Ashland Place

UNITED METHODIST CHURCH


October 16, 2025

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A mid-week word from Pastor Darren...

Dear APUMC Family,

 

A humble request was made to me this week by one of our beloved members, Valencia Montgomery. It is an invitation, really. A word of encouragement for the life of the congregation.

 

The invitation is to wear something pink to worship this Sunday as a sign of support for Breast Cancer Awareness Month. 

 

I appreciate Valencia lifting this cause before us as a means of health education, advocacy and support for women and families everywhere. It is also a perfect example of one of our worship themes for this season. It is a gentle reminder of the importance of solidarity with both friends and strangers.  

 

In his book, Reaching Out, Henri Nouwen says that no lasting healing will ever take place without what he calls a “solidarity of heart.” When I consider the variety of causes and concerns that could justifiably grab our attention these days, and how easy it is to be overwhelmed by them all, I am moved by the insight of Nouwen’s reflection written some 50 years ago.

 

“Maybe, for the time being, we have to accept the many fluctuations between knowing and not knowing, seeing and not seeing, feeling and not feeling, between days in which the whole world seems like a rose garden and days in which our hearts seem tied to a millstone, between moments of ecstatic joy and moments of gloomy depression, between the humble confession that the newspaper holds more than our souls can bear and the realization that it is only through facing up to the reality of our world that we can grow into our own responsibility.

 

Maybe we have to be tolerant toward our own avoidances and denials in the conviction that we cannot force ourselves to face what we are not ready to respond to and in the hope that in one future day we will have the courage and strength to open our eyes fully and see without being destroyed.

 

All this might be the case as long as we remember that there is no hope in denial or avoidance, neither for ourselves nor for anyone else, and that new life can only be born out of the seed planted in crushed soil. Indeed God, our Lord, “will not scorn this crushed and broken heart” (Psalm 51:17).

 

What keeps us from opening ourselves to the reality of the world? Could it be that we cannot accept our powerlessness and are only willing to see those wounds that we can heal? Could it be that we do not want to give up our illusion that we are masters over our world and, therefore, create our own Disneyland where we can make ourselves believe that all events of life are safely under control? Could it be that our blindness and deafness are signs of our own resistance to acknowledging that we are not the Lord of the Universe? It is hard to allow these questions to go beyond the level of rhetoric and to really sense in our innermost self how much we resent our powerlessness.

 

But life can teach us that although the events of the day are out of our hands, they should never be out of our hearts, that instead of becoming bitter our lives can yield to the wisdom that only from the heart can a creative response come forth. When the answer to our world remains hanging between our minds and our hands, it remains weak and superficial. 

 

When our protests…do not reach beyond the level of a reaction, then our indignation becomes self-righteous, our hope for a better world degenerates into a desire for quick results, and our generosity is soon exhausted by disappointments. Only when our mind has descended into our heart can we expect a lasting response…

 

It would be paralyzing to proclaim that we, as individuals, are responsible for all human suffering, but it is a liberating message to say that we are called to respond to it…It is this inner solidarity which prevents self-righteousness and makes compassion possible.” (emphasis mine).

 

This Sunday, we will consider the solidarity of Jesus as revealed in Luke’s episode of the 10 lepers. Like so many scenes in our lives, it is the compassion of Jesus that moves the story forward. And yet, what of our response to his healing? Will it keep us moving in that same direction? Or will we lose momentum altogether, soon to be stuck again?

 

I hope to see you this Sunday as we continue this series. Let us show up in solidarity with the mission of Christ and for the fellowship of this church family. Let us reach out with generosity for the sake of a hurting world. Let us gather in prayer and preparation for the Kingdom that is yet to come and already breaking through. 

 

I’ll be looking out for you. You look out for me. To make it even easier this week, I’ll be the one in the pink and blue bowtie. Seek and ye shall find! 

 

I also hope that you are making plans to be with us in worship for our Consecration Sunday on October 26 and join us for a celebration brunch in between services.

 

Reach out to one another…we want everyone here!    

 

 

                                                                       For Christ,

 

                                                                                               Darren

For this coming Sunday's bulletin...

Stewardship Campaign

October marks the beginning of our 2026 Stewardship Campaign. Our theme this year is “Reaching Out,” inspired by Henri Nouwen’s book Reaching Out: Three Movements of the Spiritual Life.


