No, we can recognize that families are far from ideal without erasing their importance.

The immediate family might lack nearby extended family and a community of friends, contributing to loneliness and isolation. One spouse might abuse the other. Parents might inflict Adverse Childhood Experiences (“ACEs”), dominate their kids’ lives, or obscure their individuality. Shouldn’t people be able to escape these situations and find comfort with their “found families”?

Of course, nobody should stay in a dangerous environment, and it might be painfully necessary for spouses or children to live separately from their abusers.

There’s a difference, however, between acknowledging the faults and brokenness in a family and erasing the family altogether. One leads to greater self-understanding, the possibility of healing personal wounds, and more genuine relationship. The other seeks to exclude an essential aspect of a person’s identity.

National Marriage Week 2026

The observances of National Marriage Week (Feb. 7-14) and World Marriage Day (Sunday, Feb. 8) are an opportunity to focus on building a culture of life and love that begins with supporting and promoting marriage and the family. This year's theme is "Man and Woman He Created Them: Together with Purpose."

Looking for ways to strengthen your celebration of National Marriage Week? The USCCB's resources include a Lectio Divina guide, and At-Home Retreat, parish resources, and more!