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The Bay Area's Resource For Active, Healthy Living After 50
Issue 123 June 2025
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Stories In This Issue
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Exclusive video interview: Ken Dychtwald on aging, purpose and reinvention
In this rare and candid conversation, world-renowned aging expert Ken Dychtwald goes beyond the data to share his personal hopes, fears and reflections on life, longevity and what really matters as we grow older.
New York: A classy city--Don Mankin
I love New York. Who doesn’t? The theater, the museums, the music, the food, the subways…well maybe not the subways.
Compassionate, continuum of care in Palo Alto
Explore Palo Alto Commons offering three senior living options: independent living, assisted living and memory care. Call Eleanor Lanuza 650.413.9981.
"I Fell And Couldn't Get Up"--Preston Huston
Last week, while reaching for a sweater in her bedroom, Judy fell.
Her walker slipped on the edge of a rug and down she went. She wasn’t seriously hurt—but she couldn’t get up.
ASK LARRY: "The Best Day Of My Life"
Too many accolades to count. But Ken Dychtwald says his greatest accomplishment isn’t professional. It’s marrying Maddy Kent on Thanksgiving Day, 1983.
Ready to make a difference after 50?
If you're passionate about a cause, now’s the perfect time to start your own non-profit. Reach out to Indu at indu@localbiznetwork.com.
"You don't have to leave it all to your kids"--Evelyn Preston
Enjoy the goal of using but never outliving your money, and just enjoy living. You don’t have to leave it all to the kids!
Thinking of moving to a senior living community?
Let Katie Cooney help you find the perfect place. She does the homework and takes you on tours. At no cost to you. Call 408.513.7838.
Living in a gold mine?
Unlock your home’s value with a reverse mortgage. Talk to Marilyn Brown Ross today—408.722.0010.
Looking for independent senior living?
Senior living doesn't get any better than living at Chateau-Cupertino whether you're in retirement or just ready for the next
great phase of your life. Call Marie Louise Cates 408.446.4300.
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Dear readers,
I recently had the pleasure of reconnecting with a longtime friend and one of the world’s foremost voices on aging, wellness and longevity—Ken Dychtwald, PhD,
Age Wave.
In our exclusive video interview, Ken opens up about more than just the future of retirement and longevity.He shares the deeply personal journey behind it all. The good and the not so good.
Ken’s latest book, Radical Curiosity. My Life On The Age Wave, began as a memoir for his family but turned into something more: a powerful life story filled with self-discovery, struggle and reinvention. From his hippie roots and yoga days at the Esalen Institute in Big Sur…to his bestselling book Age Wave to the meteoric rise and collapse of his company.
He even shares the darkest moment when he seriously contemplated ending it all.
But Ken came back to what he loves most: envisioning the human potential of aging. Today, he speaks with wisdom, humility and clarity about how we can all live with more intention.
Whether you’re 50, 70 or 90, I think you’ll find Ken’s story both inspiring and deeply relatable. And if you're wondering how to move forward with meaning and vitality, you’re not alone.
🎥 Click here to watch our full conversation.
Keep Moving!
Larry Hayes
Publisher, ActiveOver50
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Get up & go!
Trek on nature trails, learn about different cultures, explore historic sites, experience new culinary flavors, connect to people with shared interests and stay healthy. Info: Bay Area Older Adults.
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Looking for help?
Sourcewise offers support for older adults, caregivers and people with disabilities right here in Santa Clara County. Call 408.350.3200 or visit mysourcewise.com to learn more.
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Get involved!
Join the AARP Campbell Chapter for monthly meetings, fun events and volunteer opportunities. Learn more: AARP Campbell Chapter.
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“I Fell and Couldn’t Get Up”
By Preston Huston
Judy's Wake-Up Call. And What She’s Doing Now To Stay Safe At Home
Judy, 75, lives alone in a cozy home she’s known for decades. Last week, while reaching for a sweater in her bedroom, she fell. Her walker slipped on the edge of a rug and down she went. She wasn’t seriously hurt—but she couldn’t get up.
Luckily, her cell phone was in her pocket. She called her son and he came right over to help. But later, Judy confessed:
“I was scared. What if I didn’t have my phone with me? What if he hadn’t picked up?”
It was a wake-up call.
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"The Best Day
Of My Life"
--Ken Dychtwald, excerpt from his latest book: Radical Curiosity. My Life On The Age Wave
Ken Dychtwald, co-founder of Age Wave and a world-renowned expert on aging and longevity, has written 19 books, delivered talks to over 2.5 million people and advised top companies and governments across the globe including five U.S. presidents.
But he says his greatest accomplishment isn’t professional.
It’s marrying Maddy Kent on Thanksgiving Day, 1983.
“Our wedding day was, without a doubt, the very best day of my life,” Ken recalls. “We were flat broke—no savings, no investments, no 401(k)s—just credit card debt and a lot of love. But we believed in each other and in the life we could build together.”
To celebrate that love, Ken and Maddy made a vow to renew their marriage every year, a tradition that became a joyful ritual. One year, they exchanged vows on a beach in St. John, U.S. Virgin Islands.
