First Bonita

Serving Bonita Springs for Over 100 Years

12.12.25


Rage Bait


Once again, Oxford University Press has presented their "word of the year". It’s not a grand occasion for most, and even though I usually take note of it, rarely does it claim more than a few moments of my attention or reflection.


And then there was 2025. And then there was 2025’s word of the year, which has been stuck in my head for several days now.


The word of the year is “rage bait”. And many of you will probably already know that my first reaction was simple: “That’s cheating; ‘rage bait’ is two words.”


If you’re not aware of what it means, I would bet you’re aware of its use. Rage bait is defined as: online content deliberately designed to elicit anger or outrage by being frustrating, provocative, or offensive, typically posted in order to increase traffic to or engagement with a particular web page or social media account.


In short, and albeit pointless frustration, I couldn’t help but wonder if Oxford was rage baiting us by naming “rage bait” their word of the year. Because it’s not a word, it’s two words. Even though together they carry a unique meaning, that still doesn’t make them a word. An expression, sure, but still a phrase.


Now, on the off chance you’re still reading my petty orthographic rant, the larger reason “rage bait” has stuck with me this week is what it represents. Let me share Oxford’s reflection:


With 2025’s news cycle dominated by social unrest, debates about the regulation of online content, and concerns over digital wellbeing, our experts noticed that the use of rage bait this year has evolved to signal a deeper shift in how we talk about attention – both how it is given and how it is sought after – engagement, and ethics online.


And this is what fascinates me, and where my mind has been this week in preparation for Sunday: Where is our attention drawn, and what is the motivation behind those vying for it? Rage baiting is inherently dishonest, but the feelings of “anger or outrage” it’s designed to elicit often mean we’re not probing for dishonesty, we’re searching for security, for sanity, for sanctuary.


What do we expect to see? What do we intend to see? These questions guide more than online engagement and ethics; they are a big part of our Advent journey towards Christmas and the gift of the Christ child. There will be ample avenues and options offered by “rage bait” and its many cousins, but we are intentionally in this season of preparation in the hopes that we will see their dishonesty for what it is, and settle into a richer, more loving, and honest experience.


Grace and Peace bait-ingly yours,

Rev. Ben Richards



Sunday Service


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Baby Jesus Shower Recap


Coordinated by the United Women in Faith, First Bonita’s Baby Jesus Shower was a huge success again this year. We were able to donate hundreds of items to Our Mother’s Home in Fort Myers. Having seen the facility last year prior to its opening, several who delivered the items were eager to see it now that it is up and running.


At Our Mother’s Home, moms and their babies are given a safe place to call home. Each client has her own room for herself and her child. Moms are required to hold a job or go to school, and each mom takes a turn preparing the evening meal for herself and the other women on her floor. The clients eat family style.


Our Mother's Home also works in conjunction with the public school system. The girls receive “shopping points” for attending classes at school and at Our Mother’s Home, as well as helping with other aspects of the home. These points can be used in the clothes closet where many of our donations were utilized.


Our tour showed us firsthand how the program works and where our donations are being used, and we have been invited back if more are interested in visiting and learning about this location.


Community Breakfast with Santa


December 20 will be a special Community Breakfast, Breakfast with Santa!


That means we only have two more Sundays to collect stocking stuffers. With 60 stockings to fill, please remember to bring your donation this Sunday to support our neighbors and this wonderful event.


If you’d like to help prepare the stockings, we will be stuffing them on December 19 in the room where the Clothes Closet is normally held (next to the fellowship hall). You are invited to us at 10:30 AM and share in the fun!


2026 Offering Envelopes Available


Next year's offering envelopes have arrived and will be available beginning this Sunday in the sanctuary for those that use them. For those who don't, any envelope will do, or there is always the online option. We give thanks for however we receive your offerings, and for you.


Updates


Bible Study:

Our Bible Study will resume weekly meetings in January.


Meals of Hope:

Meals of Hope is now distributing food every other week on Tuesdays from 1 PM - 4 PM. If you would like to participate, their next distribution is on December 23.


Prayer and Care:

Join us Fridays at 9:30 AM on Zoom or in the sanctuary. Cards to submit requests are in the back of the Sanctuary. Need to keep someone on the list? Send their name to prayer@fumcbonita.org. All information and last names will be kept confidential.


Altar Flowers:

If you would like to honor family, friends, or loved ones for an anniversary, birthday, or memorial, contact the church office for details.



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First United Methodist Church Bonita Springs

Office Hours: Monday - Thursday, 9 AM - 12 PM


27690 Shriver Avenue, Bonita Springs, FL 34135

Office: 239-992-1312

www.fumcbonita.org

office@fumcbonita.org


Rev. Ben Richards, Pastor

pastor@fumcbonita.org



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