Late Fall Greetings !
Here at Always There Home Care, we are grateful you are slowing down to read our newsletter, which is full of items that relate to home care, home health care, aging & eldercare, as well as some useful tips for daily living.
Please enjoy in the spirit of community and cooperation in which this newsletter was sent.
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Please take some time to watch our video!
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Regina McNamara RN, MSN President & Kelly McNamara, Chief Operating Officer
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Photos in top banner: Grace, Luke (Our Graphic Designer’s children) and their cousin Amelia on Halloween; Regina’s silly nephew Basil with beautiful daughters witches Willa and Charlotte
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FEATURE ARTICLE
88 Plus One
By Gary Barg, Editor-in-Chief
My dad retired in 1990 at the age of 61, within months was diagnosed with bone marrow cancer and passed away 30 years ago this very month. Upon his retirement and before the diagnosis he and my mom opened a small business of their own but had to close the doors as his health deteriorated.
Mom who was 57 years old at the time, went from being business and life partner to full time caregiver with all that new role represented. Within a few years after my dad’s passing, both my grandparents took ill with mom as their primary caregiver. I moved back home to South Florida to become what I like to call a “caregivers caregiver,” supporting mom as best I could and in any way I could.
It was by watching her steadfast determination that she was going to secure the best care the system had to offer my grandparents, including dealing with some unhelpful relatives, a myriad of doctors visits, moonlight runs to the emergency room, battling insurance companies and learning all that she could to ensure their health and safety, that I started to comprehend the important role of the family caregiver.
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Photo left to right: Regina’s goofy nephew Billy and his family. From left Zoë Phoenix Katie holding Cru.; Scott, Marissa, Ryan and Nora first Halloween in their new house; Michelle dressed as doctor giving flu shots with friends Kai and Kam; Kelly Bonnie and their dog tortilla travel to Canada to celebrate Halloween with niece and nephew Nora and Ryan.
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KUDOS from KELLY
Our Everyday Heroes
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It’s November already and we have yet to feature a ROOKIE KUDOS Column.
We are dedicated to “growing our own experienced caregivers. Our industry struggles along with most other businesses these days. The very best caregivers are aging out of the workplace, taking their wisdom and experience with them.
So, we are focused on recruiting and retaining smart, caring new caregivers and mentoring them along the way in our values and practice expectations. As they grow in their skills, learn from more experienced staff and contribute more to their clients, increasing their value to our company as they grow with us.
Tasha is a bright caring and well-organized caregiver. Her clients, a very sick elderly gentlemen with later stage kidney disease and his charming wife, in early stages of dementia. Their needs are different, and they clearly adore each other. Tasha’s organizational skills are still being developed as she juggles her time to meet their varying needs. Candy, our recruiter staffing coordinator and Client support person brings wisdom and experience to her role and Tasha has been a wiling student. Her enthusiasm genuine and contagious.
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** For those of you who receive the printed version of our Seasonal Newsletter; we'd like to apologize for a small mix-up in our everyday heroes article. We had the names flipped, but what you see here is correctly identifying our heroes. Our sincerest apologies!!
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I Just Turned 60, But I Still Feel 22 By Margaret Renkl
Ms. Renkl is a contributing Opinion writer who covers flora, fauna, politics and culture in the American South.
NASHVILLE — I was already in college before I finally understood that my entire life had overlapped with second-wave feminism, a force that transformed American culture without so much as registering on a certain young woman in Alabama. All my life I had been stepping through open doors, it turned out, blithely unaware of the vision and sacrifice and passionate persistence of the women who had opened those doors for me.
Once I understood that, I also understood that I wouldn’t want to have landed on this planet a single moment earlier than I did.
A woman born in Lower Alabama in 1961 has little use for nostalgia. Go back to the “good old days” when women were limited to professions like education or nursing and little else? Back to a time when the opportunities available to Black and brown people, and to Black and brown women especially, were even more profoundly limited? No, thank you very much.
The only trouble with being born in 1961 is that in 2021 you will turn 60, something I did last week. It’s very strange to persist in feeling 22, even as every mirror — and every storefront window and polished elevator door — reveals the truth. Sixty is the point at which people must admit they are no longer middle-aged.
Lately it’s been dawning on me that I would not want to have been born even one minute later than 1961, either. Last week I mentioned this new thought to a friend, and her response was immediate, as though she’d already had it herself: “Because we won’t have to live through the cataclysm?”
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REGINA'S REFLECTIONS
An Irreverent View:
Living in the post covid world... with no end in sight.
On October 2, 2019, my husband Tom’s surprise birthday party was attended by 30 + family members, including the most special guests our grandchildren, Ryan 5 and Nora 3, who traveled from Canada with their parents Scott and Marissa to celebrate with us. Never did we imagine that we would not see them again until June of 2021, at the beach in Avalon NJ.
