Sunday, February 14
“In Common” – Eden UU Bi-state Intern Collective
In a four-part sermon, the Eden UU interns will share glimpses of their ideas around Beloved Community.
Eliot Chapel is serving as one of four teaching congregations to four UU students who are currently enrolled at Eden Theological Seminary. This initiative is launched in cooperation with three other UU congregations in Illinois and Missouri. Together, we provide opportunities in preaching, religious education, pastoral care, etc. Now, meet the students!
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Our service video will be available at 10:00 am at eliotchapel.org and will remain there all week. You can also find it directly on Eliot Chapel's YouTube channel.
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Sharing the Offering
We have a longstanding tradition at Eliot Chapel of sharing our Sunday offering with an organization in our community.In February, we will share the offering with Home Sweet Home, an organization that provides donated furniture and household items to clients transitioning out of homelessness. Home Sweet Home believes that establishing a first home stocked with the necessities for everyday life provides a sense of ownership and a source of stability at this crucial time.
Home Sweet Home serves clients who are referred by partner non-profits throughout the St. Louis region, including the Veterans Administration, St. Patrick Center, Women’s Safe House, Criminal Justice Ministry, and St. Louis Crisis Nursery, among others. These people come with desperate needs for different reasons and from a variety of backgrounds. Their services are needed most by children, survivors of domestic abuse, veterans, people who are homeless, and ex-offenders looking for a new start. Working with partners, Home Sweet Home picks up donations of new and gently used furniture and household items and delivers them to clients’ apartments or homes.
We will let you know each week how close we are to meeting our goal. You can give in one of three ways:
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Online: Click here. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
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By Mail: Please write “Home Sweet Home” in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
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By Text: Text "Eliot $(enter the amount) SharedPlate" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.
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February's Shared Plate Goal is $1000, with 50% given to Home Sweet Home and 50% dedicated to supporting Eliot Chapel's many life-giving ministries.
Because of the generosity of the Eliot community, members and friends, we met our giving goal for the shared plate last month! Eliot Chapel will contribute $3000 to Meacham Park Neighborhood Improvement Association. Thank you!
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Religious Education
Children’s Religious Education
The online Children’s Religious Education Meetup is not in session on Sunday, February 14. In honor of Valentine’s Day, we encourage parents & caregivers, along with their children, to explore the first family worship experience together in the February 2021 edition of Chalice Home, titled "Beloved Community–Open Your Heart." The resource will be shared with registered families via email on February 12. The children’s meetup will resume on Sunday, February 21 at 9:15 am.
Junior High and Senior High Youth Group
The online Junior High and Senior High groups are not in session on Sunday, February 14. Youth Group gatherings resume on Sunday, February 21 at 11:00 am. Additional information will be shared with families the week of February 15-19.
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Zoom Coffee Hour
At 11:30 am, you are invited to “walk down the hall” and come to our Zoom Coffee Hour! We’ll take about 10 minutes or so to gather and let people settle in. We'll say a few words of welcome and then create break-out rooms – random groupings of 5 or 6 people. Everyone will likely make a new friend at Eliot from this exercise! You’ll have the chance to introduce yourself and then share your answers to a few questions, like “How has this week been for you?” and “What feelings has it brought up for you?” Each person has about 5 minutes to speak; you are welcome to pass if you like. In half an hour, everyone will return to the big group and we’ll say our goodbyes for the week. Please watch your email for "Eliot on Zoom" which will include a link to join the Zoom coffee hour. If you're not on our mailing list, sign up here.
Sunday at a Glance
Online Church Service – 10:00 am on Eliot Chapel website
Coffee Hour – 11:30 am via Zoom
Young Adult Group – 12:30 pm on Discord
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Monday, February 15
The church offices are closed today for Presidents Day.
Tuesday, February 16
Women's Alliance – 9:30 am via Zoom
Vigil for Hope & Healing – 5:00 pm online
Earth-Based Spirituality Covenant Group – 7:00 pm via Zoom
Community of Hope video series – 7:00 pm via Zoom
Wednesday, February 17
Joys & Sorrows Evening Service – 7:00 pm via Zoom
Thursday, February 18
Lunch with the Minister – 12:30 pm via Zoom
Eliot Connects: Setting Ourselves Up to Flourish – 7:00 pm via Zoom
Contact your group leader if you need login information for your meeting.
