CHAILITES
October 6, 2021
TBC Events Through October 14, 2021

  • Friday, October 8, 7:00 pm - Welcome Shabbat Together (click her for zoom link)
  • Saturday, October 9, 9:30 am - Torah Study
  • Sunday, October 10, No Religious School
  • Wednesday, October 13, 4:30 pm - Hebrew School

Sukkot Celebration and Open House

On Sunday September 26th TBC Religious School officially began our year with a grand Sukkot Celebration followed by a Community Open House. Our students and teachers enjoyed a wonderful morning of learning and shaking the Lulav in the Sukkah before being joined by our wider TBC family and other friends interested in learning more and joining our community. A marvelous time was had by all, highlighted by Sukkah decoration making, lively conversation and “Pizza in the Hut!” Thank you to members of our Education Committee, Membership Team and Parent Volunteers for helping to make this event a joyful success!!
Simchat Torah Celebration

This year TBC’s Simchat Torah celebration coincided with our first day of Hebrew School on Wednesday September 29th. After an hour of Hebrew learning, our students joined their parents, teachers and members of our community for a lively parade, dancing with Torah and fun facts about the holiday. We capped off the celebration with Cantor chanting the last verses of D’varim (Deuteronomy) and the first verse of B’reishit (Genesis). Many thanks to our Hebrew School teachers who had the honor of the Aliyah and to David Abraham for lifting the Torah and holding it during our parade!
Consecration

This past Friday evening at our Family Service we had the honor of Consecrating our youngest learners (Kindergarten) and all those students new to our TBC community! We have had so many families join us over the past several months; it was an absolute delight to welcome 20 children and bless them as part of our community. Consecration is a special moment that marks the official beginning of a young Jewish child’s formal Study of Torah and allows the community to honor and publicly acknowledge them. Mazal Tov to all our Consecrants and their families!! 
Amy Borschenko, Grade 6
Dina de Bakker, Kindergarten
Freedom Davis, Grade 4
Kingsley Davis, Grade 1
Panther Davis, Grade 6
Hadley Friedman Grade 5
Lilly Friedman Grade 5
Jake Friedman, Grade 5
Penny Grayson, Kindergarten
Clark Grayson, Grade 3
Lindsey Harrison, Grade 6
Lyla Harrison, Grade 6
Margret Hoffman, Kindergarten
Alice Hoffman, Kindergarten
Elizabeth Jack, Grade 3
Leila Sauler, Kindergarten
Ayala Shuster, Grade 3
Jace Simson, Grade 6
Emily Whitaker, Grade 4
Sophie Whitaker, Kindergarten
Torah Study

For the rest of this year, and maybe more, we will be taking a break from Torah. We look forward to welcoming new participants who want to take a deeper dive into the texts and see what scholars have been debating for millennia. You don't have to have any knowledge of the books to participate and hopefully will take in new insights as to what has or hasn't changed since ancient times and how it relates to our lives today.

Here is the schedule for the the next few weeks:

Oct 9 - Daniel 7-12
Oct 16 - Ezra
Oct 23 - No Torah Study Rise Against Hunger (Wepco)
Oct 30 - Nehemiah
Nov 6, 13, 20 - Job
TBC Teens/TBC Youth Apple Picking, Oct. 17

Please join Cantor Harriet & Morah Ellie for our opening day of TBC Teens! If you are registered for TBC Teens, or in 8th-12th grade and would like to attend this event at Blue Jay Orchards with TBC Teens, please RSVP to morahellie@templebnaichaim.org by Sunday, 10/10/21, to reserve your spot!

