A Time of Transition 

As the school year winds down, many families find themselves in the midst of change. Whether it's a transition to a new school or simply moving up to the next grade, these shifts can be significant for children. During these times of change, open communication between parents and children is crucial. Discussing the upcoming changes, setting goals, and addressing potential challenges are essential parts of preparing children for the next chapter in their journey.

Talking About Change

Moving to a new school or advancing to the next year in school can be both exciting and daunting for children. Parents play a pivotal role in helping their children navigate these transitions smoothly. Create a safe space for your child to express their concerns and ask questions. Listen attentively; provide reassurance and support where needed. 

Start Early: Begin talking about the upcoming changes well in advance. This allows children time to process the information and ask questions as they arise.

Validate Feelings: Acknowledge any apprehension or anxiety your child may be feeling about any new transition. Let them know that it's normal to feel nervous about new experiences.

Highlight Positives: Emphasize the exciting opportunities that come with transitioning to a new school or grade, such as making new friends, exploring new subjects, and discovering new extracurricular activities.

Visit the New School/Classroom: At the end of the summer aim to make attending school open houses a priority. Familiarizing your child with the layout of the building and introducing them to staff members can help calm nerves.

Setting Goals and Making Decisions

As the school year ends and as you prepare for the next school year, encourage your child to think about what they hope to achieve in the coming year and beyond. 

Identify Priorities: Help your child identify their priorities and interests. What subjects do they enjoy? Are there any extracurricular activities they're passionate about?

Set SMART Goals: Encourage your child to set Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound (SMART) goals. For example, if they want to improve their grades in math, a SMART goal might be to dedicate an extra hour to math homework each day and track their progress weekly.

Create a Plan: Work with your child to develop a plan of action for achieving their goals. Break larger goals down into smaller, manageable steps and establish deadlines for each.

Celebrate Achievements: Whether it is improving a grade, mastering a new skill, or achieving a personal milestone, acknowledging and celebrating their efforts boosts confidence and motivation.

Addressing Substance Use

In addition to discussing academic and personal goals, it is essential to talk to your child about the risks associated with substance use, including vaping. Vaping has become increasingly prevalent among adolescents, and it is crucial for parents to educate their children about the potential dangers. Here are some key points to cover:

Health Risks: Discuss the health risks associated with vaping, including lung damage, nicotine addiction, and the potential for long-term health problems.

Peer Pressure: Talk to your child about peer pressure and how to resist it. Encourage open communication and let them know they can come to you if they ever feel pressured to try vaping or any other substances.

Setting Boundaries: Establish clear rules and expectations regarding substance use. Reinforce the importance of making healthy choices.

Lead by Example: Be a positive role model for your child by modeling healthy behaviors and avoiding the use of nicotine, tobacco and other substances.



By engaging in open and honest conversations with your child you can help prepare them for the challenges and opportunities that lie ahead. Your guidance and support are invaluable in their journey, and a positive support system is essential during times of transition. 

For additional resources please visit www.gratiotdrugfree.org the Gratiot County Substance and Suicide Prevention Program has many parent resources available that can help you navigate these challenging times. 

Sara Krebbs

GCSSPP Prevention Coordinator