"I grew up in an unstable household that left me feeling uncomfortable in my own skin. I quit school and just couldn’t find my way in life. Especially when it came to relationships. I was never taught what a healthy relationship should look like. For years, I lived a life of uncertainty and ultimately ended up in an abusive relationship. The relationship was so unsafe that the Department of Human Resources (DHR) removed my youngest son from my care. When I got the courage to leave my abuser, my oldest son, Hayden, and I became homeless. I decided I needed a fresh start. I had made a promise to myself to regain custody of my son, to value my life, and to never put myself in a domestic situation again.
When my family moved into Dumas Wesley’s housing program, the Baldwin Family Village, I finally had a safe place for me and my children to live. From the moment we got to the Village, we had everything we needed. It was such a relief to have a community that had our best interests in mind. I was challenged with the task of reinventing myself - I was beginning to love the new me! I enrolled in college. I received a scholarship from Vocational Rehab and decided to major in computer science. My children were happy! DHR noticed my efforts and granted me partial custody with overnight visits. A key turning point in my self-discovery was during a Healthy Relationships class. I broke down while listening to the instructor because I realized that a lot of her stories and statistics were me. It was an uncomfortable, yet important realization that I needed to have in order to grow.
All my life, I had lived a life of instability. The Baldwin Family Village taught me that living a life of stability was possible. I learned to believe, “why not me!” I felt capable of setting and accomplishing goals for myself. You can’t put a price on stability. It is so important for success. I can’t express how much this program means to us.
I graduated from the program in January. My son, Hayden, walked through the front door of our new, beautiful home, and said, “We’ll take it!” I never knew having a home like this would be possible. It has been such an easy transition from homelessness to independence because of the foundation that the Baldwin Family Village gave me and my family. My boys have settled in and have adjusted to home-life. I’ve even implemented several daily routines that I learned while at the Village. I finished my second semester of college with straight A’s! While at the Baldwin Family Village, my goals were to own a home on the Eastern Shore, to continue my education, and be an active and involved parent. It feels so rewarding to have accomplished these goals! Because of the Baldwin Family Village, I am a great mom and I’ve learned to become a woman with grace. I’m excited about our future!"
---Brittany, graduate of the Baldwin Family Village
The Baldwin Family Village (BFV) provides 12 months of housing stability and wrap-around services for up to 100 homeless women and children annually. BFV seeks to break the cycle of homelessness and help residents re-establish and maintain self-sufficiency by focusing on accountability, case management, life skills, and behavior modification. In May, the Baldwin Family Village will be celebrating its one-year anniversary. To-date, the BFV has served 70 individuals and 14 families have successfully transitioned into permanent housing.
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