Coastal Women's Forum Newsletter December 2023

President's Message

Dear CWF Sisters,


Member-Driven Organization is a term that keeps coming to my mind these past few months as I live and breathe the activities of Coastal Women’s Forum while serving as President of this amazing organization of women. Here’s why:


CWF is an organization that is led solely by its members.


CWF is an organization that exists solely for the benefit of its members.


While over the years, we have, as an organization, reached out in service beyond our members—most notably with our scholarship program and our annual President’s Charity—our focus continues to be aligned with the organization’s original mission to offer encouragement along with educational and networking opportunities for our members. This was a daring choice for the working women who founded the organization back in 1988—a choice to serve themselves, to empower themselves, and to encourage their CWF sisters to do the same. It was an important choice that continues to benefit its members today.


At meetings and in our newsletters, I have spoken of the many member benefits of our organization. Today, I want to focus on the contributions that have, over the past thirty-five years, made those benefits possible. Contributions of ideas, efforts, resources, and time provided by—you guessed it—our members.


Since its inception, CWF has been led by a volunteer board of directors. Over the years, those positions have changed as the organization evolved. Today, our board is comprised of fifteen positions. In addition, we have developed two standing board committees (Special Events and Programming) and are looking to add a third to assist with the many aspects of Membership. This year, we also have an ad hoc committee to coordinate CWF’s 35th Celebration Event.


I want to take a moment to thank all the members who have contributed to the board and/or board committees this year:


Beth Atkins, Katie Coyle, Ann Marie Devanney, Anna DiNisio, Michele Douglas, Lisa Esposito, Lois Flemming, Bev Horvath, Christina Howerin, Linda Jarvis, Diane Jones, Barb Krcmar, Terris Lovelle, Debby Lutz, Kelly Michaud, Triste Minton, Taylor Paramore, Deserae Potter, Katy Pugh, Bonita Simmons, Heather Thornburg, and Leigh Wilkinson


I don’t believe it is by chance that when put in alphabetical order, the list above begins and ends with CWF charter members Beth Atkins and Leigh Wilkinson, who thirty-five years after they helped get CWF started, continue to contribute to the well being of the organization, today! That is the epitome of a healthy member-driven organization. We need every member to, at some point or points during their membership journey, contribute their time and effort to the running of the organization.


To all those who, over the past thirty-five years, have contributed to that effort—THANK YOU! You are the reason we are all benefitting from CWF today.


This year’s board and committee members are working diligently to continue to provide interesting and engaging educational and networking opportunities to our members in an encouraging and empowering environment, and we’d love to have more members join us in those efforts.


If you have been a member for a while, assisting the board in a small or big way is a great way to give back to CWF. So, if you are interested and willing to offer your skills, talents, and time to the organization, please know that you don't have to wait to be asked! This is your organization! Feel free to speak to one of our board members at a meeting, send an email to [email protected], or call me at 781-354-8236.


If you are a new member, assisting the board in a small or big way is a great way to get your name out there, meet more CWF sisters, and build deeper connections. If you are interested and willing to offer your skills, talents, and time to the organization, please know that you do not need to wait until you are asked. This is your organization! Feel free to speak to one of our board members at a meeting, send an email to [email protected], or call me at 781-354-8236.


Thank you for taking the time to read my message and considering how you can contribute to this fabulous member-driven organization we all love! I hope to see you soon!


Take care,

Beth

We Hope You'll Join Us For...

Coastal Women's Forum's Evening Meeting

December 5, 2023, 5:30-7:00 pm

at The Chelsea

Coastal Women’s Forum December daytime and evening meetings are dedicated to celebrating our 2023 President’s Charity –

Tried by Fire, Inc.

Tried by Fire, Inc. is a non-profit organization “Committed to Helping Women Through the Tough Times.” A key goal of the outreach ministry is helping women to start over post incarceration. Tried by Fire partners with other agencies, churches, organizations and individuals to provide counseling, education, training, housing, employment, criminal justice compliance and other basic needs.


A hallmark project of Tried by Fire is My Sister’s House, a home that will provide temporary shelter for up to eight women in a monitored, supportive environment after their release from prison. My Sister’s House is the realized vision of a village of dedicated women and men who are committed to helping women rebuild their lives toward a positive and productive future.


Tried by Fire Chief Vision Executive, Bonita Burney Simmons and Volunteer and Resource Coordinator, Deedra Durocher, both members of Coastal Women’s Forum, will tell the story and vision of Tried by Fire. They will be joined by women who share compelling insight into how their lives and the lives of their families and communities have been enriched by Tried by Fire volunteers and partners.



Please join us for our evening meeting on Tuesday, December 5, at 5:30 PM, at The Chelsea Restaurant (Daytime Wednesday, December 13, at The Flame) to learn more about Tried by Fire, Inc.

