The energetic vibration of visibility is all about how you show up in the world and how the flow responds to the vibration you put out. As a business owner, I am constantly exploring the depths of my visibility and flow—whether it is through marketing, increasing clientele, how hard I push, how hard I work, networking, networking, and more networking. My visibility can lead to burnout, so I have been exploring this space and realizing that I have been working more from a masculine energy space rather than a divine feminine space of allowing, trust, and flow.

How are you doing with your own vibrational visibility? Do you feel in the flow, or do you sense some kinks—where things just don’t seem to flow your way as much as you’d like?

When you work within the area of visibility, it entails these key elements:

• Staying in a state of allowance. What is allowance? What is control?
• Control is the masculine space. Allowance is the feminine space. The key is to balance both.
• Control is focusing on the outcome and doing the activities to get to the outcome.
• Allowance is focusing on the effects of the outcome and how it will feel to have it here.
• Allowance is made up of:
• Trust
• Flow
• Asking for it to show up
• Visualizing what it looks like and feels like, getting clear on the details
• Being grateful for all the little ways it shows up and celebrating it

To understand your current vibrational visibility, you have to dig deep and begin to recognize where you are showing up—and where you are not.

To understand where you aren’t showing up, ask yourself:

• What have I been holding back from doing, saying, or asking for?
• What is the goal I am trying to achieve, and where am I in relation to this goal?
• What has stopped me from getting to this goal?
• What are the shadow mindsets blocking the vibrational visibility I want to be at?

The subconscious shadow mindsets can cause us to become stuck or immobile, slowing the flow of abundance. The shadow mindsets within visibility can be:

• Not feeling safe to be seen
• Not knowing how to receive or what to do when you receive
• Feeling like you are not enough or not good enough
• Believing you don’t have what it takes or don’t know enough
• Thinking you need to prove something first

So what are some things you can do?

Each thread you pull in this area will start to unravel what is there. For every action, something will shift in this space. I can attest that when I put focus on this and do some sort of activity, all of a sudden, a flow comes in for me—so I know it works!

Here are some tips you can try:

• Meditate. You don’t have to do anything fancy. Put on some music, close your eyes, breathe in through your nose, and exhale through your mouth. Repeat this 5–10 times to get your mind into a Theta state. Then, place yourself in a sacred space (I use a field of flowers on a mountaintop as my sacred space with clients) and see that space clearly in your mind’s eye. What does this sacred space have? A lake, trees, caves, a forest, animals? Ask your Spirit Guides and Angels to join you in this space, then ask them to help you understand what is blocking you from being visible. Where is it coming from, or from whom? Simply note what you hear—don’t question where it is coming from, just trust.
• Journaling. Write about why you are stuck receiving more visibility and flow. Reflect on what has been happening and how it makes you feel. This is not just about writing it down; it’s about opening the emotional centers where this shadow mindset is sitting so you can bring it to the surface and release it.
• Mind Map. Sit with a piece of paper. Put visibility in the middle and start writing down everything that comes to you—how you are not being as visible as you want, ways you want to be more visible, people who may help you become visible, and any subconscious feelings that come up when you think of stepping into more visibility.
• Affirmations/Mantras. Affirmations aren’t just about making you feel good—they retrain the brain to believe something is true. Repeating a mantra or affirmation rewires the brain, shifting your vibrational field to align with a positive belief system. Some powerful affirmations to try:
• I am that good at what I do.
• It is safe for me to be visible.
• I am being seen in the highest and best way for me.
• I am in the perfect flow for me.
• I am worthy of showing up in the world.
• I am surrounded by a beautiful flow of visibility.