March 27, 2025

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IN THE SANCTUARY

Sunday, March 30


"Joy and Solidarity: Celebrating Transgender Day of Visibility"


Join us as we learn with each other about the journeys of transgender/non binary folx and those who love them while amplifying their calls to action and solidarity.  We will hear from Tami Staas, Executive Director of Arizona Trans Youth and Parent Organization (AZTYPO); Magnus Hawthorne, VUU Member; and Jozeppi Angelo Morelli, featured in “Authentic Selves: Celebrating Tran and Nonbinary People and Their Families.”  (This is the UUA Common Read this year and is published by Beacon Press.)

YouTube Link - Sunday Service
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IN THE EDUCATION BUILDINGS

FAITH FORMATION



This is our fourth week of exploring The Practice of Trust. So far, we have explored trusting ourselves, others, and life. This week, we look at what it takes to fix broken trust. In addition to discussing the skills of making a sincere apology and forgiveness, we will also explore our feelings and how it feels when people betray our trust

Enroll for Children's 2024-2025 Faith Formation Classes Here

DALAI LAMA AND FRIENDS



8:30 am Meditation

9:00 am Discussion  

In person, in the board room, and

Via Zoom here

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Calendar

Thursday, March 27

  • Board Meeting 5:30p
  • EastVUU Online 6p
  • Facilities Committee 6p

Friday, March 28

  • AZCEND Food Bank 8:30a
  • Singles Dinner 6:30p

Saturday, March 29

  • Trans & Non-Binary Resource 10a

Sunday, March 30

  • Dalai Lama and Friends 8:30a
  • Sunday Service 10:30a
  • Faith Formation 10:30a
  • Retreat Planning 11:45a
  • Adult OWL 12p
  • VUUJAZ Coffee Conversation 12p
  • Empathy Circle 12:15p
  • Coming of Age 12:15
  • Grief Group 1p

Monday, March 31

  • I-Help Meal & Shelter 5:30p

Tuesday, April 1

  • EastVUU Circle of Friends 1p
  • Harvest the Power 6:00p

Wednesday, April 2

  • Game Lounge 6p
  • Policy Group 6:30p
  • VUU Voices 7p

Thursday, April 3

  • VUU Ensemble 3:30p
  • Ukester Friends 6p
  • VUU Band Rehearsal 6:30p

Friday, April 4

Saturday, April 5

  • New Participants Breakfast 9:30a
  • UUA/VUU FF Workshop 8:30a
  • Social Suppers 5p

Sunday, April 6

Save the Date . . .

Abbreviated information about upcoming events

more than two weeks out or without an article below


EastVUU Dinner - Apr 10

Desert Notes

March 31 is Trans Day of Visibility. Over the weekend many organizations, including ours, will be marking this day with celebrations and solidarity events. Many of you may not know as much about the “T” in LGBTQIA++. Last year I shared a couple of stories with you about elders I knew from my ministry in Kansas who were transgender and who led in their communities by example–sharing who they were, including their generosity, telling the story of the journey and gently reminding us that humans have the same basic needs. I often tell people you don't have to understand someone to treat them with kindness and respect. When someone tells us how they want to be known–their pronouns and name–there is nothing more complicated to do than to receive that gift and return it. Right now Trans and Non-Binary folx are being scapegoated in order to distract us from the planned theft happening in our government of funds and functionality. Being under threat looks like: being targeted by anti-DEI strategies; losing access to health care and spaces that were once safe (bathrooms, sports teams, student organizations); being targeted by harassment and physical violence; being criminalized for existing. When the same person also carries other identities under attack (immigrant, Black or brown, non-Christianity) the level of harm they experience is so much greater.  


This weekend I am inviting you to proclaim your solidarity and willingness to learn and lean in.  We have a Community Resource Fair for Trans/Non-Binary community on Saturday March 29 from 10-2:50 designed to build community for trans/non-binary folx and their allies/accomplices and to share resources. I hope it will be an opportunity to plan both how we will fight back against the rhetoric of hate but also how we will experience joy, connection, and hope. This event includes a potluck, too. RSVP and if you can help clean up or can offer some other help–we’d love that, too.  


Changing Hands–a favorite bookstore of mine and I imagine for most of you, is also hosting a “Transgender Day of Joy” Event starting at 5 at their Camelback location. And our Sunday service, as you’ve read, will also focus on this topic. I’ve been asking folks to read the book “Authentic Selves: Celebrating Tran and Nonbinary People and Their Families.” (This is the UUA Common Read this year and is published by Beacon Press.) Read it, and let’s talk!