You should have received a packet in the mail with information about how you can support our 2026 Ministry Plan. Your commitment is an essential part of our stewardship journey—it helps us faithfully plan for the year ahead and extend our ministry of “reaching out” in new and meaningful ways.



As part of our celebration, we invite you to join us for a church-wide brunch on Sunday, October 26, at 10:00am in the Fellowship Hall (between the two worship services). It will be a wonderful time of fellowship and thanksgiving together.

Hoover, Debra, Come Fill Our Hearts

To better accommodate everyone’s busy weekday schedules, we’re moving Trunk or Treat to Sunday, October 26 from 4:00–5:30 p.m.



We still need donations of candy and two-liter drinks, as well as volunteers to host trunks. Your support helps make this a fun and festive afternoon for our community!

Calling All Retired Teachers, Grandparents, and Anyone Who Loves Kids!


Do you enjoy working with children and making a difference in their lives?


We are in need of substitute teachers to help support our classrooms M-F, 9-1.


Whether you’re a retired teacher, a caring grandparent, or simply someone who enjoys encouraging young minds, we’d love to have you join us!


Contact Mary Hunter Fuller for more information. (205) 936-0403


YOUNG ADULT SUNDAY SCHOOL CLASS


The new young adult Sunday School class is meeting at 10:00 am in the Fellowship Parlor!

Rev. Jennifer is teaching and would love for you to join this time of Bible study and fellowship.


RESCHEDULED!


Blessing of the pets has been rescheduled for Sunday, October 19th at 4:00pm. Bring your pets to the grassy area beside the Fellowship Hall parking lot for a fun time of music, blessings and fellowship!

Exciting Things are Happening in the Children’s Ministry


The children were awesome on Children’s Sunday! We are so proud of them as they grow in their service to Christ. We have a number of activities on the calendar for the next few months. Please keep these dates in mind and join us for Sunday School @ 10:00 every week! 




October 5: Reaching Out: Children will do extra chores at home to earn money ($2-3) for contribution to a basket for Sybil Smith Family Village. (October Mission Project)

                  

October 5: Kick-off Storytime for 3-4 year olds!! - 9:55-10:25 Landing


October 12: Practice will begin during the SS hour for the Christmas Nativity Program.


October 26: Trunk or Treat - 4:00pm TO 7:00pm


November: Emphasis on thankfulness and giving with mission projects and family sharing


December 10: Children’s Nativity Program - 6:30 pm Sanctuary  


December 14: Children’s Christmas Breakfast - 10:15 am Fellowship Hall



During the month of November, if you would like to share a story of Thanksgiving with the children or have an idea for a mission project, please let us know. Parents are always welcome to join us.



We sincerely appreciate the opportunity to share the love of Jesus with everyone!! 

AP YOUTH EVENTS

Youth events are open to youth in grades 7-12.

Friends are always welcome!

QUESTIONS?

Contact Joseph Griggs at (251)518-8001

WEEKLY YOUTH HAPPENINGS

Sunday School (10:00am)

Sunday evening fellowship (5:30pm)


2025 Sign-up


Altar Flowers - Would you like to honor someone, remember a loved one, or celebrate a happy occasion???


Click below for a link to Signup Genius.


Your $55 donation can be made to APUMC and placed in the offering plate, arranged online (apumc.com) or delivered to the office. Please include your preferred wording.

Around the Congregation...

Circle of Concern 

Please hold these persons in your prayers: Fay Adams, John Allen, John and Angela Bell, Jean Brown & son James Williams, Barbara Bohnhoff (Becky Mayhall's mother), Victor Brown (Dee Dee Cook’s brother), *Bob Cook, Braxton & Linda Lee Counts, Julie & Steve Dugan, Jake Elder, Mihyon Ellis, Peggy Emond (David Mayhall’s sister), Phillip Fields, Bruce Finley, Missy Foose, Marcia Golson, Curt Graf (Curtis Graf's father), Jim Harter, Diane Holub (Angela Prine’s mother), Barbara Hunt, Andrew Irby, Tyler Mazey, David Richards, Sara Robinson, Tom Root, Mary Davis Rutledge, Nancy Scott, Lonn Spencer, Peggy Tanner (Cindy Roton’s mother), Jody Thompson (Pam Bostick's brother-in-law), Louise Thomson, Sherry Thomson, Robert Wheeler (Emily McGough’s brother), Merrill Whitener, Kathryn Willingham, and all caregivers (*new concern this week

 

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