What is Facilitator Focus?
Facilitator Focus is a new communication that will zero in on one topic to help you make the most of your PREPARE/ENRICH certification and resources.
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This month we focus on the Couple & Family Maps, which are derived from the Circumplex Model.

The Basics:
  • The map charts how each partner perceives closeness and flexibility in the couple relationship and their family of origin.
    • Closeness is defined as the emotional bonding that couple and family members have toward one another.
    • Flexibility is the amount of change in leadership, role relationships and relationship rules.
  • The map consists of Balanced, Mid-Range, and Unbalanced areas, indicated by the different shades of squares.
Insights:
  • Balance is key. The 9 white squares in the middle of the map make up the balanced range. Couples and families that fall in this area are considered the most functional and healthy.
  • Family of origin is important because individuals often tend to recreate the type of family system they had as a child or react to it by doing the opposite.
  • It is normal for couples and families to move across the map as they go through different life stages and/or face major stressors.
  • If you administered the Parenting Version of P/E, the map will chart the corresponding parenting style of each partner overall and with each child.

Resources:

Giving Feedback | Couple Exercises | Recent Research  


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