As a parent watching my kid’s identity be erased, maligned, and watching him be denied access to things he needs, I have been really struggling. Kids need to be kids. They need to be able to socialize, play sports, engage in learning, have friends, explore, be in public spaces, without fear of being bullied, rejected, or denied access just because they don’t fit a neat box of “male/female.” Adults need full access to human activities, too. Let’s show up for each other! Love is at the center, always.  


Rev. Sarah Oglesby-Dunegan



Pacific West Region

Would you like to represent VUU at General Assembly in June?


The VUU Denominational Affairs Committee (DAC) is looking for candidates to become VUU delegates to the UUA General Assembly (GA), which will be held June 18 - June 22 in Baltimore, MD. We are looking for interested members who are willing to represent VUU, make connections among GA attendees, and to learn and bring ideas back to our Committees and the Congregation. They will need to represent the diverse perspectives of VUU members and congregational opinions in discussions and voting matters.


This year, GA will be held in person and virtually. Delegates must attend the Business Sessions at a minimum, but ideally they would also attend the workshops and lectures, where many of the ideas to be brought back to VUU will be found.


Details about GA can be found at uaa.org/ga. Please reach out to us at dac@vuu.org with any questions, or to let us know you are interested in becoming a delegate.

Looking for Denominational Affairs Committee Members


The DAC is looking for additional members! Are you interested in learning more about UUA and the new Pacific Western Region? Our committee follows activities in both organizations and brings our findings back to the VUU congregation. Attendance at the UUA General Assembly (either virtually on in-person) is desired but not a requirement. To learn more, email us at dac@vuu.org.


Submitted by Linda Rand

VUU Updates

Register Now for the 2025 VUU Prescott Retreat!


Deadline extended to Sunday, April 6!


There's still time to register! Don't miss out!

Click Here to Register.


Make new friends! Soak in the beauty of nature! Laugh & play with your VUU Family! You'll have a wonderful time!


Retreat Dates: Friday–Sunday, April 11–13

Location: Friendly Pines Camp

933 E Friendly Pines Rd, Prescott, AZ 85303


Retreat Highlights:

  • Cozy Cabins: Comfortable accommodations for two nights with bunks, bathrooms, electricity, and AC. Accessible cabins available.
  • Delicious Meals: Enjoy five tasty meals, with options for dietary restrictions.
  • Staff-Led Activities: Archery, climbing wall, and low ropes/team building will be available for all skill levels.
  • Good Times: Fun activities led by fellow VUUers for everyone to enjoy.
  • Un-Talent Show: A VUU tradition filled with laughs and creativity.
  • Saturday Evening Service: Celebrate community with Rev. Sarah.


The cost is $160 per person, which includes two nights and five meals. We also have a scholarship fund available if finances are a concern. Email Megan Kimball with any questions. Click Here to Register.


—Submitted by Megan Kimball

2025 FUUNd Last Chance Sale is Open


The Last Chance Sale for the 2025 FUUNd is open. All items are being offered at a “buy-it-now” price. Payment must be made at the time of purchase. You can view the items, make your purchase(s), and pay via credit card here.


Here are a few events coming up in April. (See the website for additional items.)



Beginner Line Dancing Lesson (Saturday, April 5, 1:00-2:30 pm) May pay bey cash or check at the door


Tie-Dyed Easter Eggs (Saturday, April 12, 1:00-4:00 pm)


EFT Workshop: Tapping Away Undesired Emotions and Pain (Sunday, April 13, 1:00-3:00 pm) In this self-help workshop, you will learn about the benefits of using the Emotional Freedom Technique (Tapping) to release undesired emotional attachments of your past.


Hand And Foot Card Tournament (Saturday, April 19, 5:00 pm) The hand and foot card game is a fun and exciting card game that is played with multiple decks of cards. It’s great for family gatherings or friendly competitions.


Texas Hold’Em Poker Tournament & Dinner (Saturday, April 26, 5:00 pm) Bid for your seat at a Texas Hold’Em Poker Tournament with a $750 prize pool (1st Place: $400, 2nd Place: $200, 3rd Place: $150, 4th Place: A commemorative mug. ALL PRIZE MONEY GENEROUSLY DONATED BY YOUR HOST, JOEL S. Your bid serves as your buy-in, and keep in mind that your evening includes dinner (bar snacks) and beverages. We’ll play fixed-bet Hold’Em with progressive blinds until 4 players remain—then it’s No Limit Hold’Em to the finish. New to poker? No problem—a beginner-friendly tutorial will be held 1 hour before the tournament begins.