We will meet in the TBC parking lot at 11:45 am; bring your masks, a bag lunch, a water bottle, and money for one or more bags of apples -- $12, $20 or $40.
In this issue of Chailites we thank the following individuals who have generously contributed to TBC during September 2021.To everyone who has supported TBC, we offer you our most sincere thanks and heartfelt gratitude.
ARZA Dues-optional
     Thomas Dubin & Pamela Klem
     Jeremy Rabinowitz & Allison Berger
     Michele and Judson Scruton
     Sharon and Ken Sobel
 
Operating Fund
     Thomas Dubin & Pamela Klem
     Jonathan Gordon & Cortney Davis
 
Donation General
     Thomas Dubin & Pamela Klem
 
High Holyday Appeal
     Michael Tartell
 
Memorial Book
     Barbara and Richard Bloom
     Thomas Dubin & Pamela Klem
     Gladys and Jerry O'Neil
     Ronnie Ross
     Michele and Judson Scruton
     Sharon and Ken Sobel
     Dana and Raymond Umerley
     Hilary and Patrick Whitaker
 
Mortgage Payoff
     Thomas Dubin & Pamela Klem
     Joni and Richard Lerner
     David Schwartz & Deborah List
 
PTO Donations
     Jeremy Rabinowitz & Allison Berger
     Sharon and Ken Sobel
 
Religious School
     Joan and Steve Yurman
 
Sisterhood Donation
     Brooke Zykan Bernstein
     Barbara and Richard Bloom
     John & Cantor Harriet Dunkerley
     Donovan & Jocelyn Furtado
     Kathy and Todd Gordon
     Gladys and Jerry O'Neil
Tzedakah Fund
     Ethan Heft & Samantha Levitz
     Michele and Judson Scruton
     Melinda and Don
     Dani Zeitlin
 
URJ Appeal
     Lori and David Abraham
     Barbara and Richard Bloom
     Thomas Dubin & Pamela Klem
     Jeremy Rabinowitz & Allison Berger
     Sharon and Ken Sobel
 
Memorial Plaques
     Simon Curtis & Kiki Cahn

Chesed Fund
     Jane and Moses Alexander
     Dina and Sam Gumins
     Michele and Judson Scruton
 
Sisterhood Honey
     Barbara and Richard Bloom
     Thomas Dubin & Pamela Klem
     Jonathan Gordon & Cortney Davis
     Bonnie Heft
     Marc Mellon & Babette Bloch
     Wendy and Mac Nadel
     Maor Sauler & Robyn Scatena
     Michele and Judson Scruton
 
Oneg/Flower Donation
     Gladys and Jerry O'Neil
 
The Israeli-Palestinian Dilemma:
Moving Beyond Who's Right and Who's Wrong
October 17, 24 and 31 at Noon

On three consecutive Sundays in October Temple Rodef Shalom, the largest Reform congregation in Virginia, will be hosting a major, nationwide virtual symposium, The Israeli-Palestinian Dilemma: Moving Beyond Who’s Right and Who’s Wrong, that is different from anything that has gone before. The Symposium dates are October 17, 24, and 31 beginning at noon Eastern Time.

"What makes our symposium both unique and uniquely important is that we are are coupling a deep dive by experts representing both Israeli and Palestinian perspectives into the history, present day 'Facts on the Ground', and thoughts on the future with an opening keynote featuring our Senior Rabbi, Amy Schwartzman, Executive Director of ARZA Josh Weinberg and MK Rabbi Gilad Kariv. Our closing keynote is Rabbi Donniel Hartman of the Shalom Hartman Institute. You will also have a chance to hear from everyday Israelis and Palestinians and organizations pursuing change."

The symposium will be live-streamed to registrants and almost all sessions will be recorded and available 24/7 for 30 days after the event. We also are providing a breakout room at the end of each day for your congregation to meet with your own moderator to discuss the day's topics.

The registration link is https://trs-israeli-palestinian-symposium.eventbrite.com. Please note, we are also offering a student rate as well.

A detailed agenda for each day, the speakers for each session, and other relevant information can be found at this link https://www.accelevents.com/e/IsraeliPalestinianDilemma.

Wi-ACT's Rise Against Hunger Meal-Packaging Event Day 
Saturday, October 23, 2021

We are excited that Wi-ACT is able to be holding its Meal-Packaging Event once again! Help the Wilton Interfaith Action Committee (WI-ACT) feed many malnourished children for an entire year wherever in the world the need is greatest. The packaging will be done at the WEPCO Church Complex at 36 New Canaan Road.

You can go to this website to select your shift of 9-11 am, 11-1 pm, 1-3 pm, or 3-5 pm: TBC-https://signup.com/go/YYCFDgq.

