CHAILITES

September 14, 2022

UPCOMING EVENTS


Friday, September 16, 7:00 pm - Welcome Shabbat Together and participate in a special service to change our Torah covers from brown to white for the upcoming High Holy Days.  Click here for zoom link


Saturday, September 17, 9:30 am - No Torah Study this week

URJ - Ki Tavo Commentary


Saturday, September 17, 7:00 pm - Selichot Service at United Jewish Center in Danbury


Sunday, September 18, 9:30 am - Religious School


Sunday, September 18, 10:30 am - Sisterhood Membership Brunch


Sunday, September 18, 11:45 am - Madrichim Training


Sunday, September 18, 11:45 am - Orientation for B'nai Mitzvah Families


Wednesday, September 21, 4:30 pm - Hebrew School


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See the TBC Calendar for more upcoming events.


TBC's COVID safety policy is posted here.


S'lichot: An Evening of Music, Poetry and Prayer, Saturday, September 17, 2022 at 7:00 pm


Leading the event will be: Cantor Guy Bonné (Temple Sholom, New Milford), Cantor Harriet Dunkerley (TBC), and Cantor Penny Kessler (United Jewish Center, Danbury). See flyer!


Location: United Jewish Center, 141 Deer Hill Avenue, Danbury, CT. Refreshments will be served. The evening will also be available online. For link and other information, email office@unitedjewishcenter.org

The Days of Awe are fast approaching! Prepare to celebrate, reflect, renew, and reconnect at TBC. Our Erev Rosh Hashanah service is September 25, followed by a festive oneg and special honey tasting!


Please don't forget to return your membership renewal package, if you haven't already, to make sure you receive your HHD tickets!


Complete information about this year's High Holy Days is posted on the TBC website here: https://templebnaichaim.org/high-holy-days-2022/. The complete High Holy Days Guide is available for download here.


If you are planning to attend High Holiday services via zoom, Siddurim will be available for pickup on Saturday 9/17 from 11 until 1 or on Wednesday 9/21 for 10 until noon. Books must be returned by Oct 8. You can deposit the books into a box that will be provided for that purpose at the front entrance of the temple. For any books not returned by October 8, we will charge your account $50 to cover the cost of the books. 

Rosh Hashanah Honey!


As Rosh Hashanah approaches, it is time to send honey and sweet New Year greetings to your TBC friends and loved ones. The ordering deadline is September 18. Don't miss out on the opportunity! As in prior years, TBC members have multiple sponsorship levels for giving opportunities. Each sponsor level sends one jar of local honey to every TBC member family, clergy and staff: Super Bee Hive - $1,000; Chai Bee Hive - $540; B'nai Bee Hive - $360' Honey Bee Hive - $180. Alternatively you can give honey to particular congregants within TBC, or choose to reciprocate to those who send honey to you.


Click here to order online. Send questions to: honey@templebnaichaim.org.

Baxter Barenberg's Bar Mitzvah Project!


"I am going to be doing my mitzvah project with an organization called DIG USA. DIG stands for Determination, Integrity, Growth. It’s an organization that I've been involved with since I was 7 years old - that is almost half my life! It started with one coach/ owner named Dan, who has created this organization to help the underserved communities in CT learn to play both chess and soccer, creating both sports and educational opportunities. After one of my first chess lessons my Mom told me I had just helped give a free lesson to a less fortunate kid in a town like Bridgeport. DIG works on the lesson for lesson model, providing free lessons for every paid lesson, creating opportunities for all. This made me feel great, and ever since I learned that, I realized how this small organization could really make a big impact in the lives of many. Read more about Baxter's mitzvah project!


Ava Rabinowitz's Bat Mitzvah Project!


“Hi, I’m Ava Rabinowitz, and for my Bat Mitzvah project, I decided to partner with Donate2Dance, an organization that helps provide dance equipment to communities in need.


"Dance has been an important part of my life and I would like to help other young dancers have the best dance experience possible regardless of their means.


Read more about Ava's mitzvah project!

Read more about Ava's mitzvah project! Donations accepted through September 30.


URJ/RAC Postcarding Initiative

Order Cards for Texas!


Don't forget to sign up for URJ's postcarding project. “The Reform Jewish Movement’s 2022 Every Voice, Every Vote Campaign is a nonpartisan effort, grounded in our Jewish values and commitment to racial justice, to strengthen our democracy by encouraging and protecting voter participation." More information here.

We turn to a new season and an engaging year of Sisterhood programming on Sunday, September 18th, at 10:30 am, under the tent in the TBC Courtyard. The event is free to members and prospective members. Make sure to RSVP by Sept. 14 to sisterhood@templebnaichaim.org. Rain date is October 2. More information here!

In this issue of Chailites we thank the following individuals who generously contributed to TBC during August 2022. To everyone who has supported TBC, we offer you our most sincere thanks and heartfelt gratitude.

