קישור שלום ~ Kishur Sholom

Staying Connected with the Temple Sholom Community

8 December 2025 ~ 18 Kislev 5786 ~ Parashat Vayeshev

**you will not want to miss**


FRIDAY, DEC. 19 LYRICS.LIBATIONS.LATKES.


(NOT NECESSARILY IN THAT ORDER)



5:30PM LATKES & LIBATIONS

6:00PM LYRICS (HANUKKAH CLASSICS & MENORAH-LIGHTING)

6:30PM SELECT SHABBAT SONGS & PRAYERS

7:15PM SUFGANIYOT (DOUGHNUTS)


TIMES ARE APPROXIMATE ~

COME FOR ANY OR EVERY PART OF THE EVENING!


NOTE: Our very own, Jeremy Stone, will be seated at the piano ... no food/drink in the sanctuary BUT ... the sound carries to the back of the room and there will be a LOT of singing!

So - come and join us!!

Chaverim y'karim ~ dear friends,


PRAYER ALERT


The expression, "there are no atheists in a foxhole" was made true to me many years ago when I met a Jewish man, a temple member of a congregation I was serving then in Ohio. This man's father, whose name I've lost to a failed memory, was a Jewish veteran of World War I. That much I recall and I remember that he was fighting as a Frenchman. He was deep in the famous trench warfare of that horrible war ... the war that was supposed to be "the war to end all wars." Alas, with machine guns firing all around and ordinances flying, he scurried into a foxhole for safety and he came upon a German soldier who was there - alone, unarmed. My temple member's father, the Frenchman, who had his weapon on him, looked into the eyes of the German. The German closed his eyes and began to recite ... the Shema. Indeed, the German assumed this was his last moments alive. And he was a Jew. As he finished that opening line, the two men said together: "Baruch shem k'vod." The two scurried out of the hole - never to see one another again.


In this week's parasha, Joseph is thrown into a pit, alone, by his brothers who sell him into slavery. Joseph's life twists and turns with a host of awful moments but in his darkness, it is to God who he turns. In fact, in many ways, compared to his/our ancestral predecessors, he is one of the most likely of all of our ancestors to invoke God or God's role in our lives.


To understand more of how/where/when/why Joseph prays and invokes God's name, I invite you to turn to a fabulous podcast from the Shalom Hartman Institute (SHI) called "Texting" hosted by one of their scholars, Elana Stein Hain. She has a wonderful discussion with Dani Segal, head of Mabua: Israeli Beit Midrash, "How can Jews believe in God right now?" (note this link will take you to the video presentation but you can find as a podcast on Spotify or Apple as well).


To understand more about how/where/when/why Jews pray, I would like to direct you as well to a podcast from the SHI - this one is called "Thoughts and Prayers" and was launched last month. Our Reform Jewish world has done a great job at "re-forming" Judaism, which I embrace and love the philosophical underpinnings as well as the practical application. HOWEVER. We have, at times thrown out the proverbial baby with the bathwater. And in so doing, one of the 'things' or elements, fundamental to Judaism, that many of have lost is: prayer - both the spontaneous and the fixed.


I will include a few prayers here which give us a sense of the range of Jewish prayers:


Bakasha (request) - Please Protect Us / Shmor Na Eli;

Hoda'ah (gratitude) - Modeh Ani / I am thankful to You;

Bracha (praise) - Adon Olam / Master of the Universe.


I would be only too happy to dig further into any one of those types of prayer or even why I chose those particular prayers and melodies. As always, reach out should you want or need - sending my very best and hope to see you soon!


L'shalom,


Rabbi Mark Cohn

SUGGESTED READINGS & RECORDINGS, & RESOURCES from the Rabbi's Desk (or screen) ...


ARTICLES


"The Cookbook That Became a Legend" (3 Dec 2025) by Esther Levy Chehebar in Tablet Magazine.


"Frank Gehry, the most acclaimed architect of his era, dies at 96" (6 Dec 2025) in The Times of Israel.


MORE


"The Secret History of Hanukkah" by Unpacked. There is nothing wrong with needing a reminder of what this approaching holiday with the candles is all about! This 10-minute video is a treasure (as is the organization - Unpacked - that produced it!).


If you are not familiar with The LeeVees, it's not too late (they are celebrating 20 years this year). NPR did a "Tiny Desk Concert" with them a couple of years ago. Their "Hanukkah Rocks" album is legendary and is a classic staple in many American Jewish homes.

COMMUNITY CELEBRATION


Sunday, December 14, 3pm

JCC in Sherman - THIS SUNDAY!!!


Join Temple Sholom and the JCC for latkes, sufganiyot (jelly doughnuts), and songs!



LATKES, LIBATIONS & LYRICS!


Friday, December 19, 5:30pm

Temple Sholom


A special Hanukkah Oneg BEFORE services, sponsored in partnership with the Jewish Federation of Western CT. Thank you Federation! Plus: Starting around 6pm, OUR VERY OWN Jeremy Stone will take us through some of the Hanukkah classics on piano. Join us for a sing along and candle-lighting! And stick around for a Shabbat sing-along for the service ... concluding with sufganiyot (doughnuts)!

Lunch & Learns: "What's Up Rabbi?"

Tuesdays at Noon


Foundational Documents of our Nation

December 9


The last of this series (more to come in the Spring!)



SHABBAT SERVICE SCHEDULE


KABBALAT SHABBAT

FRIDAYS AT 6:30 PM


DECEMBER 12 - Shabbat Vayeshev

DECEMBER 19 - Shabbat Miketz / Hanukkah

(note: this will not be a full service, though we will recite Kaddish)

JANUARY 9 - Shabbat Shmot

JANUARY 23 - Shabbat Bo


SHABBAT TORAH STUDY

SATURDAYS AT 9:30 AM

(Led by CJ Kelly)



DECEMBER 13*, 20, 27

JANUARY 3, 10*, 17, 24, 31

(*led by Rabbi Cohn)


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New Milford, CT 06776

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