Do you have any words of wisdom for the next generation of women in finance?
People say “Don’t be afraid.” Wrong. It’s ok to feel afraid – but do it anyway.
When I started my career, I had terrible stage fright. But I did those investment committee meetings anyway, pushed through and kept at it. It was part of the job. I’m proud of that. Later on, my first TV appearance was in Spanish. I had lost a lot of what I had learned in Spain. Nervous, I wrote down and memorized everything I was going to say. I went into a scary little box, looked into a little black camera at the NYSE and did my first live TV appearance in Spanish. I finished drenched in sweat. I prayed they’d have me back. They did. And I’m grateful to them for that first opportunity. Today, I regularly speak in front of 3,000 people. I average two TV hits per week. I make appearances and keynote conferences exclusively in Spanish. I’m proud of that.
We all have joy inside our hearts. It’s a God-given gift. No one can take that from you. Protect it.
Ask and you shall receive. Just ask, ladies – and make yourself do it.
Know your power and your worth. It doesn’t matter if they like you. You like you.
Find the right partner or don’t do it. It should be a team effort and not all on you. If you don’t find that person, you’re good. There is a Spanish saying, “Mejor sola que mal acompañada” – “Better alone than badly matched.”
“I am a strong believer in luck and I find the harder I work the more I have of it.” – Ben Franklin
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