Pledge Extra Dues

     Barbara Dobbin

     June Mara

     Rachel and Joe Sondheimer

     Peggy and Steven Zamore

 

ARZA Dues

     Jeffrey Busch & Stephen Davis

     Barbara Dobbin

     Lynn and David Greenberg

     Caroline and Kevin Hoffman

     Charles Landau & Kimberly Yonkers

     June Mara

     Alyssa Newman

     Russell Robbins & Valerie Rosenson

     Nan and Richard Ruben

     Michele and Judson Scruton

     David Shuster & Kera Rennert

     Sharon and Ken Sobel

     Terry and Marty Ullman

     Peggy and Steven Zamore

 

Operating Fund

     Alice Learman

     Karen and Ross Tartell

 

Memorial Book

     Jeremy & Chloe Jo Davis

     Barbara Dobbin

     Lynn and David Greenberg

     Bonnie Heft

     Caroline and Kevin Hoffman

     Charles Landau & Kimberly Yonkers

     June Mara

     Dara and David Marceau

     Gladys and Jerry O'Neil

     Nan and Richard Ruben

     Sharon and Ken Sobel

     Terry and Marty Ullman

     Marilyn Van Raalte

 

Security Charge

     Stacy and Marc Barenberg

     Jeffrey Busch & Stephen Davis

     Barbara Dobbin

     Jonathan Gordon & Cortney Davis

     Lynn and David Greenberg

     Bonnie Heft

     Caroline and Kevin Hoffman

     Charles Landau & Kimberly Yonkers

     Jim Larson & Amanda Lerner

     June Mara

     Alyssa Newman

     Gladys and Jerry O'Neil

     Sandi and Russ Prince

     Russell Robbins & Valerie Rosenson

     Nan and Richard Ruben

     Jennifer and Steven Rubin

     Michele and Judson Scruton

     Elise and Andrew Serby

     David Shuster & Kera Rennert

     Sharon and Ken Sobel

     Rachel and Joe Sondheimer

     Terry and Marty Ullman

     Marilyn Van Raalte

     Hilary and Patrick Whitaker

     Peggy and Steven Zamore

 

Chesed Fund

     Russell Robbins & Valerie Rosenson

     Jane & Mose Alexander

 

Clergy Disc.

     Amy Schneider

     Peggy and Steven Zamore

 

Tzedakah Fund

     Jane & Moses Alexander

     Michele and Judson Scruton

     Matthew and Jennifer Siegel

     Peggy and Steven Zamore

 

URJ Appeal

     Jeffrey Busch & Stephen Davis

     Barbara Dobbin

     Lynn and David Greenberg

     Caroline and Kevin Hoffman

     Charles Landau & Kimberly Yonkers

     June Mara

     Alyssa Newman

     Russell Robbins & Valerie Rosenson

     Nan and Richard Ruben

     Michele and Judson Scruton

     David Shuster & Kera Rennert

     Sharon and Ken Sobel

     Terry and Marty Ullman

     Peggy and Steven Zamore

 

Cantor Installation

     Fran Ostendorf

 

Religious School Card

     Jane & Moses Alexander

 

Sisterhood Fund

     Jane & Moses Alexander

 

Sisterhood Honey

     Debra and Dennis Case

     Rachel and Joe Sondheimer

 

Youth Fund

           Caroline and Kevin Hoffman

Share Your Simcha! TBC congregants are invited to share news of their family events and celebrations in Chailites. Please send your information to chailites@templebnaichaim.org.

Michael Heft Food Drive,

Miriam Messe Diaper Collection


It is time once again for the food and diaper drive to help local food banks. The items will be delivered to the Redding Food Pantry (Redding Food Pantry will only accept gift Cards - no food), Wilton Food Pantry, the Women’s Center of Greater Danbury, and the Community Action Agency of Western Connecticut.


All of the pantries can use gift cards to grocery stores in addition to the items on the list. Personal care items are always in great need as well as toilet paper, paper towels and tissues. Coffee and juice boxes are needed for all pantries. Household cleaning products also. Lists will be distributed at Rosh Hashanah and items will be collected at Erev Yom Kippur, morning and family Yom  Kippur services.  Drivers will be needed after the second service to deliver to Wilton, Redding and Danbury. Please contact Jane Alexander at Jane@nodhill.net, 203-943-5819, to sign up to help or drive or if you have questions.

 

 Please do not include items that are past the “best used by date”.

 

Thank you in advance for your generosity. 


Printable list of Items needed here!








A reminder that the Federation for Jewish Philanthropy of Upper Fairfield County schedules a variety of programs that TBC members may find interesting.


Their calendar of upcoming events is available here. Those wishing to receive their weekly mailing list will find the registration form here.

TBC is Here For You!

If you or a family member is ill or in need of care - or if you know of someone in our community who needs help - please contact Cantor Harriet. Our Caring Committee is here to provide assistance - meals, rides to doctors' appointments or shopping.
Ten Minutes of Torah!

The Union for Reform Judaism (URJ) provides rich resources for Torah study from a Reform perspective. Their Torah Study website includes "The Torah Explained," "Torah Portion Calendar" and an overview of each week's Torah portion.

In addition, several days a week, the URJ publishes Ten Minutes of Torah. Join the thousands of others who open their email to study a commentary on the week's Torah portion, read about a significant moment in Jewish history, connect with life in Israel, or learn about an upcoming holiday. In just ten minutes, you can add to your Jewish knowledge.

Yahrzeits September 16-22

Zeicher tzaddik livrachah!



Saturday, September 17

George Kamber, cousin of Moses Alexander

Milton Eugene Ruben, father of Richard Ruben


Monday, September 19

Helen Felton, mother of David Felton

Gerald Stahl, father of Marilyn Crandall


Tuesday, September 20

Lillian Robbins, mother of Russell Robbins


Wednesday, September 21

Bruce Ullman, father of Stacy Barenberg


Thursday, September 22

Michael Zamore, son of Jean Zamore & brother of Steven Zamore


      

It is traditional to light a memorial candle at home on the eve of the yahrzeit. You may also find it meaningful while kindling the yahrzeit candle to offer prayers of remembrance or reflect on your loved one’s life. Many also choose this time to make monetary donations in memory of loved ones

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President: June Mara  
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