Another year, on a snowy slope in Vail, Colorado. They said “I do” again in Moorea, Tahiti. And even at the famous Chapel of Love in Las Vegas.
Now, 42 years later, their commitment is as strong as ever. The love endures—rekindled each year, nurtured by intention and grounded in the life they’ve built together.
Got a question or comment? Ask me anything. If I don't know
the answer, I'll find someone who does. Ask Larry is written by Larry Hayes, ActiveOver50 publisher. Email: Larry@activeover50.com. Visit: ActiveOver50.com.
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Discover Chateau-Cupertino
Senior Independent Living Community With a Flair
Senior living doesn't get any better than living at
Chateau-Cupertino whether you're in retirement or just ready for the next great phase of your life. Enjoy a home-life environment in your own senior apartment with three fresh served home-style meals daily.
Housekeeping and laundry services, all basic utilities, great activity programs, game rooms and transportation--all included starting at $3,400 per month.
Located in the heart of Silicon Valley, Cupertino is one of the best places to live in the San Francisco Bay Area--home to world famous Apple.
Come and see for yourself. Chateau-Cupertino.
Call 408.446.4300. Or email: MarieLouise@chateau-cupertino.com.
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Make a Difference After 50
Start Your Own
Non-Profit Organization
By Indu Jayakumar
Most people, when they reach 50, start thinking about giving back to the community. If you have a passion for a cause, now is the perfect time to consider starting a non-profit organization.
But should you go through the process of setting up an organization with all the commitments of tracking income and expenses? Will your idea really work? Should you test the waters first? One effective way to start is by publishing a website and studying market interest before making a full commitment.
Will someone meet with me to understand my project?
Absolutely! We can meet with you in person or online to discuss your project in detail. Understanding your vision is key to helping you successfully launch your non-profit. We take the time to understand your project before recommending the best hosting plan for you.
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New York:
City Of Class.
From The Familiar To The Unfamiliar
By Don Mankin, Travel Writer
I love New York. Who doesn’t? The theater, the museums, the music, the food, the subways…well maybe not the subways.
This past April, my wife and I had the opportunity to sample it all during a one week visit to, in the words of writer, Bruce Jay Friedman, the “city of class.”
Of course, we did the usual — theater, museums, Central Park, etc. — but we also explored the far reaches of the city into outlying boroughs in search of the unusual and unfamiliar.
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When It's Someone You Love
By Katie Cooney
Is someone you love struggling to live safely at home alone? Are daily tasks becoming overwhelming or do they need more care than family can provide?
When it's time to explore options for senior living, in-home care
or community resources, I’m here to help.
As a Certified Senior Advisor, I specialize in guiding families through the complex and emotional decisions surrounding senior care.
Whether your loved one has had a medical event, is experiencing memory challenges or simply needs extra support, I provide
concierge-style assistance to match them with the right care and
living arrangements.
From assisted living and memory care to in-home services and local resources, I take the stress out of finding trusted solutions.
My goal is to ensure safety, dignity and peace of mind for your loved one—and for you. Let me help you navigate the next step in their journey with knowledge, compassion and care.
📞 Contact me today for a free consultation. Because when it comes to senior care, you don’t have to figure it out alone.
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You Don’t Have To Leave It All To Your Kids
By Evelyn Preston, Money Lady
As Huck Finn would’ve said, “Who’d a thunk it!” After so many years of endless advice to invest wisely in order not to outlive our money, I’m proof that it can be done and rather easily without convoluted strategies or risky investments.
My recent birthday proves that unless I live long enough to star in the Guiness Book of Records, I have enough money to last through my probable lifespan…and still leave a goodly sum to my heirs.
That’s based on my personal situation and the conventional formula of living 30 years after retirement. I’ve already gone halfway; do I have another 15 years…could happen. So, dividing my nest egg by 15, I still have enough.
Of course, this is unknown territory and each person must map out a tentative journey of their own probable lifeline. This personal treasure hunt toward a happy ending comes with snags and risks and surprises: health issues, changed living arrangements, family drains, investment shoals.
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Your Reverse Mortgage Questions Answered by
a Local Expert With 15+ Years' Experience
Q: Will the bank own my home?
The bank does not take ownership of your home; they simply extend
a loan to you. You continue to own and live in your home and are responsible for payment of property taxes, required insurance and if applicable, HOA fees.
Q: Do my children/family members lose their inheritance?
No, a borrower may designate an heir of their choosing.The heir(s) will inherit the home after the last surviving borrower passes away and may then choose to keep (by paying off the amount of reverse mortgage balance) or sell the home. Should they choose to sell, any remaining equity after paying off the loan (minus interest and fees) would be theirs.
Q: What is the lending limit of the HECM reverse mortgage?
As of January 1, 2023, it increased to $1,089,300. Which means
it's very likely you can qualify for more money.
To learn more about reverse mortgages, call me today 408.722.0010. Email: gmross2404@comcast.net.
Marilyn Brown Ross reverse mortgage professional
NMLS #453436/1221981
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