February 2024 | A Sacred Passing | A Sacred Passing Newsletter: Community Offerings | We need community and community care more than ever |
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With a breath
With a scream
With a call
With a hug
With a cry
With a poem
With new boundaries
With actions
With anger
With phone calls
With letter writing
With educating
With hope
With sharing feelings
With a pause
With grace
With care
With nourishment
I return to this is piece of brilliance often:
SELF-CARE IN THE MOVEMENT BY JAMILAH PITTS
Thank you for being a caring human in this world. It feels more important to remember with every single sense available to us -- in the past, the present, and the future -- that there are exponentially more people walking this planet who care about the well-being of each other and work to make a change.
A reminder: A Sacred Passing is a death-care education organization, and a cornerstone of our education is sharing the fact that care is important, not just during the dying process. Please look into our community events, which offer a space to feel cared for, witnessed, or seen in these times.
Still wildly in love with people who care --
Lashanna
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2024 is abundant with many offerings, new and treasured.
Events have already begun. Take a look below and please share with your people.
We look forward to being in (physical and virtual) community with you!
Une Bonne Mort: August 2024
Movement for Grievers
Death Cafe & Art, 4th Fridays: next group February 23
Still on Earth: Survivors Care and Support Group, 2nd Friday
Listening Line Trainings
Grief and Care Under Capitalism: next group February 7 & 21
Abortion Doula Care Classes
Blooming with Grief: May 18
MAiD Grief Groups: next group March 3
Sunday Mournings, 2nd Sunday: next group February 11
Suicide Suppers
Facilitator Trainings
Death Care Courses, 3-day in-person & 8-week virtual
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A Sacred Passing: February Offerings | |
8-Week Death Doula Course
This 8-week course from A Sacred Passing is for those who wish to learn & broaden their existing care practices to include practical end-of-life and death care skills. This training and (re)training is a deep dive into the physical, emotional, practical, and spiritual care of the living, the dying, and the dead.
Summer Series: June 3-July 26
6-8pm Mondays and Wednesdays
Online via Zoom & Thinkific
Register Today!
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Death Cafe and Art
Join us as we meander through conversations about death, dying, and grief while making art. Color, sketch, paint, sculpt, quill, fold paper, foil glass... We will have some art supplies and you can bring some with you!
While this is not a support group, it is supportive. We will also have resources to share.
Register to Attend Here
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MAiD Grief Groups
Our Medical Aid in Dying (MAiD) Grief Group is a free, virtual drop-in group where friends or family can come together in conversation and care.
Join us every first Sunday of the month 7pm-8:30pm PST/5:00pm-6:30pm HST
This is not a space for medical providers, death doulas, or employed caretakers, but a supportive space for partners, friends, family, and beloveds of someone who has chosen the MAiD process.
Register here
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Grief & Care Under Capitalism Support Group
This support group is for people needing a space to talk with other folks who feel exploited and exhausted by capitalism. Most grief support groups are death-related, so we at A Sacred Passing decided to offer a space to grieve the other ways in which we struggle.
The Grief & Care Under Capitalism Support Group is a facilitated space with conversation directed by participants, offered virtually via Zoom on the 1st and 3rd Wednesday of each month from 7-9pm PST.
Access Zoom Link here
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Sunday Mournings
Join us for a bit of time together, a chance to engage in the movement of thought, grief, and self while witnessing each other in story and tending the fire. Each month will vary slightly, depending on the weather and the group's decision.
This is an ongoing group that meets on the 2nd Sunday of every month. Please complete the registration below as an RSVP.
Register here
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3-Day Death Care 101
A Sacred Passing invites you to a 3-day workshop to learn more about death-care practices and options for end-of-life care. This death-care training is an introduction to the non-medical physical, emotional, practical, and spiritual care of the living, dying, and dead.
First Series: February 2-4
Friday 5-9p
Saturday 10a-3p
Sunday 10a-3p
Learn more about the series here
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The stakes are high in 2024. During an age of increased alienation and rising fascism, we must be equipped to make our movements powerful, transformative, and sustainable.
Join us for the launch of Right-Sized Belonging: Six Practices for Organizers! This workbook and website features different ways for base-building and movement organizations to get better at cultivating belonging (and what we risk if we ignore this fundamental need).
At this event you’ll find out more about the six key practices, learn how belonging shapes our organizing, and hear directly from incredible panelists.
Featuring: Gopal Dayaneni, Elliott Fukui, NTanya Lee, and Michael Strom
Hosted by: Sammie Ablaza Wills
Access: This event will be recorded, and ONLY panelists and presenters will be on video and microphone. Currently, we plan on having professional CART (live captioning).
Register Here!
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Partner/Spousal Support Group
Brain Injury Alliance WA offers a monthly partner/spousal support group for anyone in a loving relationship with a TBI survivor: spouse, partner, or significant other. In our conversations we’ll focus on sharing our experiences -- both the challenges and joys -- of being in a relationship with a TBI survivor. Through an honest exchange of knowledge, ideas, and questions, we can increase our collective understanding of and empathy for our partners, avoid or minimize behaviors that create issues in our relationships, increase behaviors and mindsets that bring more joy in our relationships, and build a community of acceptance and fellowship.
3rd Tuesday of Each Month
6-7pm PST
Register to Attend
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Grief Support Circle
Join this safe space to share and learn about grief and loss.
