First Presbyterian Church

Bi-Weekly Newsletter

October 17, 2023 - Issue 21

IN THIS ISSUE . . .


Pastoral Letter


Joys / Concerns


Worship


Faith Formation


Fellowship Events


Service and Mission Opportunities

LINKS



Online Calendar


Phishing & Spoofing



Ways to Give


Flowers for Worship

October Birthdays

Pastoral Letter


Dear friends,

 

The grief we are feeling is intense. Our hearts have been broken repeatedly as we have watched and learned of violence of horrendous proportions. So much anger, hatred, and vengeance has been directed at innocent infants, children, young adults, parents, the elderly and the sick. And let me be clear here, when I talk about this violence, I am talking about the horrors Hamas inflicted on innocent Israelis AND the horrors the State of Israel has inflicted on Palestinians in Gaza as they hunt down Hamas. Both are against our Christian understanding of how we are to live together. There is no justification in our faith for such violent acts against innocent children and other innocent civilians.

 

Our Christian history includes many who follow Jesus’ way of pacifism, arguing that there is never a time when acts of violence can be justified. Jesus tells us to turn the other cheek and to love our enemy and pray for those who persecute us. When he was arrested and one of his followers reacted violently by cutting off the ear of the slave of the high priest with his sword (Matthew 26:51-52), Jesus stayed his hand and said, “Put your sword back into its place, for all who take the sword will perish by the sword.” Mahatma Gandhi, Dorothy Day, Howard Thurman, and Martin Luther King, Jr. also called for non-violent responses to oppression and evil in the world.

 

“Nonviolence is absolute commitment to the way of love. Love is not emotional bash; it is not empty sentimentalism. It is the active outpouring of one’s whole being into the being of another,” wrote King.

 

The opposite of love is hatred. Love sees the image of God in the other. Hatred removed humanity from the other. What we are witnessing in Israel and Gaza is hatred and dehumanization on both sides. Innocent people are paying with their lives.

 

Our history also includes many faithful followers of Christ who argue that there are times when war is inevitable and necessary to fight against evil. This argument for “just war” includes many theologians and followers of Jesus (Augustine, Aquinas, Calvin, Luther, Barth, Niebuhr) and includes clear moral reasons to enter into a war to fight injustice. However, the support of such necessary engagement against evil never includes violence against infants, children, the sick, infirm, or elderly.

 

Christians around the world do not agree on the right and moral way to respond to the situation in Gaza and Israel. It is not clear. What is clear through our faith, theology, and history, however, is that violence against innocents is never a just or right path to peace.

 

Friends, my prayers include the many people in Gaza who have already lost family members and friends of all ages and are now being forced from their homes with nowhere to go and no way to safely travel. My prayers also include those Israelis and Americans who have been taken hostage by Hamas (and their families who are terrified that they will never see them again). These are prayers full of grief that lean into hope for an end to violence (on both sides), a release of captives, a just solution for Palestinians (who have been oppressed for far too long), and an end to the dehumanization and acts of hatred toward both Jews and Muslims.

 

Last night, we had a prayer service of lament, music, prayer and candle lighting. Here is the link to the two spoken prayers we used. 

 

Here is also a link to my sermon from Sunday, which also happened to be Children’s Sabbath. I preached on Philippians 4 and joy in Christ that brings wholeness even, perhaps especially, in the midst of pain. The sermon begins at about 21:53.


Friends let’s remain in conversation about this conflict, as well as the war in Ukraine. We will continue to share resources (see below) that will help us in this time of trial in our world.

 

With deep and abiding love for you all,

Mindy

 

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 To learn more about Just War theory, see this article:

https://eppc.org/docLib/20080205_palpatterson03.pdf

Sunday, October 22

29th Sunday in Ordinary Time

11:00 a.m. Worship

Jackie Rodriguez, preaching

Read about Jackie here.


The Prayer Shawl Ministry will meet this Sunday following worship in the Robert Daye Meeting Room.

This Sunday, October 22, new members who were received in October by the Session will be introduced and welcomed during worship. Contact Mindy or Esther if you are ready to join FPC.

MEMBERSHIP CLASS: 

FPC 101

So, how do I get connected to the life of FPC? This worship is different - why do we do it this way? What do we believe? What do elders do? 

FPC 101 - a class for new folks, new members, wanna-be members, recent members, and really anyone. Join us during the faith formation hour (9:45-10:45 a.m.) in Room 205 (Christian Education building, second floor, corner room). 

October 22

Topic: Worship - with Nora Tubbs Tisdale

October 29

Topic: Theology & Polity - with Heidi Biermann and Wilson Gunn

2024 STEWARDSHIP SEASON

Did you miss the Stewardship kickoff event? We invite you to watch this short video https://firstpres-durham.org/2024-stewardship-campaign/videos/ . We will be mailing out the stewardship packets if you haven’t picked yours up yet.


Check out our website for weekly updates with new videos and stories from members of our community about what FPC means to them. https://firstpres-durham.org/2024-stewardship-campaign/


Dedication Sunday will be on October 29, but you are welcome to submit your pledge before that date in person or online. Questions? Please contact Jon Abels by email or by phone 919-604-3546. Thank you for your support!

DEDICATION SUNDAY

Sunday, October 29

30th Sunday in Ordinary Time

11:00 a.m. Worship

FAITH FORMATION

FOR CHILDREN


THEME:

Flourishing In Faith.  

