CHAILITES
September 8, 2021
TBC Events Through September 16, 2021

  • Friday, September 10, 7:00 pm - Welcoming Shabbat Shuva Together Click here for zoom link
  • Saturday, September 11 - No Torah Study
  • Saturday, September 11, 6:45 pm - Honey Havdalah Under the Stars
  • Wednesday, September 15, 7:45 pm - Kol Nidre Service
  • Thursday, September 16, 9:30 am - Yom Kippur Services - See TBC Connections for schedule.

Important Announcement for all Families
with Children in TBC Religious School!
 
During last week’s visit from Hurricane Ida, our school wing suffered significant water damage in several of the classrooms. As a result, we unfortunately must push our opening day, scheduled for this Sunday 9/12, back by two weeks in order to complete the necessary work to ensure the affected classrooms and the rest of the school wing are safe and ready for our students and teachers.

Wednesday Hebrew School will begin one week later than scheduled on 9/29. We are saddened that we won’t be able to begin as planned this Sunday, and we look forward to our first session on Sunday 9/26 when we will gather as a community to learn about and celebrate Sukkot! Stay tuned for details about our exciting Community Sukkot Program on 9/26 including “Pizza in the Hut”!

In this issue of Chailites we thank the following individuals who have generously contributed to TBC during August 2021.To everyone who has supported TBC, we offer you our most sincere thanks and heartfelt gratitude.
ARZA Dues
     Doris and Lew Bender
     Jeffrey Busch & Stephen Davis
     Rudy Escalante & Diane Berenbaum
     Kathy and Todd Gordon
     Bonnie Heft
     Caroline and Kevin Hoffman
     Suzanne and Harvey Kramer
     Joe Kropf & Irene Rosenberg
     Charles Landau & Kimberly Yonkers
     Alice Learman
     Dina and David Levi
     June Mara
     Wendy and Mac Nadel
     Russell Robbins & Valerie Rosenson
     Maor Sauler & Robyn Scatena
     Peggy and Steven Zamore
 
Sisterhood Dues
     Doris and Lew Bender
     Brooke Zykan Bernstein
     Simon Curtis & Kiki Cahn
     Barbara Dobbin
     Rudy Escalante & Diane Berenbaum
     Michelle Fanwick
     Susan and Mitchell Farber
     Senia Feiner
     Kathy and Todd Gordon
     Brett & Yasmin Harrison
     Bonnie Heft
     Joe Kropf & Irene Rosenberg
     Charles Landau & Kimberly Yonkers
     Alice Learman
     Dina and David Levi
     June Mara
     Wendy and Mac Nadel
     Sandi and Russ Prince
     Russell Robbins & Valerie Rosenson
     Maor Sauler & Robyn Scatena
     Marlene Serby
     Sandy Tepper
     Terry and Marty Ullman
     Peggy and Steven Zamore
 
Operating Fund
     Sue and Richard Hagan
 
Memorial Book
     Lori and David Abraham
     Doris and Lew Bender
     Brooke Zykan Bernstein
     Eugene & Helen Borshchenko
     Jeffrey Busch & Stephen Davis
     Barbara Dobbin
     Susan and Mitchell Farber
     Donovan & Jocelyn Furtado
     Sue and Richard Hagan
     Ethan Heft & Samantha Levitz
     Caroline and Kevin Hoffman
     Joe Kropf & Irene Rosenberg
     Charles Landau & Kimberly Yonkers
     Dina and David Levi
     June Mara
     Wendy and Mac Nadel
     Ann Paul
     Marlene Serby
     Sharon and Ken Sobel
     Sheila and Gary Wakoff
     Jean Zamore
     Peggy and Steven Zamore
 
