CHAILITES

December 21, 2023

“As rain falls in small droplets but gathers together into might streams, so too may we as individuals gather together this year to become a mighty force.” (T'ruah, the Rabbinic Call for Human Rights)

UPCOMING EVENTS!


Friday, December 22, 8:00 am - Daily Bread Food Pantry


Friday December 22, 5:00 pm - Welcoming Shabbat. Instead of meeting at TBC, please join Cantor Harriet and Residents at Meadow Ridge for a joyous Shabbat Service at 5:00 pm!


Monday, December 25, 2:00 pm - Dorothy Day Hospitality House - Grab & Go


Friday, December 29 -- Shabbat at home.


Saturday, January 6, 2024, 9:00 am -- Tot Shabbat, Bagel Nosh, Family Service (see below)


Sunday, January 7, 2024, 10:00 am -- Bagels and Blocks


Sunday, January 7, 2024, 9:30-11:30 am -- Chicken/Veggie Soup for the Soul (see below)


Friday, January 12, 2024, 7:30 pm -- Civil Rights Shabbat at TBC, with music provided by the Ridgefield Chorale (see below)


 For the full TBC calendar, click here.

Join us for Tot Shabbat (ages birth to 5) at 9:00 AM followed by a Bagel Nosh at 9:30 AM and a Family Service (ages 6-12) at 10:15 AM! 

Click here to RSVP

  • Enhance coping skills to reduce stress, build stronger family connections.
  • Develop techniques for feeling calmer and more balanced in the new year.
  • Grab a bowl of chicken or vegetable soup and schmooze with other parents!
All are welcome! Click here to RSVP

You can make a difference! Your generosity will help Danbury residents who need help to stay warm this winter. The Dorothy Day Hospitality House has been providing meals and shelter to individuals since 1982. DDHH will distribute hats and gloves and mittens to guests who need them to get through the bitter Connecticut winter.


For information on what's needed and how to donate, click here!

Contact: Nancy Bernstein (she/her), Development Assistant

203-365-6407 - Nbernstein@mozaicsl.org


Click for more information!

Our 6th & 7th Grade Teacher, Morah Rica, owns a hair salon that has partnered with Wigs & Wishes to provide those who are losing their hair due to a cancer battle with free wigs. Morah Rica owns Yaffa Beauty by Rica, where she consults with cancer fighters to select a wig, and once it arrives, she styles it to suit, and will shave their hair (should they wish) in a way to make it a positive-as-possible and empowering experience. Along with the wig, she will often give a small care package, many of which we helped assemble last year. 


Sadly, the demand for wigs has not slowed down, and Morah Rica is in need of more care packages, so this year, the TBC Religious School is going to collect the necessities, as well as send notes, for these brave men and women to bring them some refuah shleimah.


Please see the list of items needed here and leave them in the bin at TBC.

TBC is Here For You!


If you or a family member is ill or in need of care - or if you know of someone in our community who needs help - please contact Cantor Harriet. Our Caring Committee is here to provide assistance - meals, rides to doctors' appointments or shopping.

Yahrzeits December 22-28

Zeicher tzaddik livrachah!



Friday, December 22

Luisa Bat Clara Dray, grandmother of Natacha Merav Friedman

Lupe Escalante, father of Rudy Escalante


Monday, December 25

Florence Cohen Aronson, mother of June Mara


Wednesday, December 27

Madonna A. West, mother of Valerie West-Rosenthal



It is traditional to light a memorial candle at home on the eve of the yahrzeit. You may also find it meaningful while kindling the yahrzeit candle to offer prayers of remembrance or reflect on your loved one’s life. Many also choose this time to make monetary donations in memory of loved ones


Yahrzeit Memorial Plaques


When remembering loved ones who have passed away, we invite you to commemorate their lives and blessings with a memorial plaque for the TBC wall of remembrance. Ordering information is available here.






A reminder that the Federation for Jewish Philanthropy of Upper Fairfield County schedules a variety of programs that TBC members will find interesting.


ShopRaise Now for TBC!


Whether you're shopping for food or decor for your home, or anything else, we've got you covered. A portion of every purchase you make with the ShopRaise app can benefit TBC. Make today a time for giving.


More information about ShopRaise for TBC can be found here.


Contributions to TBC add up! You can shop at hundreds of stores, including Macy's, Walmart, Wayfair, Nordstrom, Petsmart, and Bed Bath & Beyond.


Handmade Kippot


The kippot are $18 each, and we will continue to use the proceeds to ship Machzorim to the community and also send the balance of the proceeds to purchase food! Please make checks payable to: Temple B'nai Chaim, with 'TBC Social Action Fund-Ugandan Jewry' in the memo line. Additional donations are welcome through the TBC Social Action Fund on the TBC Donation Page with a note indicating 'Ugandan Jewry' as the recipient.

You Can Make a Difference at TBC

Have you been thinking about making a donation to support TBC in some way? We have made it easier for you to do just that! Please check out our new Donate Now button below! Don't forget, you can sponsor and oneg, preneg or flowers for Shabbat Services.



Sponsor a TBC Oneg or Service Flowers!



TBC's B'nai Cafe is Looking for Sponsors!!

TBC is looking for sponsors for our B'nai Cafe on the following dates: 1/7, 2/4, 3/3, 4/7, 5/5. 

To sponsor, please click here!

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Temple B'nai Chaim    

Mailing Address: P.O. Box 305, Georgetown, CT 06829

Phone: 203 544-8695    

Location: 82 Portland Avenue, Wilton CT 06897 (Directions)


Cantor/Educator: Cantor Harriet Dunkerley

Assistant Director of Education: Elisheva Gluck

President: June Mara  

Office Manager/Facility Use: Denise Seccurra