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Reminder: Getting Involved with Groups
Many groups at Eliot are meeting despite the distance between us all. Check with your group leader or get involved with a new group! Find contact information in our Getting Involved booklet.
Group leaders, have you set up an area for your group in Realm? You have a secure place to chat and share documents and photos. Contact Christie Lee to set up your group.
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Storytelling With Heart and Soul
On a drizzly April evening, Jessica Caldwell stands outside Shaw’s Coffee, waiting for a school bus. That bus will deliver her seven-year-old son Jayceon, and Jessica will know as soon as he steps off the bus if Jayceon has had a good day.
On Sunday, February 28, we’ll be joined by an organization doing truly wonderful work: Before Ferguson Beyond Ferguson, a racial equity storytelling project, and their 63106 Project. Their mission is to tell the story of local African-American families, who have struggled over generations in our area to gain their purchase on the American Dream. Their participation in our Sunday service will give us an opportunity to experience radical empathy. Learn more about the people and stories involved with this organization here.
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A Legacy at Eliot Chapel
Eliot Chapel gratefully acknowledges that we received a generous gift of $10,000 from the estate of Linda Polcyn, a longtime member who died in June 2019. If you would like to support Eliot Chapel as part of your legacy, click here to learn about planned giving.
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Consider Leadership
Looking for a way to be of service and help shape Eliot’s future?
Year after year, during good times and bad, Eliot has remained strong and, to this day, continues to make a positive difference in our lives and in the lives of others throughout St. Louis. This does not “just happen.” It is through the careful and thoughtful contributions of our members and leaders that we are able to work toward an ever more just world. To keep this up, we need leaders. The Nominating and Leadership Development Committee is asking you to consider how you might share your skills and knowledge. Alternatively, you may know of someone whom you believe would be a willing and capable candidate to be considered as a prospect for future leadership positions in the Eliot community.
Eliot Chapel Nominating and Leadership Development Committee
David Rowan
Todd Stark
Trina Priese
Gail Rock
Cayla Suter
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Annual Leadership Workshop:
Leading Through Disruptive Change
This Saturday, February 13, from 12:00 to 2:00 pm, Eliot’s Nominating Committee is hosting a workshop on the topic “Leading Through Disruptive Change.” We will be discussing common reactions to change and offering suggestions and ideas for how each of us can navigate through difficult times, and how each of us can be a leader and a guide to help others make their way as well. We will examine the Kubler-Ross grief cycle, ambiguous loss, and consider what skills, mindsets and behaviors have supported adaptation, and personal and congregational growth. If you are interested in joining, please contact David Rowan, Nominating Committee Chair, at nominating@eliotchapel.org for more information and a link to the session. You may also see Realm for a link to the event.
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You Can Make Immigration Justice Happen NOW!
After overwhelming attendance at our January Immigration Justice team meeting, we are hard at work defining the focus and goals for this year’s work. Once that task is complete, an ad hoc subteam will draft objectives for reaching each goal, identify tasks for completing those objectives, and set a tentative timeline for completing them. That work will have the highest impact if you (yes, YOU!) are involved. We need two things from you. First, vote for three of the 14 items (listed here) that the team suggested at the January meeting. Choose only those you find worthy of your participation and support. Send those votes to immigration@eliotchapel.org by February 14.
And if actually achieving these goals is important to you, add to your note that you would like to join the ad hoc planning committee. We hope to have some great accomplishments this year, but that depends upon your involvement. There will be opportunities of all types, all levels of intensity, and your voice will continue to be heard when you have a suggestion or decisions need to be made. We hope to hear from you soon!