Security Charge
     Joe Bear & Barbara Massy Bear
     Doris and Lew Bender
     Brooke Zykan Bernstein
     Eugene & Helen Borshchenko
     Jeffrey Busch & Stephen Davis
     Simon Curtis & Kiki Cahn
     Barbara Dobbin
     Rudy Escalante & Diane Berenbaum
     Susan and Mitchell Farber
     Senia Feiner
     Jonathan Gordon & Cortney Davis
     Kathy and Todd Gordon
     Sue and Richard Hagan
     Bonnie Heft
     Caroline and Kevin Hoffman
     Jamie and Robert Kapel
     Ilene and Paul Kauffman
     Suzanne and Harvey Kramer
     Joe Kropf & Irene Rosenberg
     Charles Landau & Kimberly Yonkers
     Rachel and Blaine Langberg
     Alice Learman
     Dina and David Levi
     June Mara
     Dara and David Marceau
     Marc Mellon & Babette Bloch
     Jaimie and Aaron Meyer
     Wendy and Mac Nadel
  Nathaniel Nevas & Leslie Radel
     Ann Paul
     Sandi and Russ Prince
     Russell Robbins & Valerie Rosenson
     Jennifer and Steven Rubin
     Maor Sauler & Robyn Scatena
     Marlene Serby
     Sandy Tepper
     Terry and Marty Ullman
     Jean Zamore
     Peggy and Steven Zamore
 
Mortgage Payoff
     Jane and Moses Alexander
     Jodi and Jason Stewart
     Peggy and Steven Zamore

PTO Donations
     Doris and Lew Bender
     Simon Curtis & Kiki Cahn
     Rudy Escalante & Diane Berenbaum
     Susan and Mitchell Farber
     Kathy and Todd Gordon
     Caroline and Kevin Hoffman
     Dina and David Levi
     June Mara
     Wendy and Mac Nadel
     Maor Sauler & Robyn Scatena
     Peggy and Steven Zamore
 
Tzedakah Fund
     Jane & Moses Alexander
     Peggy and Steven Zamore
 
URJ Appeal
     Doris and Lew Bender
     Jeffrey Busch & Stephen
     Rudy Escalante & Diane Berenbaum
     Susan and Mitchell Farber
     Kathy and Todd Gordon
     Caroline and Kevin Hoffman
     Suzanne and Harvey Kramer
     Joe Kropf & Irene Rosenberg
     Charles Landau & Kimberly Yonkers
     Alice Learman
     Dina and David Levi
     June Mara
     Wendy and Mac Nadel
     Russell Robbins & Valerie Rosenson
     Maor Sauler & Robyn Scatena
     Terry and Marty Ullman
     Peggy and Steven Zamore
  
Youth Fund
     Jane & Moses Alexander
 
Tree of Life
     Donovan & Jocelyn Furtado
 
Art Show
     Susan and Mitchell Farber
     Joe Kropf & Irene Rosenberg
 
Chesed Fund
     Jane & Moses Alexander
 
Clergy Discretionary Fund Card
     Jane & Moses Alexander    
     Joe Kropf & Irene Rosenberg
 
Religious School Card
     Jane & Moses Alexander
 
Sisterhood Honey
     Jane & Moses Alexander
     Joe Bear & Barbara Massy Bear
     Jeffrey Busch & Stephen Davis
     Barbara Dobbin
     Donovan & Jocelyn Furtado
     Sue and Richard Hagan
     Joe Kropf & Irene Rosenberg
     June Mara
     Gladys and Jerry O'Neil
     Russell Robbins & Valerie Rosenson
     Sharon and Ken Sobel
     Rachel and Joe Sondheimer
     TBC Board of Trustees
     Melinda and Don Weber

  
Happy birthday wishes to our TBC family members who are
celebrating a birthday in September.

Barbara Massy Bear
Barbara Bloom
Beth Brown
Freedom Davis
Cortney Davis
David Felton
Jocelyn Furtado
Nancy Gade
Kathy Gordon
Lindsey Harrison
Lyla Harrison
Jamie Kapel
Richard Lerner
David Levi
Jacob Margolin
Jaimie Meyer
Russ Prince
Ava Rabinowittz
David Sanderson
Ryan Sanderson
Rachel Sanderson
Robyn Scatena
Jennifer Siegel
Terry Ullman
Donald Weber
Valerie West-Rosenthal
Steven Zamore
Peggy Zamore

COVID-19 Protocols - Masks Required

TBC now requires anyone entering our building for any reason to wear a mask - regardless of vaccination status. Masks must cover the nose and mouth and remain on while in the building. The only exception to the mask requirement will be for fully vaccinated staff and clergy while in their offices and for clergy (not lay leaders) on the bimah.
 