That joyful reunion, involving air and car travel, Covid testing, social distancing and careful planning was well worth the reward of having our favorite kids run to us with excited hugs, causing all of us to collapse with delight. Nearly two years absence is an eternity in the lives of young children. And the grandparents who adore them.
As 2019 ended, 2020 opened with an unprecedented worldwide infection, soon declared a pandemic. The main stream media stars and politicians hungry for press coverage competed for screen time, often spreading inaccurate information to a wary TV audience. A now confused, frightened population became compliant, not questioning the use of masks, gloves, distancing, closed schools and embracing isolation as a defense against disease.
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Alan Weiss on Mythology
There are some myths being hyped right now by the clueless media and by “certified virtual consultants” on social media. What the hell does that mean? Who certifies them—holograms?
- The “great resignation” is not that at all. People often are looking for better working conditions and better pay and benefits, but that’s hardly a new dynamic. And hotel bellman or restaurant bartenders are not going into astrophysics or auto repair.
- People are leaving companies because they’re not happy and don’t feel appreciated or fulfilled. That’s correct except for the word “companies.” People are leaving bosses who have been derelict in providing development and support. Eliminate them and you pretty much eliminate attrition.
- People are helpless to provide rapid service and a diversity of products because of “supply chain shortages.” Most people don’t know what a “supply chain” is, and most of the shortages are because of abysmally poor planning and/or reliance on extreme cost controls (as in JIT—Just In Time—manufacturing inventories).
- Inflation is going to be a huge problem. There is no evidence of this, and while inflation is slightly higher than pre-pandemic, it’s a natural offshoot of a reviving economy and the shortages I noted above. There are ample controls in place to deal with it.
- We still haven’t managed to eradicate Covid (which is true, not a myth, but not important, either). We haven’t managed to eradicate the regular flu over all these years, but we live with it, vaccinated and we reduce its adverse effects. We will have to live with Covid, period. (Note that vaccinations are increasing when jobs are threatened.)
Action
We need to sort through the realities and the mythologies and make sound decisions with the truths at hand. Some of those decisions are tough, such as demanding vaccinations if one seeks to retain employment. (This worked well at United, but not at all at Southwest. They are both unionized airlines, so what’s the distinction?)
And you, yourself, can’t fall prey to the myths and false information, the fears and the fabrications. Help friends and family deal with empirical reality by doing so yourself.
If you can do that, 2022 will be a great year. ■
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Photos Above: RJ’s first Halloween; Angie’s new son, RJ, meets Darcey. Instant friends! Our lovely caregiver Marisha, having finished cars tasks, helping out her client by gardening; Company VP Tom and Darcey getting ready for a walk.
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ANGIE IS A CITIZEN!!
On October 22, we celebrated Angie Amegashi becoming a U.S. citizen. This had been a long-term dream for Angie, a former caregiver for us, now a good friend. We consider Angie, her husband Ray and children Michelle and RJ as family.
Unbeknownst to me, this self-sufficient smart lady found excellent community resources to assist people in the citizenship process. Although it seemed daunting at first, Angie found a valuable resource at the LIBRARY!
I learned that Public libraries help ease the way for people new to the United States to participate fully in American society. Libraries serve as a gateway to citizenship, offering English language learning, training materials and resources on immigration and citizenship, and opportunities to connect with the local community.
Her” immigration helper” smoothed the way for her with coaching, test and interview prep, and completing the once daunting paperwork. He was supportive, patient and helpful. At the LOCAL LIBRARY! This is a federally supported program staffed with professionals dedicated to easing the sometimes-difficult path to citizenship.
Kudos to all these wonderful people. To those reluctant to take this path, check with your local library TODAY !
And finally, CONGRATULATIONS TO ANGIE! Proud new citizen. Don’t forget to VOTE!. ■
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PROVIDERS WE LOVE
We are privileged to have received referrals from and be able to coordinate care with many Assisted Living facilities, rehab facilities, and Medicare Home Care and Hospice agencies. Our growth is in large part due to the trust the staff in these organizations have put in our caregivers. We are likewise impressed with them and we are committed to referring to them on a regular basis
- Seabury Active Living Retirement Community, and Seabury at Home, Bloomfield
- Masonicare Home Health and Hospice - Danielson, Derby, East Hartford, Mystic, Norwalk and Wallingford
- McLean Home Health and Hospice
- Hudson Valley Hospice and Palliative Care Poughkeepsie, NY and Kingston NY
- Brookdale Gables Senior Living Farmington
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800.348.0485 ~ We are Always There
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