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More than 200 people gathered at the SJCC to watch Memories of a Room, a documentary about Hartley Stern’s mother and her family of eight, who survived the Holocaust together in Bussum, a small town in the Netherlands. The film follows several of their descendants as they visit the small room where the Veffer family hid for two years during the war. There were tears, laughter and genuine awe as those in the film and those of us watching in Ottawa considered what it took to keep a family of eight hidden and alive.
Think of the life the Veffer family made in that small room. There were birthdays, chagim, Shabbat and the daily rituals that held them together. Each member of the family was a whole world, full of potential and promise, rich in relationships. The people who helped protect the family saved each of those worlds.
After the screening, Hartley joined Alex Munter, chair of Federation’s Shoah Committee, for a conversation. Hartley said it seemed clear to him that the neighbours knew his family was hiding in that room. No one reported the family or the people protecting them. Other Jews also survived in hiding in Bussum. Their stories stand out in a country where about three-quarters of the Jewish population was murdered. There was something special about Bussum. It was a town where people chose to look out for one another.
We live in different times, and there is still something to learn from the people of Bussum. We want Ottawa to be a city of kindness, a place where Jewish people and residents of all backgrounds can live safely and thrive. The decisions we make and the relationships we build, within our community and beyond it, help make that possible.
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