We will continue to watch the infection rate closely and will keep you apprised of any changes. We thank you for your cooperation.
High Holy Days 5782/2021

We are looking forward to seeing everyone - either in person or on Zoom - at our High Holy Day services see full schedule and registration information in TBC Connections.

For Those Attending In Person
  • Registration will help us plan appropriate seating in the sanctuary and maintain a safe distance between family groups, It will also provide us with a list of attendees and their contact information, on the remote chance we need to do contact tracing. To register, TBC members in good standing click here.

For Those Attending Virtually
You must register to receive the link to attend virtual services. To register, TBC members in good standing click here.

  • Access information will be emailed to all TBC members in good standing who have registered by September 3rd. If you register after that date, you may not receive your access information in time to participate in all services.

For Guests of Congregants
  • Friends and extended family of congregants may also request access to services by completing the Registration Form.  Suggested donation amounts are $54 for one person; $180 for a family.
High Holy Days Giving

TBC incurs many additional expenses to create a warm and welcoming HHD experience. Please consider a contribution to help cover the costs of flowers and security - or to defray the numerous costs associated with the holiday celebrations. Use the contribution form here, and select the fund to indicate whether the donation is for the High Holy Days Appeal, flowers, security or to cover other High Holy Day expenses.
Michael Heft Food Drive,
Miriam Messe Diaper Collection

It is time once again for the food and diaper drive to help local food banks. The items will be delivered to the Redding Food Pantry, Wilton Food Pantry, the Women’s Center of Greater Danbury, and the Community Action Agency of Western Connecticut.

All of the pantries can use gift cards to grocery stores in addition to the items on the list. Personal care items are always in great need as well as toilet paper, paper towels and tissues. Coffee and juice boxes are needed for all pantries. Household cleaning products also. Items will be collected at Erev Yom Kippur, morning and family Yom Kippur services. You can pick up a bag and the list at the temple, drop food off at the temple even if you are not attending services in person. You can also make a donation to the tzedakah fund marking it for food donations.Drivers will be needed to deliver to Wilton, Redding and Danbury. Please contact Jane Alexander at Jane@nodhill.net, 203-762-8605, to help or for questions.
 
 Please do not include items that are passed the “best used by date”.
 
Thank you in advance for your generosity and if you are able to help deliver to any of the locations please let Jane know.
The following items are needed:
Macaroni and Cheese                         
Oil                                    
Canned vegetables                               
Mustard          
Canned chili
Ketchup
Canned soup                                     
Mayonnaise
Beans                                                    
Hot Sauce
Rice                                                      
Paper Towels
Cereal                                                   
Napkins
Tuna                                                       
Cleaning Supplies
Spaghetti Sauce                          
Garbage bags  
Pasta 
Toilet Paper
Tomato Sauce
Deodorant                                    
Canned Fruit
Toothbrushes
Real juice
Toothpaste
Juice boxes
Shampoo/Conditioner
Coffee/ Tea        
Soap
Peanut Butter            
Diapers-size 3 and up
Jelly                        
Wipes
Snacks
Join us for Honey Havdalah Under the Stars
on Saturday September 11, at 6:45 pm

Please join us for the first of a series of community Havdalahs that TBC Sisterhood will be coordinating throughout the upcoming year. On Saturday, Sept. 11, we will celebrate the end of the Shabbat falling between our High Holy Days with a honey-tasting Havdalah and potluck.
 
The plan is to be COVID-cautious, outdoors under a tent, with heaters if necessary, in a congregant's home. Plan to bring a salad or dessert - and your favorite honey if you have one to share.