Workshop on Creating a Connected World with Empathy Circles (Sunday, April 27, 1:00 - 2:30 pm) Join us for a supportive practice to strengthen your social engagement nervous system and deepen connection—with yourself and others. Guided by Teri McGovern-Nintzel, you’ll pair up to share and listen to stories using empathic listening and attunement. Teri will also lead vagal toning neural exercises to activate your natural capacity for connection. This practice opens space around your stories, allowing new insights and deeper resonance to emerge. About Teri: A survivor/thriver of C-PTSD, Teri is a vagal toning instructor, empathy circle facilitator, and writer passionate about fostering meaningful connection and well-being through empathy practice.


Email fuundtogether@vuu.org for questions or other assistance. Come join the FUUNd! Get your bids in today!

New Participant Breakfast


Saturday, April 5, 9:30 am - 1:00 pm


Want to learn more about VUU and Unitarian Universalism? Considering joining us? Come to breakfast and ask all your questions! 


Refreshments provided.  In the VUU Board Room on the education side of campus. RSVP here.

EastVUU

EastVUU Online: "Where is Your Faith?"


Thursday, March 27, 6:00pm


Where are you placing your faith in these difficult times? How do UUs bolster their faith when shared values and institutions seem to be crumbling? Let’s talk about what faith means to us individually and what works to keep our spirits whole.


New(ish) Zoom link: Join Zoom Meeting

Meeting ID: 812 3702 9733

Passcode: 597613


—Submitted by Janice Miller

Faith Formation

Dreaming Together; Naming the Now and Making Our Dreams Possible



UUA/VUU Visioning Workshop, April 5, 2025


Who knew when we began planning our Future of Faith Formation workshop back in the fall of 2024 that by April we would also be radically concerned about the future of our democracy?


We know that many of you are making hard choices about participating in the VUU/UUA workshop and the 50/50 Protest on Saturday, April 5. We hear you. We are making changes in our timing to allow you to do it all with a little help from your VUU family.


8:30 - 9:30 - Pre-Protest Breakfast with Rev. Sarah and Sara Sautter


9:00 - UUA Workshop on The Future of Faith Formation


Naming the Now


Dreaming What is Possible


Making the Dream Come True


11:30-12:30 - Carpools form in the VUU parking lot near the education building and leave for the State House every 15 minutes.


Sara Sautter

Interim Director of Faith Formation


Parents and Pastries


Our next Parents and Pastries will be held on Sunday April 6 at 9:30am on the playground. We will be hosting this event monthly on the Second Sunday of the month. Is your family new to VUU? Join us and get to know other parents while your children make new friends. 



Sara Sautter, Interim Director of Faith Formation

Music Ministries

Help VUU come alive with the sound of music!


There are many opportunities to help make beautiful music at VUU. Contact the music team at music@vuu.org, or talk to Beth Wyman and Lynn DeMuth for more information on any of the following.


Love to sing but can't commit to a regular rehearsal? Sing with the VUU Spirit Choir. Show up early on any first Sunday of the month, learn a song, and sing at the service. If you can carry a tune, come join us! Next date is Sunday, April 6.


Want to join the VUU Ensemble? This group rehearses the 1st and 3rd Thursdays of each month at 3:30 pm in the Sanctuary. If you have an alternative work schedule or can’t/don't want to commit to weekly evening choir rehearsals, please join us. Some musical experience is helpful but not a must.


Play the guitar, bass, brass, harmonica, percussion, keyboard? Join the Sunday worship band!


Want to sing with a fun, welcoming choir? VUU Voices, a four-part choir (SATB), rehearses Wednesdays at 7:00 pm. We perform monthly at Sunday services. No auditions! Just bring your love of music.


Are you passionate about collaborating with vocalists and ensembles or supporting Sunday congregational singing? We're seeking talented musicians to join our network of accompanists. Pianists and string players are especially welcome!

Joys and Concerns

Need to rehome a pet


We are looking for a new home for our beloved orange tabby, Catrick Swayze. We adopted him before we were married and he is truly a sweetheart, but our lifestyle has changed a lot and he has been unhappy for a long time. We’re traveling more, we work more, and we now have a toddler and a second baby on the way. He needs more attention and a slower pace of life than we are able to give him and he has been acting out because of it (sulking, crying, and going everywhere but the litter box). It’s especially bad when we go out of town, which we do somewhat frequently. This has been an extremely difficult decision for us, but he is clearly stressed out, not getting what he needs, and is not able to adjust to our life changes. It’s only about to get worse with a new baby. This is the right decision for Catrick and one we should have made a while ago. Catrick takes fondly to older adults with calm energy. He is an excellent lap cat and loves gentle play time. He enjoys the outdoors for short periods and rarely leaves the yard. He would love to just spend quiet time with you in the garden.


