6 Lessons 6 Weeks of Crutches Taught Me
by Amy Johnson
Continuing with our 6-year celebration of Rock Steady Boxing, I thought I would share 6 valuable things I learned from being on crutches for 6 weeks.
#1 My leg shrunk, but my heart grew.
If you have ever had a body part part in a cast, you are familiar with muscle atrophy. It doesn't take long for a muscle to shrivel and disappear if it isn't used. The saying, "If you don't use it, you lose it," is true for many things, especially muscles. My left thigh is 1.5 inches smaller than the right. Oh where, oh where, did the quadriceps and hamstrings go? This slower pace on crutches has gifted me with more intimate time with the Lord. He has taught me that this dormant season is being used for my good and His glory. He is preparing the root and core of who I am and the character of my unseen places for the next season of my ministry. The Grinch's heart grew three sizes in Whoville. My heart and soul have tripled in size these last 6 weeks.
#2 People in the world are kind and considerate.
In a world that seems to be so distracted and self-centered, I was really surprised by how eager folks were to assist me. I truly felt seen by people of all ages. People noticed the challenge of the crutches and the need for help. The kindness of the human race was refreshing. An adolescent boy rushed to open a door for me. A senior adult couple helped me load bags into my car. I had an opportunity to meet and visit with people I never would have met. To share a moment of kindness and even the goodness of God with friends and strangers was rejuvenating.
#3 A strong body is vital when facing a physical injury or illness.
The number one question people asked me was, "Do your underarms hurt?" Nope! I'm so grateful for the upper body and wrist strength that allowed me to press my body weight into my hands instead of my armpits. I'm also thankful my right leg was strong since it was responsible for everything. Are you prepared and physically strong enough to compensate if you find yourself recovering from a surgery, illness, or injury? Here is my test for you. Sit and stand up from the toilet seat with only one leg. Can you do it? Balance on one leg and pick something up off the floor. Can you do it? Using the grab handle, pull yourself up into your car with only your upper body strength. Can you do it? If not, you've got some work to do. Be prepared for physical setbacks. They will come at some point in your life. Join us in the fitness ministry and we will equip your balance and strength for these unforeseen circumstances.
#4 Movement is medicine.
The first couple of weeks I was immobile I felt so bad. I'm not referring to the post-surgical pain (that is a whole different story). I felt sad, depressed and lethargic. I then realized why. I wasn't releasing "feel good" hormones through exercise and movement. The four feel-good hormones are dopamine, serotonin, endorphins, and oxytocin. These bodily chemical messengers are released into your bloodstream. They act on various organs and tissues to control how your body functions and feels. Dopamine is the pathway to pleasure and can provide an intense feeling of reward. Serotonin is a natural mood booster and can stave off depression and provide a feeling of euphoria. Endorphins are the brain's natural pain relievers and can release stress and create a feeling of well-being. Oxytocin decreases stress and anxiety levels and impacts relaxation and overall psychological stability. Exercise is the natural way to boost these "feel good" hormones, therefore; exercise is my drug of choice. As the weeks passed, my mind and body settled into this less than abundant life. I don't want to forget the euphoric feeling these natural drugs release into the blood stream. I don't want to stay here. And I don't want you to stay there either. Until you feel really good, you don't know how bad you felt. Maybe you are reading this and wondering if you could feel better. I'm here to remind you that you can. Exercise is medicine and a natural drug that can lead to better physical health and well-being.
#5 My husband is the kindest and most helpful man this side of heaven.
I knew this already about AJ, but the last 6 weeks he has once again shown me unspeakable joy, patience, and love. I can't count the number of times he has gone upstairs to retrieve something for me. He has taken care of my basic needs including shaving my legs! I bet that is something he never considered the day we said "for better or worse and in sickness and health." He caught me twice from what could have been devastating setbacks. Once when I passed out four days post-surgery and again when one of my crutches got caught on a step. My forward momentum was already in motion and he caught me as I was headed to the ground. I have certainly been needy and I am sure he is ready for me to be more independent! Give AJ a pat on the back next time you see him.
#6 LEAN on Jesus.
Challenges, setbacks, trials, hardships, heartaches and disappointments, no matter their source, can strengthen our faith and deepen our relationship with Jesus. Crutches have held me up physically, but Jesus has carried me spiritually. Proverbs 3:5-6 has been my life verse for 2024. The Lord has used it to shape and refine me emotionally, spiritually and physically. "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him and he will make your paths straight." In the stillness and slower pace of the last 6 weeks, the Lord has taught me that He wants me to LEAN on Him more and less on myself. The chorus of Bill Withers popular song Lean on Me says, "Lean on me when you're not strong and I'll be your friend; I'll help you carry on." When I listen to this song, I imagine Jesus singing it to me. I have a question for you. Who are you leaning on? Who is keeping you strong? Who is helping you carry on? I pray you will lean on Jesus. His arms are open wide. He wants to carry your burdens and give you rest. Today, allow the pains of your heart to pull you closer to Jesus. Find comfort in Him. Let the hurt point you to the Healer. Rest in His presence and reflect on His Word. Your current suffering cannot compare to the future glory He has promised you in heaven.
6 weeks has felt like 6 months, but I'm grateful for these 6 lessons the Lord has taught me.
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