St. Patrick Parish News & Updates

October 11, 2024 | Issue 41


A Word from the Pastor


October 11, 2024


I’d like to share a few thoughts about nurturing prayer in our families, especially with our children. How can we make family prayer a priority? What does praying with our family even look like? Sometimes kids struggle to pay attention so should we keep trying to pray with them? How do I pray out loud when it makes me super nervous?


We all struggle to know how to raise our kids to know and love God. I’m not sure anyone has mastered it and most moms and dads I talk to all agree that they are doing the best they can. I can assure you that praying together as a family is not always pretty. In fact, it can be a struggle. My first bit of advice: don’t expect it to be perfect. It may not go as planned.


But praying is about a relationship, not a perfectly planned time of prayer. It is a chance to model what a relationship with the Lord is. The heart of the matter is that we want our kids and families to fall in love with Jesus. As Christian parents, use prayer as a way to learn how to walk with God through life.


Your family is watching and learning what it means to be intimate with God. So, that’s what we try to do! We talk to God. Prayers do not have to be long or formal. It is ok to keep it light, casual, and use language the kids understand.


Cultivate an awareness of God’s presence in the details of everyday life – smell the flowers, marvel at the sunset, watch the ants. Spend time celebrating the creative brilliance of the One who made it all. His glory is everywhere and as parents, you get the opportunity to teach your kids to see it. Use bedtimes, mealtimes, moments of discipline, car conversations, conversations around fears or anxieties to pray with and for your family.


I want to share one simple idea that a parent shared with me many years ago. She told me that they keep a prayer jar on the dinner table. Any big jar will do, and it can be decorated, if you wish. Family members (of any age) are encouraged to write short prayers (petitions, expressions of gratitude, names of sick people, etc.) and put the papers in the jar. People can add to it at any time. When the family is gathered around the table for a meal or a prayer time, invite someone to pull out a paper and read it. Everyone is given the opportunity to voice a prayer for that intention or simply pray quietly. If time permits, more papers can be pulled from the jar. Conclude with grace before/after the meal or an Our Father.


I encourage you as a family to talk about when and how you want to pray. October is the month of the rosary. A Bible reading before bed can be a way to end the day. If you are already praying as a family, what do you want to add or change? If you are not praying as a family, start with something simple.


In one Heart,



Fr. Ron 


 rmbagley@yahoo.com

Thank You from Father Bill



Fr. Bill returned to the parish after spending one night in the hospital. After undergoing many tests, the doctors were able to determine what caused him to pass out in church and they corrected it. They sent him home with no restrictions and told him he could resume normal activities. He is most grateful to everyone for their prayers and expressions of concern.

All Souls Remembrance


In your packet of envelopes you will find one marked “All Souls Day.” You can use that to write down the names of your beloved deceased whom you would like remembered during the month of November. Put the envelope in any collection basket. If you don’t receive envelopes in the mail, you can use a plain envelope or you will find envelopes at the main doors of the church. These envelopes will be placed on the altar and remain there for the whole month of November.


Our annual Mass for those who have died during the past year will be on Monday, November 4 at 7:00 pm. Letters have been sent out to the families of those who had their funeral at St. Patrick Church. If you did not receive that letter, call the parish office. Everyone is welcome to join in the Mass on November 4.

Friday "Coffee with St. John Eudes!" 


Who is St. John Eudes? If you’re interested in learning more about St. John Eudes and Eudist spirituality, join the Eudist Fathers and Associates for a monthly “Coffee with St. John Eudes” on the 2nd Friday of each month.


The next gathering will be held October 11, at 9 AM at St. Patrick Parish, in the library next to the parish office. Fr. George Perez, CJM will share about the Sacred Heart of Jesus.


If you’re interested in joining "Coffee with St. John Eudes" or have further questions, email Fr. Azam Mansha:  azamvianney@eudistsusa.org

A Few Reminders About Receiving Holy Communion


This YouTube video shows part of a homily given by Father David Michael Moses. It contains

some good reminders about how we should receive Holy Communion. It was given during the summer when we had several weeks of the Bread of Life discourse.

Married Couples, Save the date! 


On Saturday, October 19, the "Happily Ever After" marriage enrichment presented by couples from the Worldwide Marriage Encounter local area will be held in the St Patrick's Parish Hall. The event will run from 9:30 am - 3:30 pm. 


Come and find out how you can build your relationship even amidst the craziness of life.

Sign up here...

Showers of Blessing Clothing Drive


Showers of Blessings will be holding a clothing drive the weekend of October 26 and 27. There will be volunteers on the patio before and after all Masses. Our need for clothing items continues to grow as we are averaging almost 70 guests every Tuesday.


