The carefully circled letters reveal the thought put into the markings: A B C D F. The feedback being noted is a gift for the recipient. The steady handwriting with words of positive performance over the past year and notes for focus in the year ahead show care in the critique. Every year my team members fill out peer reviews of their colleagues. They evaluate areas of client care, team support, and the demonstration of core values. I meet with everyone individually and, with the help of the peer evaluations, we discuss the whole picture. We see blind spots and evidence of brilliant performance. We see the front, back, inside, and out. We do what our coach has long taught us: look, see, tell the truth, take authentic action.

This annual practice reminds me to do my own annual review.  To grade myself for the following life categories: Finances, Spirituality/Creativity, Career/Education, Enjoyment, Health/Wellness, Relationships. I place a truthful 1 up to a 10 in each area and see if there is balance (no) and if there are areas that need focus (yes). If I can control my wince when my best friend predictably points out that I should date more, then I will ask her what she sees about my “wholeness.” She helps me look from the outside, in.


You can find more of Angela's writing in her book Patched Up Parenting.