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Reminder: 2020 Contribution Statements
2020 Contribution Statements were emailed via Realm the week of February 1, 2021 to those contributors whose gifts meet the IRS requirements:
- Have given single contributions of $250 or more
- Have given non-cash gifts
- Have given items of value in excess of $75
The 2020 Contribution Statement reflects pledge payments and other contributions Eliot Chapel received between January 1 and December 31, 2020. Eliot Chapel's Fiscal Year does not follow a calendar year. Its Fiscal Year is from July to June. Only the pledge payments and contributions Eliot Chapel received between January 1 and December 31, 2020 will be reflected on your 2020 Contribution Statement. If you wish to receive a Pledge Statement to date, or a Contribution Statement if you do not meet the IRS requirements, please contact frontoffice@eliotchapel.org or admin@eliotchapel.org and request a Pledge Statement be USPS-mailed or personally emailed to you.
You should have received a link that opened a .pdf file for you to print. If you do not have an email address on file, then a paper tax statement was mailed to you. If you do not receive a 2020 Tax Statement:
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Log in to your Realm Account. Starting on February 1 and ending on April 15, 2021, a Print Tax Statement button is available for you to print a paper version of your 2020 Tax Statement.
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If you do not have a Realm Account, please go to onrealm.org and set up an account using the email address the church has on file for you. Select "Forgot Password" to create a new password. This should provide you with a log-in to your Realm profile.
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If all else fails, contact frontoffice@eliotchapel.org and request that a paper statement be USPS-mailed or emailed personally to you.
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COVID Support Team
Our COVID team is here for you. If you are quarantining and need support having groceries and prescriptions picked up, please email pastoralcare@eliotchapel.org with your contact information.
Donations to the Minister's Discretionary Fund are also welcome should we face an increased need because of the shutdown in our region. Please indicate “Minister's Discretionary Fund” in the memo line of your gift. You may also text ELIOT MDF to 73256 to give using your mobile device.
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Reminder: Staying Up to Date
In an email letter to members and friends, Rev. Barbara outlined "How We Do Church Now" as Eliot Chapel suspended face-to-face meetings. As a guiding document, it was always open to changes as we found out what worked and what didn't in our response to this extraordinary situation. You can find this document on our website now. We will keep it updated as things change. We'll also try to let you know here of any changes. Changes to RE information were made this week.
All staff are working from home. The building and grounds are closed for general use. A staff person is checking on the building and grounds periodically throughout the week for any facilities or maintenance issues. If you need assistance or have any questions, please email the appropriate staff person.
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Claiming Hope
Two really big events took place this week – one has riveted the nation and captured the attention of millions around the world, and the other changed my household.
I’ll start with the second. My partner and I have both received our second COVID vaccinations. We feel tremendously fortunate and grateful. Because she is a healthcare provider and I work one day a week in her clinic, we were both in Tier 1A. Practically speaking, very little has changed in how we conduct our lives. The CDC has recommended that no one change their level of risk until we have achieved herd immunity and there is more clarity about whether those who are vaccinated can become infected and infect others. And we don’t yet know definitively that the current vaccines are as effective against the COVID variants. But all that notwithstanding, I feel a sense of relief, some of the fear has lifted, and I am feeling more hopeful. Every vaccination saves countless lives and brings us closer to freedom, closer to seeing the ones we’ve been missing, assured that a touch, a hug, a kiss, a handshake will be safe to give and receive.
The other big event is the Senate Trial which will determine whether former President Trump is convicted of the charges brought against him by the House, that he incited an insurrection against the U.S. government itself. We all watched as a mob descended upon the Capitol, convinced the election had been stolen. People died, legislators cowered in fear, our sacred legislative halls were desecrated. What’s at stake in these proceedings is truth, integrity, accountability, and democracy itself. When a President turns against his own nation, none of our institutions and none of our people are safe. All the values we claim are sullied.
As I’ve been monitoring the side effects from my second shot (I had few except some tiredness and a very sore injection site), I’ve been glued to the TV, watching the proceedings. Many have predicted that the Senate will fail to convict. I know that I’m already thinking about how I will manage my anger if this is indeed what happens and what I’ll do when I am tempted into cynicism and disillusionment. If that is how things work out, that will be a tragedy and we as a nation will have to work together to find other ways to protect our country and all its people from the hatred and violence that has been stoked and released.