We would greatly appreciate any of the following items:

Men

- Men’s new or slightly used jeans (especially waist size 30,32,34) 

- Men’s new boxer briefs and T shirts

- Men’s new or slightly used shirts and jackets

Women

- Women’s new underwear and bras

(regular and sports bras)

- Women’s new or slightly used jeans, shirts and jackets

- New or slightly used shoes for both men and women


Additionally with colder weather, the following items are also in demand, blankets, sleeping bags, gloves and beanie hats. We sincerely appreciate all your donations and kindness as we continue this growing ministry within our parish.


DONATIONS are ALWAYS appreciated and accepted.

 

To learn more about us check out our website:

Showersofblessingscarlsbad.com

Six week Fall Bible Study with the Book of Job - Sign up after Mass This Weekend  


Experiences of pain, loss, and suffering draw up the agonizing question: Why? We will read excerpts of The Book of Job, reflect on our own questions about God and suffering, and share how we might apply what we learned in everyday life. 


There will be two meeting options:


Six Monday evenings, 6:45 pm – 8:30pm, October 14 – November 18


Six Tuesday mornings, 10:00 am - 11:30am, October 15 – November 19


Register this weekend after mass on the patio or with Carole King at stpatbiblestudy40@gmail.com


or 760-434-5688; or at the parish office; Cost is $15; 


Join us and bring a friend. 


Sponsored by the St. Patrick Bible Study Team. 

No One Has “Exclusive Right” to God's Voice, Pope Says at Synod Opening

Read the article here...


Music for Royal Fireworks


Enjoy once again the Music for the Royal Fireworks by George Frederick Handel (1685 - 1759). Beautiful brass and full orchestra make it truly royal.

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Catholic Trivia


"Catholic Trivia”... not because they are trivial but because these might be things that not everyone knows. Test your knowledge by reading the five questions, remember your answers (or jot them down), then click the link below to find the answers.


  1. Which sacraments give us God’s grace?
  2. In the sacrament of Reconciliation, who forgives our sins?
  3. Which holy oils are used only in one sacrament?
  4. What are the two sacraments of healing?
  5. Which sacraments can be received only once?

Feel free to email Fr. Ron with ideas for future Catholic Trivia questions rmbagley@yahoo.com

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Twenty-Eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time – Year B


First Reading

Wisdom 7:7-11

Wisdom is preferred above gold and silver.


Responsorial Psalm

Psalm 90:12-13,14-15,16-17

The Lord fills us with love and joy.


Second Reading

Hebrews 4:12-13

The Word of God exposes the heart.


Gospel Reading

Mark 10:17-30 (shorter form Mark 10:17-27)

A man with many possessions asks Jesus what he must do to gain eternal life.


Background on the Gospel Reading


Today we continue reading the Gospel of Mark from where we left off last Sunday. Last Sunday our Gospel told how Jesus was tested by the Pharisees about the requirements for divorce. Recall that these chapters come from the second part of Mark’s Gospel, which chronicles the beginning of Jesus’ journey to Jerusalem.


In today’s Gospel, an unnamed man approaches Jesus and inquires about what he must do to inherit eternal life. Jesus replies that one must follow the commandments of the Law of Moses. The man acknowledges that he has observed all of these since his childhood. Jesus then says that only one thing is lacking: he must give his possessions to the poor and follow Jesus. The man leaves in sadness, and Mark tells us that this is because he had many possessions.


The belief in resurrection and eternal life was a relatively recent development in Jewish thought at Jesus’ time, and it wasn’t shared by everyone. The Pharisees taught that there would be a resurrection from the dead; the Sadducees did not share this belief. Jesus taught that there would be a final judgment for everyone and eternal life (the Kingdom of God) for believers.


Jesus makes two requirements of the wealthy man who approaches him. First, he must give up his possessions. Throughout history, some Christians have taken this literally. Their example witnesses to us a radical commitment to the Gospel of Jesus. Some have read this as a particular requirement directed to this specific individual. Still others have sought to explain the meaning intended by the word possessions as those things that prevent one from following Jesus. Christians have generally understood that at the least, following Jesus requires that believers hold material possessions loosely and remain vigilant against seeking security in accumulating possessions.


The second requirement Jesus makes of this man is the invitation that Jesus extends to all would-be disciples: “follow me.” Jesus very much wants this man to be his disciple. We believe that the Christian faith is one in which each believer is in a personal relationship with Jesus. Just as this Gospel tells us that Jesus loves the man and is sad when he departs, so too, Jesus loves us and is saddened when we are unable to follow him.


We see in this Gospel reading another example of Mark’s pattern, which shows Jesus offering further elaboration about his message and meaning to his disciples. To his disciples, Jesus laments the challenges faced by those who are rich in following him and entering the Kingdom of God. In reply to the disciples’ astonishment at the strictness of the standard that Jesus speaks about today, Jesus reminds his disciples that nothing is impossible with God. Salvation is determined by our ability to rely completely on God.



Peter replies to Jesus by boasting that the disciples have already given up everything. Jesus acknowledges that those who have given up everything for the sake of the Gospel will be rewarded. This reward begins now, in the new community that one will gain in this life, and will continue in the eternal age to come. Our personal relationship with Jesus is also an invitation to the community of faith, the Church.