Thank you to our December 5th Evening Sponsor

Deborah Cook, Prudential Advisor


Hi! I am Deborah Cook. Being a Financial Planner for over 20 years, I have seen markets go up, markets go down and everything in between. My experience of walking many people to and through retirement is most valuable to all who come to me for Financial Advice. Whether you do a full financial plan, portfolio planning, income strategies or just want to keep with the ever-changing tax implications, please consider me a resource for the stages and ages of your life.


Deborah Cook ChFC® RICP® | Financial Planner | Prudential Advisors 3012 Trent Road New Bern, NC 28562 252-259-2791


 [email protected] www.prudential.com/advisor/deborah-cook

Coastal Women's Forum's Daytime Meeting

Wednesday December 13th, 2023, 11:30-1:00 PM

at The Flame

Tried by Fire, Inc. is a non-profit organization “Committed to Helping Women Through the Tough Times.” A key goal of the outreach ministry is helping women to start over post incarceration. Tried by Fire partners with other agencies, churches, organizations and individuals to provide counseling, education, training, housing, employment, criminal justice compliance and other basic needs.

Thank you to our December 13th Meeting Sponsor

Jeanette Paschal of Sound Meetings!

"Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope."  ~ Maya Angelou

 

Just a friendly reminder that the CWF President's Charity needs our support. Thank you for considering a generous contribution in the spirit of the season and in the spirit of love.

 

https://www.coastalwomensforum.com/Presidents-Charity

 

Warmest holiday wishes, everyone ... mmm, dessert! Enjoy!

My best, Jeanette

Calendar of Upcoming Events

January

17

January Daytime Meeting at The Flame

11:30-1:00pm (no evening meeting in January)

February

6

35th Celebration at the Chelsea!

The Celebration begins at 5:30

February

21

February Daytime Meeting at The Flame

11:30-1:00pm

March

23

Trade Share!

Saturday Noon-3:00pm at the Harrison Center

Welcome to Our New Members!

Heather Hall - Bankers Life (invited by Nelda Coats)

Helen Aitken - Writer

Darcy Gillikin 

Tammy Dickerson (invited by Deedra Durocher)

Deborah Schreck - Through the Arbor (invited by Telly Ipock)

Happy Birthday to ...

December



Erin Knight

Katie Shorter

Liz Gruen

Rose MacNeal

Sherry Rose

Tammy Dickerson


Are you a December baby but don't see your name on the list? Make sure your profile is updated with your birth month and your account is active. We want to celebrate YOU!

Member News

COATS FOR KIDS DRIVE

Flemming Chiropractic Center has started our 27th Coats for Kids Drive. Now through December 15th we are collecting new winter coats for local foster children. We need all sizes including adult sizes for teens. Monetary donations are also welcomed (checks may be made out to Friends of Foster Care). All items are distributed through Craven County Social Services Foster Care Program. Donations may be dropped off at my office Tuesday-Thursday 9-5. Help keep a child warm this winter!



Dr. Lois Flemming

Flemming Chiropractic Center

3601 Trent Rd., Suite 3

(near Carolina Bagel)

252-638-6062

5 Reasons to NOT Get a Puppy For Christmas!


The holidays are not the best time to get a puppy. Here's why. 

1. The holidays are too hectic. Puppies need time to adjust to their new home.

2. There are too many safety hazards. It is sometimes hard to pay attention to all of the mischief your curious new puppy could get into.

3. Picking out a new puppy should be a family decision. Find the time to do this together. Pick the breed that best suits the family dynamics. 

4. Training Needs to Start Immediately. With so much going on, there probably won't be enough time to start consistent training with your new puppy.

5. Children should know how to feed, exercise, handle, care for and train their new puppy. 



Remember, consistency in training is the key. Not training that puppy is the reason they wind up in a shelter,


by Liz Gruen

Dog Training With Liz

dogtrainingwithliz.com

321-634-2003

We Want Swag and Merch from Your Business! 


CWF is collecting gifts and prizes for our upcoming 35th Anniversary Celebration, Trade Share, Hat Social, and outside speakers


Wouldn’t you like to include an item with your or your business’ name on it? Many of us have marketing swag or merchandise that we provide for free to existing and potential customers or clients. Please consider donating items with a value of $5 to $25 each to CWF for use as prizes or gifts.


Alternatively, you could donate gift certificates of at least $5 each from your own or another area business in your name. Please contact Katie Coyle at [email protected] to let her know the item(s) you would like to donate or for more information. 


Our plan is to keep a list of available items and reach out to donors to arrange pick-up of specific items when needed. We see this as a win-win for CWF and you! Thank you!

  

Kathleen Coyle - "Katie"

Reminder to all the Amazing Women of our Networking Group!

We give to ourselves when we give to others.

Don't Forget to Submit!


Remember to submit your 150 word blurb to [email protected] along with one jpeg or png image by the 10th of the month for the next newsletter.