Dying to be Loved: A Kleinian Perspective on Love, Starvation, and Reparation

The Boston Psychoanalytic Society and Institute presents

Join us in-person for the 2026 Alan Pollack Psychotherapy Conference

Saturday, April 11, 2026

9:00-12:15 PM

Dying to be Loved: A Kleinian Perspective on Love, Starvation, and Reparation

It is not uncommon for a patient to feel that there is something wrong in their body. However, when a patient’s fears persist and intensify over time, despite undergoing medical tests and interventions, how might a therapist think about what may be going on in the treatment? When this happens, the therapist often needs to tolerate powerful projections of fear and aggression, while trying to help the patient develop her capacity to tolerate closeness and distance in the therapeutic relationship. This paper traces the evolution of a treatment through the lens of Kleinian theory, focusing on a patient’s internal object world and making sense of enactments between patient and therapist. As the treatment evolves, and the therapist develops her capacity to receive and work with the strong projections such a case involves, the therapist describes how the patient begins to develop increased tolerance for the feeling of separateness.

Speakers

Lacey Liebert, LMHC is a graduate of BPSI’s Advanced Training Program in Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy (ATP). For the past 12 years, Lacey has worked at the non-profit Justice Resource Institute in a variety of roles, from Clinician to Clinical Director. She continues to work at a JRI community-based clinic in a per diem capacity. Lacey also has a private practice in Westborough, MA.

Kay Long, PhD is a psychologist and psychoanalyst in private practice in New Haven, CT. She is an Associate Clinical Professor in the Psychiatry Department of the Yale School of Medicine and a Training and Supervising Analyst at the Western New England Institute for Psychoanalysis, where she serves on the Education Committee and is Director of the Scholars Program. Her teaching and writing interests involve contemporary Kleinian approaches to therapeutic process and change. She serves on the editorial board of the International Journal of Psychoanalysis and is co-editor (with Penelope Garvey) of The Kleinian Tradition: Evolution of Theory and Practice (Karnac 2018).

Rachel McBride, PsyD is a psychologist and psychoanalyst in private practice in Brookline. She is on the faculty of the Boston Psychoanalytic Society and Institute’s Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy program and Adult Psychoanalytic programs. She is also a supervisor in BPSI's ATP program.

Moderator

Brad Shattuck, DO is a psychiatrist and psychoanalyst in private practice in the Back Bay of Boston. He is the assistant director of the psychotherapy program at BPSI. He also provides psychotherapy supervision to residents at Tufts Medical Center and is an assistant clinical professor at Tufts University School of Medicine.

Schedule

8:45 Coffee

9:00- Introduction

9:25 Presentation

10:25 Coffee Break

10:40 1st Discussant

11:10 2nd Discussant

11:30 Discussion with audience

Learning Objectives

At the conclusion of this program participants will be able to:

Describe the Kleinian notion of how unconscious phantasy emerges in symptom formation.
Discuss how countertransference can be used to understand a patient’s defensive use of splitting.
Describe how aggression influences the evolution of treatment.

This program is made possible through the generous support of Alan Pollack as well as BPSI members and friends.

Your gift to BPSI supports psychoanalytic and psychotherapy education and

ensures the future of our field.

To make a gift, please visit www.bpsi.org.

This program is made possible by the generous support of BPSI members and friends. Your gift to BPSI supports psychoanalytic and psychotherapy education and

ensures the future of our field.

To make a gift, please visit www.bpsi.org.

Recording

This event will be audio-recorded for transcription and archival purposes. The audio may also be used for educational purposes.

Continuing Education

Physicians: This activity has been planned and implemented in accordance with the accreditation requirements and policies of the Accreditation Council for Continuing Medical Education (ACCME) through the joint provider ship of American Psychoanalytic Association and The Boston Psychoanalytic Society and Institute. The American Psychoanalytic Association is accredited by the ACCME to provide continuing medical education for physicians.

The American Psychoanalytic Association designates this Live Activity for a maximum of 3 AMA PRA Category 1 Credit(s)™. Physicians should claim only the credit commensurate with the extent of their participation in the activity.

DISCLOSURE STATEMENT: The APsA CE Committee has reviewed the materials for accredited continuing education and has determined that this activity is not related to the product line of ineligible companies and therefore, the activity meets the exception outlined in Standard 3: ACCME's identification, mitigation and disclosure of relevant financial relationship. This activity does not have any known commercial support.

Psychologists: The Boston Psychoanalytic Society and Institute is approved by the American Psychological Association to sponsor continuing education for psychologists. The Boston Psychoanalytic Society and Institute maintains responsibility for this program and its content. This course offers 3 hours of CE credits for psychologists.

Social Workers: Application for social work continuing education credits has been submitted. Please contact us at team@bpsi.org or 617-266-0953 for the status of social work CE accreditation.

Please note: Per NASW requirements, social workers must attend 80% of a course in order to be eligible for continuing education credit.

Licensed Mental Health Clinicians: The Boston Psychoanalytic Society and Institute (BPSI) has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No. 6913. BPSI is solely responsible for all aspects of the programs. This program offers 3 NBCC Clock Hours.

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