extravaganza!


SCHEDULE FOR THE DAY


  • 11:00 AM: Participant Check-In
  • 11:15 AM-11:45 AM: Ice Breaker/Mixer (Led by TBCY)
  • 11:45 AM-12:15 PM: Shacharit Service in Main Sanctuary (led by TBC Staff)
  • 12:30-1:30 PM: Lunch in the Social Hall (Layla's Falafel)
  • 1:30-2:00 PM: Choice of 3, 30-minute Electives
  • 2:15-4:15 PM: iCenter's "Amazing Israel Race!"
  • 4:30 PM: Participant Pick-Up


Click here to RSVP

Our 6th & 7th Grade Teacher, Morah Rica, owns a hair salon that has partnered with Wigs & Wishes to provide those who are losing their hair due to a cancer battle with free wigs. Morah Rica owns Yaffa Beauty by Rica, where she consults with cancer fighters to select a wig, and once it arrives, she styles it to suit, and will shave their hair (should they wish) in a way to make it a positive-as-possible and empowering experience. Along with the wig, she will often give a small care package, many of which we helped assemble last year. 


Sadly, the demand for wigs has not slowed down, and Morah Rica is in need of more care packages, so this year, the TBC Religious School is going to collect the necessities, as well as send notes, for these brave men and women to bring them some refuah shleimah.


Please see the list of items needed here and leave them in the bin at TBC.

TBC is Here For You!


If you or a family member is ill or in need of care - or if you know of someone in our community who needs help - please contact Cantor Harriet. Our Caring Committee is here to provide assistance - meals, rides to doctors' appointments or shopping.

Yahrzeits January 19 - 25

Zeicher tzaddik livrachah!


January 17, 2024

Rose Prentiss, grandmother of Valerie Rosenson


January 18, 2024

Freda Leuin Ruben, mother of Richard Ruben


January 20, 2024

Harold P. Weber, father of Donald Weber


January 22, 2024

Diana Schumer Turet, grandmother of Jamie Kapel


January 24, 2024

Bernice Myers, mother of Jane Alexander


January 25, 2024

Simon Haskel, uncle of Debra Case


It is traditional to light a memorial candle at home on the eve of the yahrzeit. You may also find it meaningful while kindling the yahrzeit candle to offer prayers of remembrance or reflect on your loved one’s life. Many also choose this time to make monetary donations in memory of loved ones


Yahrzeit Memorial Plaques


When remembering loved ones who have passed away, we invite you to commemorate their lives and blessings with a memorial plaque for the TBC wall of remembrance. Ordering information is available here.






A reminder that the Federation for Jewish Philanthropy of Upper Fairfield County schedules a variety of programs that TBC members will find interesting.


ShopRaise Now for TBC!


Whether you're shopping for food or decor for your home, or anything else, we've got you covered. A portion of every purchase you make with the ShopRaise app can benefit TBC. Make today a time for giving.


More information about ShopRaise for TBC can be found here.


Contributions to TBC add up! You can shop at hundreds of stores, including Macy's, Walmart, Wayfair, Nordstrom, Petsmart, and Bed Bath & Beyond.


Handmade Kippot


The kippot are $18 each, and we will continue to use the proceeds to ship Machzorim to the community and also send the balance of the proceeds to purchase food! Please make checks payable to: Temple B'nai Chaim, with 'TBC Social Action Fund-Ugandan Jewry' in the memo line. Additional donations are welcome through the TBC Social Action Fund on the TBC Donation Page with a note indicating 'Ugandan Jewry' as the recipient.

You Can Make a Difference at TBC

Have you been thinking about making a donation to support TBC in some way? We have made it easier for you to do just that! Please check out our new Donate Now button below! Don't forget, you can sponsor and oneg, preneg or flowers for Shabbat Services.



Sponsor a TBC Oneg or Service Flowers!



TBC's B'nai Cafe is Looking for Sponsors!!

TBC is looking for sponsors for our B'nai Cafe on the following dates: 1/7, 2/4, 3/3, 4/7, 5/5. 

To sponsor, please click here!

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Temple B'nai Chaim    

Mailing Address: P.O. Box 305, Georgetown, CT 06829

Phone: 203 544-8695    

Location: 82 Portland Avenue, Wilton CT 06897 (Directions)


Cantor/Educator: Cantor Harriet Dunkerley

Assistant Director of Education: Elisheva Gluck

President: June Mara  

Office Manager/Facility Use: Denise Seccurra