Couples' Newsletter | February 2019
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The Newmans challenge couples to focus on being "kind" as a demonstration of love; provide Valentine's Day gift ideas; suggest Valentine's Day Brunch venues; share a great Valentine's Day dinner recipe; share Valentine's Day date ideas; spotlight a love song that will encourage you to stay in the game; encourage you to go enjoy beautiful Caribbean islands, and give you date night ideas to enjoy after Valentine's Day!
Kindness
Happy Valentine’s Day!

It’s love month and we want to know, are you in love? John 13: 35 says, “by this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another”. Others, especially our spouses, should be able to tell we are a child of God and that we are in love by how kind and loving we are to one another. The Kendrick brothers maintain that love makes us kind . Proverbs 3: 3-4 (NLT) says, “ Never let loyalty and kindness leave you , tie them around your neck as a reminder, write them deep within your heart “. Kindness makes us likeable and fun to be with. Are you planning something fun for your Valentine?

Our satisfaction this Valentine’s Day….our satisfaction with our marriages overall is linked to the kindness we extend and receive from one another, daily. The sad reality is that some people do not know how to express kindness . If we didn’t grow up in an environment where kindness was modeled and taught, we may lack the ability to treat others with kindness . If we were raised by a virtuous woman, Proverbs 31:26 (KJV), tells us that she spoke with wisdom and “ in her tongue was the law of kindness .” Some of us had this experience and some of us didn’t. If you missed the lesson and are still learning and growing in the area of expressing kindness , we want you to remember…

  • Kindness takes initiative….it is the first one to say “Hello”, “Good Morning”, and “Goodnight”; it initiates the kiss or the hug when entering the room/house; it’s the first to smile; serves the other person first; and forgives first.
  • Kindness includes being gentle….it is never unnecessarily harsh, irritable, rude, or disrespectful; kindness has a mild, tender temperament, and is sensitive, considerate, and compassionate.
  • Kindness is helpful….it is eager to help and eager to please; it is supportive and thoughtful; it thinks ahead about the needs of others; it is willing to meet whatever the need is at any given time.
  • Kindness is willing…it is agreeable; it cooperates; it stays open and flexible; it’s accommodating; and, it adjusts.

We cannot truly express love until we first learn how to be kind.
We challenge you this month of love… this “heart” month, to make kindness your mission everyday on this beautiful journey called marriage.

In Love,

Paula and Sherman Newman
Valentine's Day Gift Ideas
  • Shutterfly photo collage blanket
  • Personalized throw pillows
  • Things Remembered personalized gift
  • Matching robes and slippers
  • Roses
  • Jewelry
  • Spa gift certificate (i.e. massage, nails, hair)

How about a romantic night away from home?

Romantic night away, but in town on Saturday, February 16, 2019….see Travelocity:
$90.00 Residence Inn ·       Shutterfly photo collage blanket
·       Personalized throw pillows
·       Things Remembered personalized gift
·       Matching robes and slippers
·       Roses
·       Jewelry
·       Spa gift certificate (i.e. massage, nails, hair)
·       Romantic night away, but in town….Saturday, February 16, 2019….see Travelocity:
$90.00 Residence Inn Brier Creek; $80.00 Aloft RDU- Brier Creek;
$80.00 Fairfield Inn and Suites Brier Creek;
$92.00 Hotel Indigo;
$135 Marriott Crabtree;
$139 Statewide Hotel in Raleigh, NC
 

 

Valentine's Weekend Breakfast/Brunch
Heron’s Restaurant at the Umstead Hotel and Spa in Cary, North Carolina- https://locu.com/places/herons-cary-us/

Fairview Dining- we prefer the Weekend Brunch, http://www.washingtondukeinn.com/durham-fine-dining/fairview-dining-room/

Brasa Brazilian Steakhouse- Champagne Sunday Brunch, http://brasasteakhouse.com/menu/

First Watch Restaurant- Breakfast, https://www.firstwatch.com/
A Great Dish for Valentine's Night
Tuscan Macaroni and Cheese

