Etiquette (Almost ) Quick Tips
Holiday dress codes can be confusing. Here’s a primer for the two most common seasonal dress standards.
Many holiday parties call for cocktail attire. For women, or those who want to express their feminine side, this includes a cocktail dress (dresses that fall just above or just below the knee, typically known as a little black dress), a dressy pantsuit or skirt and elegant top. Cocktail attire for men, or folks who are drawn to more masculine apparel, the category includes a dark or mid-grey suit with a dress shirt worn with or without a tie. Dress shoes for both are appropriate. Avoid wearing athletic shoes, flip flops or outdoor boots.
If the invitation states festive attire, it means elements of cocktail attire but a little more sparkly, jewel toned or textured. For example, women can wear a luxe pantsuit, a sparkly top and textured or satiny skirt or sequined dress. Men can dress up cocktail attire with a holiday themed or colored bow tie, tie or pocket square. A textured suit would also be appropriate. You may skip the suit entirely and pair dress pants with a festive or colorful sweater or velvet blazer.
When in doubt ask the event organizer for help.
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