We recently had an opportunity to connect with Debbie, a caregiver and OCO peer mentor who volunteers her time to support other family caregivers.
Debbie has been a caregiver for the past 20 years, for both her mother who recently passed away, and her father, 86 who has dementia. As an only child, Debbie has felt the weight of her caregiving role.
“I’ve faced many challenges. It’s hard when you’re alone. I take it one day at a time”
Debbie explains the cultural nuance of being a caregiver in a Portuguese Catholic family and the importance of caring for parents in the home. While Debbie sees it as a privilege to provide care, it hasn’t been easy. She’s had to reduce her hours at work and like many caregivers, there’s little time left in the day for herself. What inspired us about Debbie is that with everything she has on her plate, she volunteers her time to help other caregivers.
“I’ve had a wonderful experience with my caregiver match. We learned from each other. I was her mentor for a year. I encouraged her to care for herself and to ask for help. She was having trouble coping but today, she’s doing great. If I had just a little part of that, then this experience has been as much of a benefit to me as it has been to her. Being a peer mentor reminds me I’m not alone”
Thank you, Debbie, and to all our caregiver peer mentors. If you’re interested in becoming a peer mentor, visit
ontariocaregiver.ca