Rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our path. Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves.
Not a day goes by when the reality of hearing someone regret alcohol or drug addiction, whether it's of a personal narrative or they’re concerned about someone else. Addiction has become a global health problem and it is recognized that it is not limited only to the consumption of alcohol and drugs, whether legal or illegal. An addiction extends to gambling, playing video games, sex, and food, to name a few.
Substance addiction is substantially increased among LGBTQ communities, and studies confirm that the battles facing our community are heightened by stigma, discrimination, and other challenges that the heterosexual population does not normally face.
The Council of Elders of The Metropolitan Community Churches recognize that our local churches and faith communities are not immune to the effects and consequences of addiction. We recognize that our recovery is a spiritual one and that our faith has power, as well as our prayers. The path to recovery and sobriety begins with an inclusive and compassionate love, which helps people facing addiction feel empowered to express their desire to rehabilitate.
By uniting our voices, the narrative of our stories enables people who are in search of the courage to take their first steps toward recovery. This also provides continuing encouragement to those who have been on the journey of a sober life. And those who have years of living sober can testify of the many ways they maintain their sobriety, which often happens moment by moment, step by step, day by day.
What can be done? To begin with, it’s important to recognize that our churches and faith communities are affected by addiction, and in providing a space without prejudice of presence and language, we can affirm rather than criticize. This makes way for a spirit of humility, compassion, and acceptance, allowing those facing addiction to feel that they can be present without the harm of rejection.
Second, let our faith respond and inspire us to speak, preach, and educate our communities about addiction. Our MCC-ICM Communities are connected by blood and spirit, and we have a great influence on society and the ability to support healthy lifestyles. The narrative of lives in recovery and sobriety is the bridge of hope for many people who are on the road to transforming their lives.
In addition, the success of achieving a life of sobriety comes from the same support of those who are on a similar journey. We must never diminish the power of encouragement that is created between the dynamics of family, community, and friendships in reference to our recovery stories. Celebrating every step toward sobriety, no matter how small or large the step, offers great help and this support is invaluable.
Thirdly, awareness of the many resources at the community, national, and international level is critical. September, for example, is Recovery and Sobriety Month in the USA and celebrates the many stories that inspire and promote the power of family and community in the lives of people facing and struggling with an addiction. And last year, 2021, an on-line global event was created designating September 30th as International Day of Recovery. These are two means in which people can connect, promote, support someone, or find support toward the path of recovery and sobriety.
Finally, every journey begins with a single step and the journey to recovery and sobriety for many begins with the Alcoholics Anonymous and their Twelve Steps. What follows is an excerpt from chapter 11 of the AA Big Book, “A Vision for You” along with links to some resources.
“Our book is meant to be suggestive only. We realize we know only a little. God will constantly disclose more to you and to us. Ask God in your morning meditation what you can do each day for the person who is still sick. The answers will come, if your own house is in order. But obviously you cannot transmit something you haven't got. See to it that your relationship with The Divine is right, and great events will come to pass for you and countless others. This is the Great Fact for us.
Abandon yourself to God as you understand The Divine. Admit your faults to The Divine and to your trusted network. Clear away the wreckage of your past. Give freely of what you find and join us. We shall be with you in the Fellowship of the Spirit, and you will surely meet some of us as you trudge the Road of Happy Destiny. May God bless you and keep you -- until then.”
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