Current Comos

We are in the first full moon of the year! It is a full moon rising in Cancer which causes more emotional type rollercoasters than usual. Since this is still the winter energy it is about respite, self-care, and self-love so that you allow the body to recharge for that sprint catapulting that will come in March!

There is a lot of loss going on now so open your hearts and pay it forward somehow for someone. This helps spread the love and good juju where it is needed. If you cannot contribute financially then:

• Go donate your time somewhere like a food bank
• Call a friend who may need help and offer assistance
• Buy someone a lunch who doesn't always have access to being able to get food.

I assisted someone today who needed help, with something as simple as getting some clothes and running errands. I could have thought it was a lot out of my busy schedule to do that but it made me think: who will be there when I am in that space that I cannot take myself around as easily? So, a few hours of my day to pay it forward very humbled me to remember that I have it easy compared to others.

Loss is defined in many ways with many meanings so go turn someone's loss into a little bit of joy and ease.

As Mystic Mama says: "so as the FULL MOON stirs the tides within us, sending soothing prayers into the sea of us is what is needed… ". So send your good juju out.

In times of chaos, loss, and tragedy, it is important to :

• Stay present: this helps maintain clarity
• Self-Care: fill your cup so you can fill someone else's.
• Meditate/Journal: This helps keep the shadows and the limiting beliefs at bay. Don't get attached to the outcomes or what is out there. Dump what comes up.
• Be grateful: When you focus on the good that happened more good comes in. When you focus on all the negative things that pop up, it just swallows you in that space and more of that comes in.

Shadow Trends

Here are the last couple of weeks of shadow trends. How do you relate to these? Do you find that you hold onto these trends yourself? If you do, start to pull the threads on these so you may start to close some of them down. Shadows are not our enemy, they are our partners in showing us lessons for our own growth. It is not about powering through your shadows it is about connection, understanding, and then action.

Self-Sabotage:

Ex: Supporting someone else's success, survival, or stability before your own.

Also tied to Not Enough, Self-Sacrifice, Not Safe To Be Seen

Not Enough

Ex. Putting off a goal or task because "it's just not ready enough",

Struggling with a scarcity mentality, not having a tribe, struggling with authority.

Also tied to Safety, Not Being Seen, Not Being Heard, Abuse, Rejection, Abandonment

Power Taken Away

Ex. Being shut down, not being acknowledged enough, holding self-doubt, too many situations of being rejected, and going into survival situations.

Also tied to: Same as above but also Unlovable, Feeling Incapable, Not Being Able To Speak Your Truth, Competitive Connections

Not Safe

Ex. Abusive situations in the past place you in a space of not feeling space with people and surroundings. Being rejected by someone can make you feel unsafe. Being abandoned in the past can also place you in a place where people or places are unsafe.

Also tied to: Safety, Abuse, Not Being Seen, Not Being Heard, Boundaries Being Crossed, Feeling Unworthy

Judgment

Being surrounded by judgy people can trigger self-judgment and false beliefs about your worth, capability, and power. It can cause a downward spiral of scarcity, self-love, and self-care.

Also tied to: Self-Worth, Needing To Prove Something, Over Compensation, Safety, and Constant Protection (which blocks your space of allowance). Also Affects Speak Your Truth

Rescue Energy

When we rescue people we can put ourselves into a place of other people's stories. As I always tell my clients "hold the space, do not become the space." When we rescue we step into someone else's karmic story and that can become ingrained in your story which then bleeds into a behavior pattern where you give more than you receive

Also tied to: Survival, Ancestral lines, Not Enough, Not Being Seen Without Doing Something, Being Undervalued, or Not Safe To Receive

Time To Get Clear

This usually means a change, transition, or ending is happening or going to happen. The Angels usually send this message when they want you to:

• Recalibrate your values or goals
• Find out what you really desire
• Connect to your soul's purpose more
• Get back on track to what is in your highest and best
• End something that is not serving you and is keeping you stuck, in a negative place, and causing friction on your path.