Age-graded classes for children are now being offered. Children meet at 9:45 on the second floor of the Christian education building.

A Study of Philippians

Join us on Sunday mornings

from 9:45-10:45 a.m.

in the Basement Parlor

(across from Youth classrooms)

For more information, please contact Susan Dunlap, sjd4@duke.edu.

Faith & Community Class

Check the Friday Weekend Reminders email for what is happening in this class on Sunday, October 22.

Lectionary Class

(meets year-round)

Join us each Sunday at 9:45 in the Robert Daye (East) Parlor for discussion of the lectionary readings.

October 22: What do we owe to the government? Taxes? Loyalty? 

Honor? Are the secular authorities ordained by God?

October 29: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” Matthew’s gospel doesn’t go on to tell a helpful parable explaining love of neighbor. Does “love” just mean “don’t hate,” or “don’t hold a grudge,” or “don’t take vengeance”?

Journeys Class

There will not be a Journeys class on October 22. We will return to Paul Simon’s music The Seven Psalms on the following week, October 29.   


For those just learning about this unit, HERE is the introductory email I sent to the class.


- Eric Wiebe

MnMs (Meaning in the Middle) Fellowship

We meet via Zoom at 8:00 p.m. on Sunday evenings. The Zoom link is sent each week to those on the listserve. To learn more about this class, contact Mary Berry or Emily Diy.

Wedding Anniversary: Congratulations to Jean and Harvey Estes are celebrating 75 years of marriage.

 

Condolences: The love and concern of the congregation are extended to:


  • Bishop Elroy Lewis and family on the death of his sister. Carnie Gillespie of Bladenboro NC died October 6.
  • Walker and Hailey Winslow Stephenson on the death of Walker's 98 year old grandmother.
  • Amy Bowers Heit and Jamey Heit (Annie and Isla) on the death of Jamey's mother. Bobbie Heit died on October 11.


Concerns:

  • Paul Cornsweet is a patient at Duke Medical Center
  • Susan Cyr
  • George Danser
  • Jean Estes
  • Andy Widmark
  • Emily Wilson


Click HERE to see additional concerns.

Pauli Murray

Video Showings

Pauli Murray is the unofficial saint of Durham, and we all now have the special opportunity to view the award-winning film “My Name is Pauli Murray” at the homes of FPC members on dates in October and November. Members of Covenant PC have been invited to join us at these showings. Please sign up to reserve a seat for a showing at this link.  

Saturday, October 21

9:00 a.m. - 12 noon

Barbara Buckley will lead another landscaping and grounds workday at the church. New gardeners are always welcome to join us.

Day Timers’ Luncheon

Tuesday, October 24

11:30 a.m. at Neo China

4015 University Drive, Durham

Hosted by Mickey Velkey

Please call, text, or e-mail Mickey to RSVP:

Marilyn.velkey@usa.net

601.750.3619 cell

Chancel Choir Gathering

You are welcome to bring your significant other or children. Just let Wendy know. Here’s the link: https://pp.events/avLzJQqy

COMMUNITY-WIDE

TRUNK or TREAT

We need your help!

Last year, we had a blast with FPC’s first-ever Trunk or Treat as FPC children and some kiddos from the community trick-or-treated at some tricked-out trunks in our parking lot. We need lots more trunks to be decorated and candy to be given out. There will also be face-painting and hotdogs (to balance out all that candy).  All FPCers are invited to decorate a trunk. Contact Stephen Berry if you have questions and to sign up to decorate a trunk.

First Friends

November Potluck

Save the Date!


Joy and Mike Kerner are hosting a First Friends potluck on Saturday, November 11, at 6:00 p.m. at their home.


Please bring a dish to share.

Evite coming soon. Call or email Joy with questions. 919-308-4051 or joy.kerner@gmail.com

 

Address:

112 North Riverdale Drive

Durham, NC 27712

Service & Mission

News from Abroad

The latest letter from one of the two PCUSA Mission co-worker couples we support - Kristi & Bob Rice in South Sudan is linked below. Their news is mostly about their travels to congregations in the US this year. It is followed by some tidbits from other mission co-workers whom FPC supports by our undesignated donation to World Mission.  


LETTER

Opportunities Galore for Serving our Community!

This fall, why not set aside some time to serve our community, get to know other amazing people, and finish your days knowing that your efforts have made a significant difference in the lives of others! We have multiple options for you at Iglesia Emanuel, so read on, and respond with joy!


The Emanuel Learning Center offers one-on-one tutoring two evenings a week, on Tuesdays and Thursdays from 5:45 - 7:00 p.m. We welcome new tutors who are willing to make a consistent commitment for one evening a week. You will not only help a young person with their academic skills, but also help them gain needed self-confidence in their ability to succeed. We provide the tools and training you might need. You bring the warm, caring heart. Contact Mimi Dunn for more information.


The Emanuel Food Pantry always has room for more volunteers and supporters. We continue to provide healthy food to over 600 families a week. Sign up at this link to find a spot for yourself on one of our shifts. You might work hard, but we promise you will enjoy the experience.


English as a Second Language classes for adults! Classes are scheduled to begin on November 2nd. Classes for women will be held on Tuesdays and Thursdays from 6:00 - 7:00 p.m., and for men on Tuesdays from 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Lead teachers and assistant teachers are needed. To learn more, contact Alicia Baucom at baudomalicia@yahoo.com, or 910 545-2640.