While Unitarian Universalism is a faith tradition centered on hope and possibility, it is not a naive faith. While we have a deep and abiding faith in the goodness of humanity, we also have a commitment to truth. This commitment asks us not to minimize that we can do great harm. Responsibility and accountability for the impact of our choices is interwoven with hope, freedom and new life. I can hope that even if the former President is acquitted that there will be a reckoning for him and those who have enabled him. Unity is only possible with accountability.
But whatever befalls us, I will keep being thankful for my vaccination and rejoice every time I hear one of you say, “I got mine too.” There are many ways to claim hope.
Yours in faith and service,
Rev. Krista
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Church Offices Closed Monday
Eliot Chapel offices will be closed on Monday, February 15 for Presidents Day. We will reopen on Tuesday.
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Women's Alliance
The Eliot Chapel Women's Alliance will meet on Tuesday, February 16 on Zoom. Conversation begins at 9:30 am followed by a presentation by Eliot Member Ed Shew at 10:00. He will discuss his novel, Chinese Brothers, American Sons, which tells a story of Chinese workers on the Transcontinental Railroad. All Eliot women are welcome. Contact womensalliance@eliotchapel.org to get involved.
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Vigil for Hope & Healing
Tuesday, February 16
5:00 pm via Zoom
The Black Lives Matter vigil has gone digital! Our Black Lives Matter in-person vigil has been suspended for the duration of the stay-at-home order in St. Louis County. This doesn’t mean that we are going to stop witnessing for Black lives!
Join us for our weekly online vigil Tuesdays at 5:00 pm. We will meet on Zoom and livestream our vigil onto Facebook.
How to prepare for our online vigil:
- Write “Black Lives Matter” in dark lettering on a small piece of paper, no bigger than a standard letter envelope.
- Check your background to be sure nothing is visible that you don’t want broadcast in public!
- Connect to the vigil using the Zoom link provided in the weekly Eliot On Zoom email that comes Sunday morning. Make sure you are muted.
- Sit silently with your BLM sign for the duration of the vigil.
- Help expand our witness! During the vigil, go to the Eliot Unitarian Chapel facebook page and share the vigil to your facebook page, twitter feed, or any social media platform you use so that it can be shared further!
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Eliot Chapel Community of Hope Video Series
Amanda Gorman’s "The Hill We Climb": What does it demand of us?
On Tuesday, February 16 from 7:00 – 8:30 pm, Eliot Chapel’s Social Justice in Action Committee will be hold its second session of the Community of Hope video series exploring issues central to our core mission and values. That evening we will watch and discuss National Youth Poet Laureate Amanda Gorman’s The Hill We Climb that she read at the presidential inauguration in January. Ms. Gorman is the youngest inaugural poet in U.S. history and has been inspired by black poets including Maya Angelou, Audre Lord, and Tracy Smith as well as leaders such as Frederick Douglass, Winston Churchill, and Abraham Lincoln. Please mark your calendars to attend the Zoom session – see the "Eliot on Zoom" email for a link or find registration information on Realm. Be sure to print a copy of the poem before the event – you can find the poem here. We hope to see you there!
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Joys and Sorrows Evening Service
As the pandemic drags on, our spiritual need to stay connected and present to each other grows. Join our monthly evening service focused on sharing and connection on Wednesday, February 17 at 7:00 pm. There will be centering readings, prayer, silence, and a time for deep sharing of our joys and sorrows. The service will be live on Zoom. It will not be recorded or livestreamed because of the invitation for personal sharing. Families are welcome. The Zoom connection information will be shared via the weekly "Eliot on Zoom" email.
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Lunch with the Minister
Revs. Barbara and Krista invite you to a weekly Lunch with the Minister every Thursday at 12:30 pm. Bring your lunch or just bring yourself! Depending on the size of the group, we will hang out together in the main room or go into breakout groups. The link to join this Zoom meeting will be in the weekly "Eliot on Zoom" email. Check it out and get together!