Companions on the Journey


This song by Carey Landry speaks of how all of us are on a journey through life together. The Holy Spirit leads the way. In addition to the music, the video includes images and the lyrics.

The Ye Olde Garage 


We are ramping up for the Fall and Christmas Holidays. We have Halloween Costumes, Thanksgiving and Christmas Decorations – all being readied for your shopping needs.


Our Monthly Sunday Sale will be this Sunday, October 13 from 8:30 am to 2:30 pm. We would love to see you stop by and see what is happening at the Ye Olde Garage. We are located at the North/East corner of the parking lot. Look for the green Ye Olde Garage Sign and the American Flag. We will be there. If you can't make it for the Monthly Sunday Sale, the Garage Sale is open every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday from 9:30 am to 2:00 pm.

Thanks to St Patrick Parishioners



Birth Choice of San Marcos, along with our parish Knights of Columbus, thank the parishioners of St. Patrick Parish for their generous support through the recent baby bottle collection. A total of $9,938.18 was collected. God bless you for your generosity.

KNIGHTS FALL FOOD DRIVE


The Knights of Columbus will be collecting items for the Annual Fall Food Drive to benefit Catholic Charities, St Patrick Parish Food Bank and Showers of Blessings. This food drive will last 3 weeks and to begin on October 12, and end on October 27, 2024


The main donation station will be located by the front door of the Parish Hall, look for the Knights of Columbus pop up tent as well as the church patio. Knights will be there to accept your donations of non- perishable food items (no glass containers) along with cash /checks. Checks must be made payable to Catholic Charities.


 For your convenience scan the QR code on the flyer to make a monetary donation online. The Knights will be 

available to help with any heavy items or answer any questions. 

 

Below is a list of most requested items. As always, any donation is appreciated. Your community appreciates your participation and generosity!


 Disposable diapers size 3, 4 and 5

 Baby wipes

 Non-perishable rice beans

 Trail Mix

 Yogurt cups (unrefrigerated)

 Fruit cups

 Juice boxes

 Mini-raisin boxes

 Bottled water 

Knights  Of Columbus

ANNUAL TOOTSIE ROLL DRIVE

 

The Knights will be on the church patio after all the Masses  on the weekend of October 19-20. All donations will help support People with Intellectual Disabilities, who need your support!



Thank you for helping!

Altars – Day of the Dead


Día de los Muertos is a Mexican tradition dating back 3,000 years that honors the memories of the deceased. Altars are built with pictures of their deceased loved ones along with items that belonged to them as well as their favorite foods as a reminder of their lives. On Sunday, November 3, after all Masses, Altars will be displayed in the small parking lot. If you would like to participate in this event, please call the Parish Office and ask for Deacon Miguel

Altars - a brief history here...

Altares para el Dia de los Muertos



El domingo, 3 de noviembre, tendremos nuestros Altares para recordar a nuestros seres queridos que han fallecido después de todas las misas. Si desean hacer su altar, o participar de una manera, favor de llamar a la oficina y pregunte por Diacono Miguel.


Un Saludo de

parte del Diacono Miguel,


 “En aquel tiempo, cuando salía Jesús al camino, se le acercó corriendo un hombre, se arrodilló ante él y le preguntó, ‘Maestro bueno, ¿qué debo hacer para alcanzar la vida eterna?’ Jesús le contesto, ‘Ve y vende lo que tienes, da el dinero a los pobres y así tendrás un tesoro en los cielos. Después, ven y sígueme’” (Evangelio Marcos 10:17-30). En este 28º Domingo del Tiempo Ordinario, miramos a un hombre rico, cumplidor de lo que se esperaba de un hombre judío, se le arrima a Jesús para hacerle esta pregunta importante, “¿qué debo hacer para alcanzar la vida eterna?” Y Jesús, con amor le dice, “vende todos tus bienes materiales, y dárselo a los pobres”. Esto sorprende al hombre rico, porque en la tradición judía, los ricos eran bendecidos por Dios por que eran buenos. Los pobres no tenían las bendiciones de Dios, porque eran malos. Jesús, con su respuesta voltea boca arriba lo que se creía entre los judíos. ¿Que nos dice a nosotros Jesús con sus palabras? También nosotros podemos caer en la trampa que Dios sólo responde a nuestras suplicas si rezamos de “una” sola manera, o sólo si cumplimos los mandamientos, o sólo si rezamos el rosario todos los días. Todas estas cosas necesitan llevarnos a una conversión más completa, donde nuestro corazón, mente y acciones reflejen a Jesús. Estamos impuestos al control en nuestra vida y pensamos que podemos controlar el amor de Dios. Pero es no es posible. Dios es amor y compasivo. Permitamos que ese Dios penetre nuestro corazón y de nosotros fluye ese amor y esperanza a todos que nos rodean. Dios los siga bendiciendo.

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