Ingredients
  • kosher salt
  • 8 oz. Macaroni
  • 2 tbsp. butter
  • 3 tsp. minced garlic
  • 2 tbsp. all-purpose flour
  • 2 1/2 c. heavy cream (or half-and-half)
  • Freshly ground black pepper
  • 1 tsp. Italian seasoning
  • 1/2 c. shredded Italian blend cheese
  • 1 12-oz. jar roasted red peppers, drained and chopped
  • 1 c. packed baby spinach leaves
  • 1/3 c. diced mushrooms

Directions
  1. In a large pot of salted boiling water, cook pasta according to package directions until al dente. Drain and return to pot.
  2. In a large skillet over medium-high heat, melt butter. Stir in garlic until fragrant, 1 to 2 minutes. Sprinkle flour over butter and stir until thickened. Gradually whisk in heavy cream (or half-and-half) until smooth.
  3. Season with salt, pepper, and Italian seasoning. Stir in shredded cheese until melted, then add pasta to skillet and stir to combine.
  4. Add roasted red peppers, spinach leaves, and mushrooms. Stir until spinach is tender. Add salt and pepper if needed. Serve immediately.
Valentine's Day Date Ideas
See Eventbrite for tickets to the following,  https://www.eventbrite.com/d/nc--durham/valentine/


License to Love' Valentine's Day Event, West Social Raleigh, 400 North West Street, #110, Raleigh, NC 27603; Thursday, February 14, 2019, 7:00 PM – 10:00 p.m.; Come out and celebrate LOVE Day regardless of your relationship status! Join the SIR Entertainment Team for a mixer, games, music and good ol'- fashioned fun. Starting at $20.00.
 
An Intimate Night with Zweli's "Valentine's Day Cooking Class" by Chef Zwe. Wednesday, February 13, 2019; 6:30 PM – 8:30 p.m. , 4600 Durham-Chapel Hill Blvd, Suite 26, Durham, NC 27707; $180
 
Valentine’s Day @ The Lynk, Thursday, February 14, 2019, 10:00 p.m. – Friday, February 15, 2019, 2:00 a.m.; The Lynk, 410 Glenwood Avenue, #140, Raleigh, NC 27603

Valentine's Restorative Aerial Yoga Couples Date Night, Sunday, February 10, 2019, 5:00 p.m. – 6:00 p.m.; Cary Hot Yoga, 972 Kildaire Farm Road, Cary, NC 27511; Aerial Restore combines the support and comfort of an aerial hammock with restorative yoga poses. The result? A melting away of physical and mental tension and a deeply rested body and mind. In this class you will float through a series of luxurious supported poses with the aerial hammock positioned about a foot off the floor. Drift quietly for several minutes as the gentle positions facilitate deep release in the physical and energetic body. $30 – $50.
 
Gamma Gamma Chapter of Phi Beta Sigma Valentine's Gala. Friday, February 15, 2019, 7:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m.; Mary Townes Science Building, 1900 Concord Street, Durham, NC 27707; Join Phi Beta Sigma for our Valentines Formal, and enjoy a catered dessert bar, buffet, music, games, and special prizes. $9 – $42
 
Valentine's Day Chocolate Tasting Party; Thursday, February 14, 2019, 6:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m.; Special Treats, 1129 Weaver Dairy Rd., Unit R, Chapel Hill, NC 27514. $10
 
CBT presents Black dresses and Blazers Valentine’s Day Masquerade Ball. Thursday, February 14, 2019, 8:00 p.m. – Friday, February 15, 2019, 2:00 a.m. at 310 South Harrington Street, Raleigh, NC 27601. $20
 
TheDoor Valentine Affair Jazz and Coffee Night. Saturday, February 23, 2019, 7:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m. at 1631 Midtown Place, Suite 104, Raleigh, NC 27609, TheDoor is having a Valentine Affair Jazz & Coffee Night. This event will include poetry, spoken words, jazz music and of course food. Many artists from various cities will perform. $10
 