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Building Your Own Theology with Rev. Barbara
February 25, March 4, 11, 18, and 25
Thursday evenings, 7-8:30 pm
How do you know what you believe – about God, about human nature, about truth? Unitarian Universalists are given tremendous freedom to form our own beliefs, but we also need a guide and a roadmap from time to time. We also need a community to set out with. Here is an opportunity to explore some of the big questions together. The class is perfect for parents and grandparents looking to answer your children’s and grandchildren’s challenging questions – and for anyone who would like to know themselves better and share the spiritual journey with others.
Cost: Free.
Rev. Barbara will send out materials digitally as the course progresses.
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The Transcendentalists as Religious Activists
Sundays, March 7, 14, 21 & 28
7:00 – 8:30 pm on Zoom
(Registration link is HERE)
Presented by Rev. John Buehrens
Co-Sponsored by First Unitarian Church of Dallas & Eliot Unitarian Chapel
Pre-class Panel Discussion on Transcendentalism
Thursday, March 4 at 7:00 pm on Zoom
(access Zoom link HERE, webinar ID: 869 0675 6365)
Featuring Rev. John Buehrens, Rev. Daniel Kanter, & Rev. Aaron White
Many of us meet our spiritual forebears, the Transcendentalists, as writers. We read Emerson on “Self-Reliance” and Thoreau’s Walden and think of them as disaffiliates, individualists. Yet the Transcendentalists were religious reformers: Unitarians, activists for both individual freedom and for social equality. They set powerful, influential examples we can still learn from today.
In Conflagration: How the Transcendentalists Sparked the American Struggle for Racial, Gender and Social Justice (Beacon Press, 2020), Rev. John Buehrens shows how relevant even the now forgotten figures among the Transcendentalists are to present struggles.
This four-session course will meet on Sunday evenings via Zoom, 7 to 8:30 pm CST. Class dates are March 7, 14, 21, & 28. Participation is open to the general public, with prior registration and a suggested $20 donation. The format will involve up to 45 minutes of presentation by Dr. Buehrens, then 45 minutes of moderated Q & A. The four sessions will be:
- Definitions & Disciplines: Reflection, Conversation, & Friendships Transcending Differences
- Women’s Rights in America: The Female Transcendentalists and Their Later Erasure
- The Transcendentalists and Race: Distinctions and Differences, Then and Now
- Transcendentalist Sources of American Environmentalism and Interfaith Cooperation
Purchasing and reading the book in advance of the course is encouraged, but not required. You can access the book on the UUA bookstore site HERE or purchase from Beacon Press HERE.
The course leader, Rev. Dr. John Buehrens, served as President of the Unitarian Universalist Association of Congregations, 1993-2001. A graduate of Harvard College and Harvard Divinity School, he had previously served as Co-Minister of All Souls, NYC, with Dr. Forrest Church; as Senior Minister of First Unitarian Church of Dallas (1981-87), and at the Tennessee Valley UU Church in Knoxville, TN, where he was ordained in 1973.
In receiving the first of several honorary doctorates, John was cited as “the evangelical rabbi of liberal religion, with his stained glass voice and a twinkle in the eye. . . he has led us, ministers and laypeople alike, to understand more deeply and embrace more fully the heritage we share.”
Please join him in this deep investigation into how our forebears transcended themselves and helped to bring about a more just and sustainable form of liberal democracy.
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Inquirer Series
Mondays, March 8, 15, & 22
7:00 – 8:00 pm via Zoom
If you are new to Eliot Chapel, new to Unitarian Universalism, or wanting to deepen your understanding of Unitarian Universalism, this is the class for you. This 3-part series, held Mondays beginning March 8, includes sessions on Unitarian Universalist history and theology, UU religious education and spiritual development, how we worship, take care of each other and serve our community, and what it means to be a member of this congregation. All sessions will be held on Zoom. Sign up here or on Realm now!
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Sunday, February 21
"Dearest Jo" – Rev. Barbara H. Gadon
In part 2 of our series on the Transcendentalists, Rev. Barbara will share the stories of Louisa May Alcott and her most famous book, Little Women, which has shaped the lives of girls and women for generations. Why does this story matter today? How is it a Unitarian book?
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