The Dos and Don’ts in NSA Online Dating
Below is the list of the dos and don’ts in the no-string-attached online dating relationship. These are just tips collated from different articles and websites you can ponder.
DOs:
This is the best thing you should be doing and work on before getting into this kind of relationship. Guard your heart as hard and as long as you can. This will keep you ready and prepared in the long run.
- Choose a partner that suits you.
You may have so many boys and girls to choose from, but you only need one. And make sure that someone is suitable for you. Remember that your purpose is to have fun and be light-hearted, so choose someone who matches you, not someone who will add to your worries and stressors.
- Set up rules but still maintain a connection.
As much as possible, it would help if you communicated daily to maintain the connection. To not overdo it, you can set a time when to call or text, what day is most suitable for both of you to hang out and video call, what topics are comfortable talking about, and what is not, and many others.
- Enjoy and live with the moment.
This is you being free-spirited, relaxed, and carefree, so be spontaneous and have some fun with your guy/girl. Dirty talk your way up to his or her wild side to spice things up. Be each other’s source of pleasure, satisfaction, and thrill.
DONTs:
It would be best if you restrained yourself from being jealous and sulking when your partner did not do something you expect him or her to do. You are allowed to be disappointed but never jealous unless you are given the right to feel that way.
Saying “I love you,” “I miss you,” and other sweet words can make or break your setup. Depending on the person, these words may scare or lead your partner. Keep yourself from saying these words, especially if you don’t mean it and you’re not ready to commit.
- Sharing too much of your personal information.
Just give your partner the need to know, slam book, and information about yourself. You don’t want to overshare things like your secrets, problems, etc., with someone you are not sure if you will stay in your life for too long.