Bake and Sip; Friday, February 15, 2019, 6:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m.; Leap of Faith Academy, 2604 Carver Street, Suite H, Durham, NC 27705. Looking for a night out? Come enjoy this unique experience. Relax to the soothing music and wine while you learn how to decorate a beautiful cake. $40 – $75
Valentine's Day Song Spotlight
Worth It All by Jeffery Osborne, https://youtu.be/Hg-zXUxUOWk


Get Away for a Visit to A Caribbean Island, Soon!
Plan a Caribbean Vacation: Fly and Stay or Cruise


·       British Virgin Islands: Tortola, Virgin Gorda, Anegada, Jost Van Dyke
·       St. Lucia
·       U.S. Virgin Islands: St. Thomas, St. John, St. Croix, Water Island
·       Turks & Caicos
·       St. Vincent & The Grenadines
·       St. Barts
·       Anguilla
·       Curacao
·       Cayman Islands
·       Antigua
·       St. Kitts & Nevis
·       Barbados
·       Guadeloupe: Les Saintes, Marie-Galante, La Désirade
·       St. Martin - St. Maarten
·       Grenada
·       Aruba
·       Havana Cuba
 
Places that didn’t make the list, but you still may want to explore them: Bonaire, Barbuda, Redonda, St. Croix, Bahamas, Hispaniola (Dominican Republic and Haiti), Puerto Rico, Jamaica, Dominica, Montserrat, Saba (Caribbean Netherlands), Sint Eustatius (Statia), Martinique, Costa Rico, Belize, Spanish Virgin Islands, and Trinidad and Tobago.
Newmans in Jamaica in February 2019
Date Ideas

The Barn Dinner Theater: A night of music filled with love songs and dinnertainment. Timeless will be showcasing music from classic artists such as: Sam Cooke, Marvin Gaye, The Elements, The Temptations, Luther Vandross, and MANY MORE! Timeless Soul Band, February 14 & February 15


World's Toughest Rodeo More Info
Sat • Feb 23 • 7:30 PM
PNC Arena, Raleigh, NC



Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater- Wednesday, 2/27/19 at 7:30 p.m. at the Gaillard Center in Charleston, SC

Elon University Speaker Series: Loretta Lynch- Thursday, 2/28/19 at 6:30 p.m. at the Elon University School of Law



Maze featuring Frankie Beverly More Info
Sun • Mar 31 • 7:00 PM
Florence Center, Florence, SC
 
UniverSoul Circus More Info
Wed • Mar 20 • 7:00 PM
Coastal Credit Union Music Park at Walnut Creek Circus Grounds, Raleigh, NC
 
Mike Epps: Funny As Ish Comedy Tour
Fri • Mar 15 • 8:00 PM
PNC Arena, Raleigh, NC
 
Tyler Perrys Madeas Farewell, Tuesday, April 30- Thursday, May 2
7:30 PM - Durham Performing Arts Center
 
Charlie Goodnights: 02/17/2019 7:30 PM;Special Event: B. Simone. B. Simone is an American singer and actress, who was one of the recurring cast members on Season 9, who later returned to the show as of Season 11 of Wild 'N Out on MTV. B. Simone is hilarious, edgy, and already sweeping the world one like at a time. $25-35

Charlie Goodnights: Special Event: Luenell; A comedic force both on stage and on screen, Luenell has appeared in hit Hollywood films (Borat + Think Like A Man), small screen favorites (It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia + The Middle), and killer stand-up specials (Snoop Dogg's Bad Girls of Comedy + Katt Williams: American Hustle). March 14-17, 2019

Charlie Goodnights:Special Event: Jay Pharoah. ay Pharoah is an American actor, stand-up comedian and impressionist. Pharoah spent six seasons on SNL with iconic turns as President Barack Obama, Will Smith, Denzel Washington, Stephen A. Smith and Kanye West, as well as his recurring character of school principal Daniel Frye. His new show "White Famous" premiered on Showtime in 2017. April 18-20, 2019.
 

Livingstone College Jazz Ensemble- April 6, 2019 at 7:00 p.m.; Duke Energy Center for Performing Arts; Fletcher Opera Theater

India.Arie - The Worthy Tour
Wed • May 01 • 8:00 PM
Carolina Theatre , Durham, NC

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