There is no question that couples are waiting a lot longer to get married than couples did 20 or 30 years ago. In fact, a recent study shows that as the marriage rate has fallen, the number of adults in cohabiting relationships continues to increase.
Specifically, there are about 18 million people cohabiting, which is 29% higher than in 2007. About half of those in cohabiting relationships are younger than 35 years old. Further, since 2007 the number of cohabiting adults over the age of 50 has increased by 75%.
What do those statistics tell us about the state of relationships in this country? It tells us that there are many more couples who are living happily ever after, but do not feel the need to solidify the fairy tale with a marriage certificate.
The only downside to this trend for the unmarried couples out there is that, unfortunately our laws still favor marriage. Indeed, the legal system provides many benefits to married couples including:
- Hospital visits
- Joint tax filing
- Spousal privilege
- Inheritance; and
- Social Security benefits
Those benefits, and many others, are not afforded to unmarried couples under our laws generally. That said, there are things that you can do to ensure that you and your partner can still enjoy “marriage-like” benefits without having to get married. And that starts with an estate plan for you and your partner.
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