CHAILITES
April 14, 2021
TBC Events Through April 22, 2021


For events that require registration:
Once you click on the registration link, you will be taken to a webpage where you will enter your name and email address. Once you submit this information, you will receive a CONFIRMATION EMAIL that includes the LINK you will use to join the program and the PASSWORD that you will need to enter after clicking the link to join.
**YOU MUST SAVE THE CONFIRMATION EMAILS THAT YOU RECEIVE. THEY ARE THE ONLY PLACES WHERE THE LINKS AND PASSWORDS WILL APPEAR.**

TBC Book Group
April 15th, 7:30 pm


The TBC Book Group will be reading "My German Question" by Peter Gay. A New York Times Book Review Notable Book of the Year, this poignant book tells of the author's youth as an assimilated Jew in Nazi Germany from 1933 to 1939. Peter Gay describes his family, the life they led, and the reasons they did not emigrate sooner, and he explores his own ambivalent feelings. ...toward Germany. Click here to register.
Social Action Diaper Drive
April 18, 2021
10:00 am - 2:00 pm

Social Action is hosting a diaper/wipes/tampons/pads collection on April 18, between 10 am and 2 pm. Just drive into the TBC parking lot to drop off your donations. Diapers, wipes, tampons and pads collected will be brought to local organizations to distribute. All sizes are welcome. Larger sizes, 3 and up are generally needed the most. Open packs of diapers will be accepted.
Wilton Reads - Interfaith Panel
Finding success: Women clergy share their experiences

Here's the link to the recording of last evening's panel discussion: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ob6ZK3YWVz0

May 1st Jazz Concert and
Havdalah Under the Stars
May 1, 2021, 6:30 to 9:30 pm

It's Spring and we invite you to celebrate with us at our May 1st Concert: Jazz Havdalah Under the Stars! Bring your family and friends and join with fellow TBC-ers in our parking lot as we joyfully welcome spring, the return of light, and the ability to gather safely IN PERSON to hear live music! This is a BYOE event – “Bring Your Own Everything”! Please bring chairs or blankets and your own food and beverages. We will provide firepits, a short Havdalah Ritual and plenty of music!

Our Jazz line-up features John Dunkerley on keyboards, Ben Carriel on drums, Danny Patiris on Sax with vocals by Big Band Singer Doug Ferony, Cabaret stylings from TBC congregant Jerry O’Neil, our own Cantor Harriet and other special guests! We would love to add a bass player and other instrumentalists and vocalists from our community, so please don’t be shy! Contact Cantor or John Dunkerley (johnstarmusic@aol.com)/845-587-0220 if you would like to participate. This is a free event – donations are always gratefully accepted!
TBC Virtual Art Sale
May 8 - 15, 2021

TBC’s Virtual Art Sale will be held May 8 through May 15. There are amazing works of art that have been donated – including pieces by several of our congregants, including Babette Bloch, Jon Gordon, Richard Lerner and Joni Johns Lerner. We have also had donations by well-known artists, including Saul Chase, Lionel Barrymore, Frederic Remington and Aldo Luongo, as well as several local artists. Watch for more information coming soon.

The Weekly Torah Portion
Tazria - M’tzora
Bearing Seed / A Leper
Leviticus 12:1-15:33

  • God describes the rituals of purification for a woman after childbirth. (12:1-8)
  • God sets forth the methods for diagnosing and treating a variety of skin diseases, including tzara-at (a leprous affection), as well as those for purifying clothing. (13:1-59)
  • Priestly rituals to cure tzara-at when it afflicts humans are described. (14:1-32)
  • Rituals to rid dwelling places of tzara-at are presented. (14:33-57)
  • The parashah denotes male impurities resulting from a penile discharge or seminal emission. (15:1-18)
  • The parashah concludes with accounts of female impurities caused by a discharge of blood. (15:19-33). Click here to learn more.
Don't Forget Chai Greeting Cards!

Chai Greeting Cards are an opportunity for our members to reach out to one another during times of illness, struggle or bereavement. The cards have a modern, yet warm look and feel and include a heartfelt message and space for personalization. Click here to see examples. Or - Click here to send a card! If you have any questions, please email cards@templebnaichaim.org.

Condolence Card - This card contains a message of condolence for those who have lost a loved one. $36 each, with the donation going to your choice of the Rabbi's Discretionary Fund, Cantor's Discretionary Fund or the Kesher/Caring Fund.

Mazel Tov Card - This card contains a message of congratulations for those celebrating a happy occasion. $54 each, with the donation going to the Operating Fund, Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund, Cantor’s Discretionary Fund, Religious School Fund, Shalom Rav (music) Fund, Sisterhood Fund, Tzedakah (social action) Fund or Youth Fund.

Mi Shebeirach Card - This card contains a message of caring and support for someone struggling with illness or other challenges. $18 each, with the donation going to the Kesher/Caring Fund.
Yahrzeit Memorial Plaques at TBC

During this challenging time, we know that many of us are thinking of loved ones who have passed away. We invite you to commemorate the lives and blessings of your loved ones with a memorial plaque. A special service of dedication for the entire community will be scheduled at TBC when that again becomes possible. Ordering information is available here.
Upcoming Events and Save the Dates! 



Thursday, April 15, 7:30 pm
TBC Book Club - My German Question by Peter Gay. Click here to register

Sunday, April 18, 11:30 am
TBC Teens

Saturday, May 1, 10:30 am
Ryan Katz Bar Mitzvah

Saturday, May 1, 6:30 pm
Jazz Concert and Havdalah Under the Stars
See the TBC Calendar for more upcoming events
✓ Check out the TBC Event Planning Guidelines
Yahrzeits, April 15 - 22
  Zeicher tzaddik livrachah!

Thursday, April 15
Jason Altare, nephew of Sandy Tepper
Harvey Felton, father of David Felton
Sarah Sobel, remembered by Sharon and Ken Sobel

Saturday, April 17
Milton B. Hollander, father of Aaron Hollander
Martha Sugar Lash, mother of Melinda Weber
Karen Maru, friend of Sandi Prince

Sunday, April 18
Robert Steward, cousin of Moses Alexander
Scott Auerbach, remembered by Temple B'nai Chaim
David Froehlich, remembered by Temple B'nai Chaim
David Gartrell, remembered by Temple B'nai Chaim
Sean Hiltunen, remembered by Temple B'nai Chaim
Jason Trusewicz, remembered by Temple B'nai Chaim

Monday, April 19
Saul (Bud) Kapel, father of Robert Kapel

Tuesday, April 20
Edythe Metzger, grandmother of Dina Levi

Wednesday, April 21
Jerome Stern, father of Susan Farber

Thursday, April 22
Louis Haskel, grandfather of Debra Case

It is traditional to light a memorial candle on the eve of the yahrzeit at home and to recite Kaddish when lighting the yahrzeit candle. It is also a custom to make donations in memory of loved ones around the time.
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Mailing Address: P.O. Box 305, Georgetown, CT 06829
Phone: 203 544-8695    
Location: 82 Portland Avenue, Wilton CT 06897 (Directions)

Cantor/Educator: Cantor Harriet Dunkerley 
President: June Mara   Office Manager/Facility Use: Denise Seccurra