FEBRUARY 2025

Turning 'No' into 'Know':

Navigating Toddlers' Resistance

with Love and Patience

Hearing "no" can be tough for anyone, but for toddlers, it often feels like the ultimate roadblock to their newfound independence. As they explore their world, toddlers naturally test boundaries and express their preferences, making "no" one of their least favorite words. This can be especially challenging when your little one has a developmental delay or disability, as they may struggle with communication, sensory processing, or emotional regulation, making boundaries feel even harder to navigate.

Toddlers thrive on autonomy, so when they hear "no," they may feel frustrated or misunderstood. Instead of shutting down their curiosity, try turning “no” into a learning opportunity. Offer clear explanations for the boundary you’re setting: “We can’t touch the stove because it’s hot, and I want to keep you safe.” Redirecting their energy toward something they can do—like touching a safe kitchen tool—can satisfy their curiosity without compromising safety.

For children with developmental delays or disabilities, using visuals, gestures, or a calm, consistent tone can help reinforce boundaries in ways they understand. Validating their emotions is also key. Saying, “I know you’re upset because you want to play with that, but let’s find something else,” helps toddlers feel heard while reinforcing the boundary. Using positive language to frame instructions, such as “Let’s sit while we eat” instead of “Don’t stand on the chair,” can also reduce resistance.

With love, patience, and a focus on teaching rather than simply saying "no," you can help your toddler navigate boundaries while fostering their understanding and growth—even when the journey requires a little extra creativity and care.

Click HERE for tips and alternatives for saying "NO" to your little one, from Pathways.org

You are Invited!

Transitioning Out of

Early Intervention Workshop

*held monthly via Zoom

Geared towards parents of children who are currently

24-32 month’s old who will be transitioning out of Early Intervention Services at

age three.

Next Presentations:

Presented in English:

February 12th at 10:00am

Presented in Spanish:

February 4th at 9:00am

View the upcoming Transition Presentation

schedule and

Resource Spotlight

Child Care Resource and Referral Agencies

CCR&R

A Child Care Resource and Referral Agency (CCR&R) is an organization dedicated to helping families find quality childcare and early education programs that meet their needs. These agencies serve as a valuable resource for parents, childcare providers, and communities by offering information, guidance, and support related to childcare options and services.

What Do CCR&Rs Do?

Help Families Find Childcare:
CCR&Rs maintain up-to-date listings of childcare providers, including licensed centers, home-based programs, and other early learning options. They assist families in locating care based on factors like location, hours, cost, and specific needs, such as care for children with disabilities.
Provide Financial Assistance Information:
These agencies often guide families to resources for childcare subsidies or financial assistance programs, making childcare more affordable for low- and middle-income families.
Support Childcare Providers:
CCR&Rs offer training, professional development, and technical support for childcare providers to ensure they deliver high-quality services. They may also help providers navigate licensing and compliance requirements.
Advocate for Quality Childcare:
By working with policymakers, CCR&Rs advocate for improved access to affordable, high-quality childcare in their communities.
Educate the Community:
CCR&Rs educate families about what to look for in a childcare program, such as teacher qualifications, safety standards, and developmental activities.

Why Are CCR&Rs Important?

Finding reliable, safe, and nurturing childcare can be overwhelming for families, especially those new to the process. CCR&Rs simplify this search and help ensure children receive care that supports their development and well-being. These agencies also play a crucial role in improving the overall quality of childcare through training and advocacy efforts.

Find your local CCR&R HERE

Upcoming Local Events By County

Atlantic:

February 1st & 22nd @ 12:30pm

*Kids Fitness Classes* ~free

For kids 10 years old and under. Enjoy exercises, games, parachute fun and activities that get the heart pumping to celebrate heart health month.

Otto Bruyns Public Library, 241 W. Mill Rd., Northfield

Burlington:

February 8th @ 2:00pm - 4:00pm

*Tea Party Like It's 1820!* ~ $5 per person, children under 2 are free

Dress in your finest, bring your favorite toy, and sample teas popular during the time. Enjoy live historic harp music, dance, play, do crafts, and more!

Children's History Center at the Burlington County Historical Society, 457 High Street, Burlington

to RSVP, email: burlcohistsoc@verizon.net or call: 609-386-4773

view flyer HERE

Camden:

February 5th & 19th @ 4:00pm - 4:45pm or February 11th @ 11:00am - 11:45am

*Wags & Wiggles* ~$12 per child (includes 1 adult)

A grown-up-and-me style class for children ages 2-4. This program will teach the littlest animal lovers about animal safety, kindness and compassion. Includes instructor-led story time, a craft and developmentally appropriate activities focused around animals.

Animal Welfare Association, 509 Centennial Boulevard, Vorhees Township

click HERE for more info and to get tickets

Cape May:

February 26th @ 4:30pm

*Family Fun & Resources Night* ~free

a night of fun, games & crafts - featuring resources

Shore Family Success Center, 1129 Rt 9 South, Cape May Court House

click HERE for more info

Cumberland:

February 10th @ 10:30-11:30am

*Baby and Toddler Stay & Play* ~free

Children ages 2 and younger and a caregiver are invited for stories, songs and fingerplays followed by a play session with toys provided by the Shirley Eves Center Toy Library! Representatives from the Center will share information on promoting positive relationships and learning through play.

Cumberland County Library, 800 E Commerce St # 2, Bridgeton

click HERE for more info and to register

Gloucester:

February 11th @ 4:30 - 6pm

*Parent & Child Valentine's Day Date* ~free

Celebrate love and connection with your little one. Have some fun and make memories!

Mosaic Family Success Center, 110 East High Street, Glassboro

for registration, call: (856) 347-4338 or email: fscgloucester@gmail.com

view flyer HERE

Salem:

February 1, 8 & 22 @ 10:00am

*Story Time* ~free