During the last month, many of us celebrated graduations for our children and loved ones but for one of our Francis Court families, they faced wondering thoughts of what could have been.
At FaithWorks we have the honor of walking along side homeless veterans and families through the good, the bad and the ugly. Because of the close nature of the work that we do, we often spend more time with our clients than we do with our own family. It is so easy to care when the Lord always brings us the most amazing families, just like this one….
Jessica and her two children came to Francis Court 8 months ago after mom made a bold, life changing decision. Two years prior to becoming housed through our program, this family experienced an unimaginable tragedy. The eldest son, Chevy (15 at the time) was fatally injured, by a gunshot wound inflicted by another youth (neighbor and acquaintance). This tragic loss sent mom into an uncontrollable spiral and over time, she remained hyper-focused on the loss to the point where she could hardly function. As a result, the family became homeless, and the two children moved in with friends. Days turned into weeks, and weeks into months…. Mom began drinking and was spending everyday graveside, initially very angry at the youth who pulled the trigger. This darkness went on until Jessica’s name came up on our waitlist. During her interview she said, “I want to live and restore my relationship with my kids.” Even though it has been a challenging walk, this beautiful momma has done just that. We have been blessed to watch this family grow back together and learn to move forward, with forgiveness, strength, and love. Each of them has bravely faced life on life’s terms and are integrating new tools and relationships to help learn to live with the grief.
In June, the Class of 2023 invited Jessica to attend what would have been Chevy’s graduation. Amongst some of the last to walk, his picture was escorted to the stage in memory of and to honor his legacy. This gesture has rumbled hearts and moistened eyes, not just here at FaithWorks but locally as well. A reminder that Chevy is gone but not forgotten. The strength of our Francis Court Mom is so so impressive, and we are so proud of her for choosing life and taking steps to reunify her family. The kiddos are brave too! Jessica and family, we have cried with you, prayed for you, and been blessed by your journey. We will continue to pray and do what we can to help guide and support you to success. We love you! Thank you for allowing us to share the legacy of Chevy. Rest in peace young man.
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