Greetings !
Here at Always There Home Care, we are grateful you are slowing down to read our newsletter, which is full of items that relate to home care, home health care, aging & eldercare, as well as some useful tips for daily living.
Please enjoy in the spirit of community and cooperation in which this newsletter was sent.
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Please take some time to watch our video!
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Regina McNamara RN, MSN President & Kelly McNamara, Chief Operating Officer
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Photos in top banner: Grace with brother Luke (our graphic designer’s children) on her First Communion this month; Riley, Kim’s grandaughter, Ryan and Nora (Regina’s Grandchildren) in a farm maze..
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FEATURE ARTICLE:
Treasuring Our Seniors
As the Covid Pandemic took hold of the country, tracking of death rates began. It was no surprise that older Americans, those above 65 comprised the highest percentage of these deaths. In our youth obsessed culture, losing older people to a dreadful disease was not unexpected …. After All, they were OLD. Living in nursing homes or senior living facilities, “It’s not as if young people were dying”.
We beg to differ. These people are OUR people. Our clients, their families, Our Pet therapy beneficiaries, Our friends, since it is a rare client who does not become a friend.
The media focus is on the enormous financial burden seniors create for those younger people “supporting them”, that seniors will bankrupt the health care system or the social security system will collapse under the burden of a growing senior population.
What we don’t hear in the midst of all of these doomsday stories — which are not based in evidence, and are simply wrong — is how seniors contribute to society.
The fact that people live longer than ever should be celebrated as one of the biggest success stories in history.
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Photo left to right: Luke and Grace wearing their masks on their first day of School!; Caregiver’s daughter Mishelle, sporting her pretty hat and outfit; Nora’s special birthday picture for Regina.
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KUDOS from KELLY
Our Everyday Heroes
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ALAN WEISS ON
Entrepreneurs vs Government’s Achievements “The Wright brothers flew through the smoke screen of impossibility.”
The Wright Brothers inaugurated powered flight at Kitty Hawk in 1903, covering 120 feet in about 12 seconds. Well within a person’s lifetime, 66 years later, Neil Armstrong landed on the moon, an eight-day, 480,000-mile round trip. Theoretically, one person could have witnessed both events if in the right places at the right times.
Yet we can’t change our school systems to provide equal education for all? Or our health system, or our judicial system?
No one was clamoring for powered flight, and some were convinced it was impossible. The Wright Brothers simply did it on their own, as entrepreneurs. When Sputnik scared the United States government to its foundations, John F. Kennedy proclaimed that a man would walk on the moon within the decade, and amassed huge public, congressional, and financial support. The entire world later watched that first step, transfixed.
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REGINA'S REFLECTIONS
HAVE WE LOST SIGHT OF
Personal Responsibility?
Here’s a news flash…. Ending the Pandemic requires a commitment by all citizens to do their part. No political figure, not even a governor, regardless of the size of his ego can solve this.
When a presidential candidate is asked what he would do if there is another spike in infections, he should have a reasonable measured response. “Would he LOCK DOWN the country again?” His response: “I would lock it down, after asking the scientists”. One wonders which scientist he would choose, since there are many conflicting opinions. There is no one clear answer. Here’s an idea for an answer: “We ask all Americans to do their part to comply with Covid safety precautions so we may return our country to normal as soon as possible.”
Many families have sadly been affected by the Covid illness. But several others have suffered from the hazards of “lock down”. When it began, I and many others predicted there would be many downsides to this.
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ALAN WEISS ON
The Idiocy of Rules Not Enforced in The World of Covid
We returned from Nantucket Friday evening. We departed on August 8. Four days prior to that, the governor of Massachusetts dropped a bombshell and informed everyone from Rhode Island that we’d need proof of a negative Covid test within 72 hours of arrival or a self-quarantine would be required for 14 days (our entire stay). Although the house we rent is on the beach and amenable to quarantine, who wants to refrain from great food and shopping and sightseeing?
We rushed to get tested. I made an appointment for a test to have results in 3-4 days, thought the story was that a week was more likely. My wife found a place with 15-minute results, so we both went there. I signed up at 8 am with hundreds of others and was finally tested at 5 pm. Thank goodness they call your cell and I live only ten minutes away. My other test arrived in just two days, so now I had twice the proof! We completed the Massachusetts travel documents on line, as though getting a visa for Yemen, printed them out, and headed for the ferry.
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Photos: Darcey floats away while on lake; Our Graphic designer, Mary, with Children Grace and Luke.
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SILVER TENDRILS ABOUT MY HEART
By SHERRY NORMAN, CAREGIVER
Hairbrush running through long sliver hair
Snapping, crackling, sparking shining bright
Curling about fingers with a life of its own
Tendrils wrapping tight like those about my heart
“I’m so tired, I don’t want to go on.”
“You’re so loved, darling, you must stay on.”
“When I am gone, things will change for you.”
“When you are gone, love will end for me.”
“I am in the way, I can’t lift my feet.”
“You are not in the way, I will lift your feet.”
“I can’t wash my hair, what use am I to me?”
“I will wash your hair, it’s a joy to me.”
“When I am gone, you will run all free.”
“When you are gone, I will cry for me.”
I will brush your hair, I will lift your feet.
I will still your tears, you will always love me.
“Sweet Mamman, please stay for me.”
We will periodically share pieces written by caregivers. I found this one especially touching.
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PROVIDERS WE LOVE
We are privileged to have received referrals from and be able to coordinate care with many Assisted Living facilities, rehab facilities, and Medicare Home Care and Hospice agencies. Our growth is in large part due to the trust the staff in these organizations have put in our caregivers. We are likewise impressed with them and we are committed to referring to them on a regular basis
- Seabury Active Living Retirement Community, and Seabury at Home, Bloomfield
- Seasons Hospice and Palliative Care, Middlebury CT
- Masonicare Home Health and Hospice - Danielson, Derby, East Hartford, Mystic, Norwalk and Wallingford
- Regional Hospice Danbury Serving CT and NY
- Farmington Valley Hospice
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800.348.0485 ~ We are Always There
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