For Algonquins of Pikwàkanagàn First Nation Members only
Tuesdays at 7pm EST
February 6-March 12 on Zoom
Register to Attend
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Seattle King County Clinic:
Dental, Vision, & Medical Service Volunteers Needed
Seeking: Dental, Vision, & Medical Professionals, Social Workers, Interpreters, General Support, Health Insurance Navigators & more!
February 15-18, 2024
Get more details here and sign up!
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Mordecai Cohen Ettinger (Health Justice Commons and Do No Harm Coalition) and Dr. Jess Ghannam (Clinical Professor of Psychiatry and Global Health Sciences at UCSF) speak on the relationship between Disability Justice and Palestinian Liberation.
Download the full transcript here: tinyurl.com/TranscriptPalestineDJ
Image description: a graphic with a pink and green border that contains the text, "Ableism is constructing the flawed, exploitable, expendable body, community or ethnic group upon which any and all violence, exploitation, neglect or denial of basic resources is not only justifiable but sensible, normal, deserved."
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Below is a copy of a request sent out by Dr. Hope regarding SSHB 2166 that just passed unanimously (97-0) in the House that would establish a well-funded electronic POLST registry (no more bright green sheets stuck to the refrigerator!) and that would allow first responders/EMT to honor medical ID jewelry (medallions, bracelets, etc.) and cards indicating a preference for DNR
TLDR
Important Bill needs our Help
Email your rep the letter below
If the bill isn’t heard in committee by Tuesday, February 20, it will die.
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As you know
The Washington state POLST form is an extremely important tool that helps patients with serious illness, medical frailty, and/or advanced age indicate their preferences regarding whether resuscitation should be attempted in the event of a cardiac arrest, and what level/location of medical care is acceptable in the event of illness.
What you might not know
There’s a bipartisan bill, SSHB 2166, that just passed unanimously (97-0) in the House that would establish a well-funded electronic POLST registry (no more bright green sheets stuck to the refrigerator!) and that would allow first responders/EMT to honor medical ID jewelry (medallions, bracelets, etc.) and cards indicating a preference for DNR (no more “DNR at home, but FULL CODE at Fred Meyer!”) This bill is supported by the Washington State Medical Association, the Washington state POLST Task Force, and the Washington Serious Illness Care Coalition.
The next step on the way to passage of the bill is the Washington state Senate, where, to reach a vote, the bill must first be discussed and voted on in the Senate Law and Justice Committee, chaired by Senator Manka Dhingra, JD of the 45th Legislative District.
The problem
The legislative calendar is short and crowded, especially this year, and only bills considered important enough will get a chance to be heard. We’ve been told by WSMA’s representatives that, unless there’s a push from stakeholders, the POLST bill will die – without a chance for resuscitation! – before it can be voted on in the Senate. As chair of the Senate Law and Justice Committee, Senator Dhingra decides which bills come to the committee, and so far it hasn’t been scheduled for a hearing. If the bill isn’t heard in committee by Tuesday, February 20, it will die.
So what?
That’s where we come in!!
EvergreenHealth is located in Senator Dhingra’s district, and if you live in north Kirkland, north Redmond, Duvall, North Sammamish and unincorporated King County areas within, you are her constituent. Senator Dhingra, winner of the King County Medical Society’s Senate Legislative award in 2022, is highly engaged in health care issues and is very receptive to her constituents who are healthcare professionals and stakeholders.
The ask
If you think that strengthening POLST is important, please consider sending an email TODAY, FRIDAY 2/16 to Senator Dhingra at manka.dhingra@leg.wa.gov indicating your strong support for SSHB 2166 being heard in the Senate Law and Justice Committee. Attached is suggested wording (SSHB 2166 Senate Hearing Request.Senator __________________);
If you’re not sure which Legislative District you’re in, you can find out by entering your home address at this website:
Washington State Legislature.
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Example of a letter:
Dear Senator _______:
I am a constituent of the ___ district. I am writing to respectfully request that as a member of the Senate Law & Justice Committee, you lend your support to prioritizing a hearing for Second Substitute House Bill 2166.
As a [name a role] I care deeply about this bill, which aims to strengthen Washington state’s POLST program by establishing a statewide electronic POLST registry and allowing emergency personnel to honor medical orders, including those for “Do Not Resuscitate” (DNR), that are indicated on medical jewelry (such as bracelets and medallions) and cards.
The POLST form, in use since 2000 in Washington, is already widely used across the state. It describes a person’s preferences regarding what level of medical intervention would be acceptable in an emergency in a set of easily understood, standard medical orders that first responders/EMTs can follow.
Unfortunately, the current system in Washington state depends on a paper form being available to medical personnel. While some healthcare organizations may have electronic versions available in their medical records, these exist behind electronic firewalls and are not accessible in the community setting.
As a result, the POLST is often inaccessible at the time of an emergency, making it impossible for emergency responders to reliably provide the level of care that is acceptable to patients. It is for this reason that individuals may receive medical interventions, including CPR, that they have already determined they do not want.
By establishing an electronic registry and allowing medical personnel to respond to orders to not
attempt resuscitation, HB 2166 ensures that Washingtonians’ wishes for emergency treatment are easily accessible and can therefore be honored.
I strongly support this important bill and will be grateful to see it move through the Senate legislative process; I feel that a hearing would allow experts to answer questions that may arise and will provide the information that you and your colleagues need to vote on this important legislation. Thank you very much for your consideration, and for your service to the people of Washington state.
Sincerely,
Your Name Here
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