John Nelson (seen above with Fr. Jack Topper, OSM) served on the Board of Advisors in the 1980s and more recently as a member of the Board of Directors. He has assisted on numerous construction projects and garden improvements both as a volunteer and consultant.
Finding Peace, Sanctuary
Two words associated with The Grotto are ‘Peace’ and ‘Sanctuary’. You and I hear the words regularly and see them in print again and again, but do we fully grasp their meaning and understand why they have a purpose here at this 100-year old shrine?
My Experience
It was a breezy spring day in 1988 and patches of hail whitened the Monastery driveway. I had been working outside all morning inspecting progress on upper garden projects. Now cold and hungry, and late for a meeting at my downtown office, Father Gerry urged me to warm up with a hot lunch.
Opening the Monastery’s side door I was struck immediately by the appetizing aroma of lunchtime dishes and I could hear the soft, comforting voices of the Sisters working in the kitchen. As I stepped into the dining room a single unfamiliar man was seated off to the side. He looked up and motioned to me to join him.
With hot soup and cold cuts I sat down and introduced myself. He reached out - our hands touching lightly - saying his name was Marty. Wearing a black sweater and wire frame glasses, a hesitant smile was revealed from behind the salt and pepper beard. We ate quietly, but when he asked what I do at The Grotto I said something about the peaceful landscape and was looking forward to the season’s first Rhododendron blooms. “Yes", he said, "Portland is peaceful and so colorful”.
His words came slowly: said he wouldn’t stay long at The Grotto, maybe just through the summer. I looked up from my soup and turned to his eyes. In the briefest of moments my thoughts froze: all morning I had hurried to stay ahead of commitments - too busy, too preoccupied, and was due back at my office soon. Now, at once, everything stopped - this person was too important - don't be in a rush; share the meal; take time to sit, listen, and talk. ”You have time for this man”, I told myself.
|