Please be aware that, for COVID safety precaution reasons, the Event this year needs to be about half the size of prior year's events in terms of the number of volunteers on each shift. Please don't let that discourage you from volunteering if there's space on the shift you select when you sign up, but also please don't be disappointed if your desire to serve can't be accommodated this year. If that should happen, we hope that you will volunteer again in future years when hopefully COVID safeguards will no longer be necessary.

To insure safety for everyone, please note these specific COVID protocols for the Event: All volunteers must be fully vaccinated and bring to the Event vaccination cards AND evidence of negative PCR test results within 72 hours before Oct. 23rd. Everyone will wear masks, the number of volunteers in each workspace (there will be three packaging floors this year, not just one) will be limited to 25 to 30, and the workspaces will be fully sanitized between shifts. Children under 12 unfortunately cannot volunteer this year; we will really miss them and are looking forward to their return to the work next year.

Be sure to get your PCR test done (available at Wilton CVS, among other pharmacy locations) by Wednesday Oct 20th so that you have the results back in time.
"How to Talk to Your Kids About Things That Worry Them
in a Complicated World"
Tuesday, October 26th, 8:00 pm

Join child psychologist Dr. Abigail Gewirtz, a leading expert on families under stress and author of When the World Feels Like a Scary Place, for a discussion about big issues that make both parents and children anxious -- from disturbingly routine active-shooter drills at school, to frightening news about climate change, pandemics, social-justice issues, and violence. It's too easy for parents to feel at a loss for how to equip their child to deal with it all in a healthy way.
The Weekly Torah Portion
Noach
Noah
Genesis 6:9−11:32

  • God decides to cause a flood that will destroy the world, sparing only Noah's family and the animals that Noah gathers together on the ark. (6:9-8:22)
  • Life starts over again after the Flood. The Noahide Commandments are listed, and God uses a rainbow to make a symbol of the first covenant. (9:1-17)
  • People start to build a city and the Tower of Babel. God scatters the people and gives them different languages to speak. (11:1-9)
  • The ten generations from Noah to Abram are listed. (11:10-29:2) Click here to learn more.
COVID-19 Protocols - Masks Required

TBC now requires anyone entering our building for any reason to wear a mask - regardless of vaccination status. Masks must cover the nose and mouth and remain on while in the building. The only exception to the mask requirement will be for fully vaccinated staff and clergy while in their offices and for clergy (not lay leaders) on the bimah.
 
We will continue to watch the infection rate closely and will keep you apprised of any changes. We thank you for your cooperation.
Upcoming Events and Save the Dates!

October 15, 7:00 pm - Board Installation Shabbat
October 17, 11:45 am - TBC Teens/Youth Apple Picking
October 23, 9:00 am - Rise against Hunger
October 31, 10:00 am - Sisterhood Brunch
October 31, 11:45 am - TBC Teens - Halloween What's Jewish about that?

See the TBC Calendar for more upcoming events. For Full High Holy Days schedule see TBC Connections.

Yahrzeits, October 8-14
  Zeicher tzaddik livrachah!

Friday, October 8
Amy Ginson, mother of Louise Shames

Saturday, October 9
Joseph Ansite, father of Mary Schrag
Harry B. Hyams, father of Sheila Wakoff

Monday, October 11
Morris B. Berenbaum, father of Diane Berenbaum
Lynn Levi, mother of David Levi

Tuesday, October 12
Anne Singer, aunt of Sandy Tepper

Wednesday, October 13
Tillie Gitter, grandmother of Lori Abraham

Thursday, October 14
Isadore Halle, grandfather of Richard Bloom

It is traditional to light a memorial candle at home on the eve of the yahrzeit. You may also find it meaningful while kindling the yahrzeit candle to offer prayers of remembrance or reflect on your loved one’s life. Many also choose this time to make monetary donations in memory of loved ones
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Mailing Address: P.O. Box 305, Georgetown, CT 06829
Phone: 203 544-8695    
Location: 82 Portland Avenue, Wilton CT 06897 (Directions)

Cantor/Educator: Cantor Harriet Dunkerley 
President: June Mara  Office Manager/Facility Use: Denise Seccurra