Please RSVP to sisterhood@templebnaichaim.org to let us know how many to expect and what you plan to bring, and we will send the home address.
Participate in Planning Adult Education Programming

Temple B'nai Chaim is organizing our adult education committee for the coming year. We would like to serve the interests of the broadest cross section of our members and are looking for religious school parents' participation on this committee. The work would involve one or two brainstorming sessions (on Zoom) and possible follow up to arrange for a program.  

If you are interested, please contact Barbara Dobbin bdobbin499@gmail.com or Bruce Miller BruceHMiller@hotmail.com.
"How to Talk to Your Kids About Things That Worry Them
in a Complicated World"
Monday, October 26th, 8:00 pm

Join child psychologist Dr. Abigail Gewirtz, a leading expert on families under stress and author of When the World Feels Like a Scary Place, for a discussion about big issues that make both parents and children anxious -- from disturbingly routine active-shooter drills at school, to frightening news about climate change, pandemics, social-justice issues, and violence. It's too easy for parents to feel at a loss for how to equip their child to deal with it all in a healthy way.
Wi-Act
Rise Against Hunger 2021 - Fundraising

Wi-Act is once again organizing a Rise Against Hunger event, and TBC is participating as we have for many years. The different faith institutions collect monetary donations to cover the cost of the food we package. RAH buys the supplies at a reduced rate needed for the meal packaging. Volunteers gather to package individual meals that get packed and brought back to RAH for distribution around the world. The date is October 23, 2021 to be held at the Wilton Episcopal Presbyterian Complex (WEPCO)We are asking members of Temple B’nai Chaim to please donate to the Tzedakah Fund designating RAH as the recipient. This is a wonderful event that brings the community together, something much needed after the last year. It will be done in a safe manner so that everyone feels comfortable.

For more information please click here to visit the website. Click here to donate - enter "Rise Against Hunger" for specific social action project.
The Weekly Torah Portion
Vayeilech
[Moses] Went
Deuteronomy 31:1–30

  • Moses prepares the people for his death and announces that Joshua will succeed him. (31:1–8)
  • Moses instructs the priests and the elders regarding the importance of reading the Torah. (31:9–13)
  • God informs Moses that upon his death, the people will commit idolatry and "many evils and troubles shall befall them." God tells Moses to teach the people a poem that will "be My witness." (31:14–30) Click here to learn more.
Upcoming Events and Save the Dates! 


Friday, September 10, 7:00 pm - Welcome Shabbat Shuva Together

Wednesday, September 15, 7:45 pm - Yom Kippur - Kol Nidre

Thursday, September 16, 9:30 am - Yom Kippur

Sunday, September 26, 9:30 am - First Day of Religious School and Community Sukkot

Wednesday, September 29, 4:30 pm - First Day of Hebrew School

See the TBC Calendar for more upcoming events. For Full High Holy Days schedule see TBC Connections.

Yahrzeits, September 10-16
  Zeicher tzaddik livrachah!

Friday, September 10
Naomi Stern, stepmother of Susan Farber

Saturday, September 11
Alan M. Bloom, brother of Richard Bloom

Sunday, September 12
Franklin E. Dillon, father of Barbara Bloom
Dylan Hoffman, son of Kevin and Caroline Hoffman
Judy Kolodny Nash, aunt of Sharon Sobel

Monday, September 13
William N. Kauffman, father of Paul Kauffman

Tuesday, September 14
Robert Dobbin, husband of Barbara Dobbin
Bernard W. Learman, husband of Alice Learman
Howard Stevens, remembered by the Heft Family


It is traditional to light a memorial candle at home on the eve of the yahrzeit. You may also find it meaningful while kindling the yahrzeit candle to offer prayers of remembrance or reflect on their loved one’s life. Many also choose this time to make monetary donations in memory of loved ones. 
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Mailing Address: P.O. Box 305, Georgetown, CT 06829
Phone: 203 544-8695    
Location: 82 Portland Avenue, Wilton CT 06897 (Directions)

Cantor/Educator: Cantor Harriet Dunkerley 
President: June Mara  Office Manager/Facility Use: Denise Seccurra