Restorative Justice Program News & Updates
December 21, 2021 | Issue 15
Community Ambsassador Highlight
Twenty-five. That’s the age that researchers tell us that the decision-making part of a person’s brain fully develops. Twenty-five. Hopefully that offers some consolation to every flabbergasted parent or teacher whose ever dumbfoundedly asked a kid “What in the world were you thinking?” after they’ve made some seemingly insane choice, and had that kid look back at them, equally amazed, and answer just as earnestly as you please, “I don’t know.” Well, here’s your answer . . . part of it, anyway. Twenty-five.

Youth don’t think like adults. It’s not that they don’t want to. (Most—if not all—of them think that they are way more mature than they actually are.) The truth of the matter is that they don’t have the capacity to think like adults and won’t until they’re about twenty-five years old. The juvenile justice system is founded on the understanding that kids are not miniature adults. They’re kids. While we don’t use their age to make excuses for their behavior when it’s inappropriate, we definitely take their age into consideration when determining how to respond to their improper actions, which is why we’ve developed an entirely different system—completely separate from the adult system—to deal with young offenders.

The purpose of the CSS Restorative Justice Program is to provide diversion programs that hold youth who’ve committed offenses accountable for their actions while steering them away from the criminal justice system. But what happens when that’s not possible? What happens when a youth is formally charged with an offense and subsequently found responsible, landing them smack dab in the midst of the juvenile justice system? What happens then? Hopefully, that youth will get the support they need to get their lives back on track. That’s what Juvenile Court Counselor Steven Tadlock says he’s committed to seeing happen.

Every youth whose found responsible (the word “guilty” isn’t used in the juvenile justice system) for an offense and placed on probation is assigned a juvenile court counselor. According to Court Counselor Tadlock, his job is to supervise and mentor juveniles. He does that by locating and referring the juveniles to mental health services, community intervention programs, and placements that best suit the needs of each individual kid. The aim, Court Counselor Tadlock says, “is to help them be successful.”
Court Counselor Tadlock, a Goldsboro native, has been a court counselor for two years. He says that ever since he was a teenager himself, he’s had a desire to help families and kids. He explained, “I saw firsthand kids my age turn to the streets for support. I often wondered if one voice—my voice—would ever make a difference in the choices that a person would make.” When asked what the best part of his job is, Court Counselor Tadlock stated, “The best part of my job as a court counselor is when you see the positive little changes that kids make. As time goes by you see these small changes become big changes. You see attitudes change and confidence grow with these kids.”
Even though he works with youth who’ve gotten into some type of legal trouble, Court Counselor Tadlock says that he tells them, “Don’t allow either the past or the present to hold you back from your dreams. Your past and your present experiences can make you into a better and stronger person.” Court Counselor Tadlock challenges the young people he works with to look beyond their present circumstances. “I encourage my kids to look outside their front door and then I ask them what do they see? They often say nothing. I say exactly. There is more to life than what is outside your front door. Everyone has dreams and if you work hard enough, any dream you set for yourself can come true.” It’s advice like this that helps our young people recover from missteps on their journey to twenty-five.
From left to right: Nancy Hodges, Barbara I. Nelson, Pamela Stokes, William (Billy) Lassiter, Aleisha Santos, Cindy Porterfield
Billy Lassiter, Deputy Secretary of Juvenile Justice at NC Department of Public Safety, was the guest speaker at the Communities Supporting Schools annual meeting. Mr. Lassiter spoke about the positive impact that legislation such as Raise the Age has had on juveniles in North Carolina. Drawing from personal experience, Mr. Lassiter stressed the need for effective advocacy for juveniles.