Catrick does not have any interest in children, he runs and hides from them. He would do best in a home free of dogs, young kids, and other general chaos. He’s okay with certain other cats, but is easily bullied and overwhelmed by bigger personalities. He needs consistent attention, cuddles, and play time. He would do best with someone who is home a lot and does not travel much, or who is willing to take him with them when they do travel. We have taken him on road trips in the past and he enjoys them.


Catrick is about 7 years old. He is microchipped, neutered, vaccinated, physically healthy, and has had annual checkups at the vet.


You can reach out to his family here.

Update on Sandy Whitley


Sandy with her sons Zach and Jeremy.


If you could join Sandy at Sante of Chandler at mealtime, it would be wonderful.


You can sign up for a meal here.


Thank you for your care and concern.

Submitted by Janet Cantley and Sandy's son Zach Green

Who is my Caring Neighbors Coordinator?

Share your Joys and Concerns here



Fellowship and Social Activities

Trans and Non-Binary Community Resource Day


Saturday, March 29 at VUU, on west side of campus


RSVP Here

View Flyer Here



10:00-10:30 am: Opening Ceremony in the Courtyard, led by Indigenous leaders

10:30-11:00 am: Welcome and Itinerary in the Courtyard

11:00 am-12:00 pm: Potluck & Resource Fair, Classrooms 1&2

12:00-2:50 pm: Workshops


For Questions contact minister@vuu.org.

Singles Dinner


When: Friday, March 28 at 6:30 pm

Where: Ryu Sushi and Teppanyaki,

2512 S Val Vista Dr #101, Gilbert

(near Val Vista and Williams Field)


This was described to me as the inexpensive Benihana, with the same quality at much lower prices. Lively chef performances as he prepares this 5-course meal including vegetarian choices.


RSVP to this email, or contact Claudette by phone or text 973-768-6047


Submitted by Claudette Wassil

Resilient Relationship Team Training


Interested in Resilient Relationship Team Training?


A group of us will be gathering for potlucks and training starting in April, using this UU Institute Tending Covenant training resource. In a low pressure, no homework, no deadline environment with yummy foods to share, we will explore how to weave ourselves into a community that practices conflict as learning, growth, and faith formation opportunity. Want to join us? Contact Teri McGovern-Nintzel.

Ukester Friends


Thanks to the few who attended the March Ukulele meet. We are now a once-a-month group! We meet on the first Thursday of the month 6:00 to 7:30 pm. Our next meeting is Thursday, April 3.


Submitted by Maria Wildflower


VUU Green Sanctuary Garden Seeking a Co-Chair


Four years ago, FLP assumed responsibility for VUU’s Green Sanctuary Garden. Kat Karpinen and I became co-chairs, and along with Ken St. John, numerous gardeners and volunteers, and grants from Special Funds, we made many significant improvements and successfully provided vegetables to the community and to our members.


Although we thoroughly enjoyed our time at the garden, Kat and I feel that it is time to hand the responsibility over to the next garden leaders. Krista Zabor has graciously stepped up to be a chair. We would like to have a co-chair to assist.


If you love gardening, won’t you please consider joining us to bring the garden to its next phase? Kat and I will be available to provide direction and Ken is remaining actively involved. Please contact Kat Karpinen and/or Denise McLeod if you have an interest and would like to learn more. Thank you!


Warmly, Denise

Giving / Volunteering

Paz de Cristo


Volunteers needed this month!


Continuing the Tradition… Keeping the Commitment… Living our Principles


April date: Friday, April 11, 4pm - 7pm

Location: 424 W Broadway Rd, Mesa, AZ

Click here for the sign up link

Families welcome!


Please join us as we keep VUU’s 34-year tradition of serving the evening meal to Paz de Cristo guests on the second Friday of April, 4/11/25. Volunteers gather at the Paz kitchen/dining room from 4 to 7 pm to prepare several meal items and then serve the evening meal. Additional tasks include cleanup of dishes, sweeping and mopping of floors and taking out the trash. If you are joining us for the first time, don’t worry, Paz staff and experienced VUU volunteers make the work easy and fun and the evening goes fast. Seventeen volunteers are needed for the evening and can range in age from 12 on up. Volunteers must be able to stand and participate in tasks during the entire evening. Have questions? Contact Joanne at

602-620-3100. Please sign up for this rewarding experience here.

We Need Office Volunteers!


Each week, a team meets to prepare VUU's weekly bank deposit. This small but mighty group needs more folks. If you can spare an hour on a Monday mornings, please contact Lynn DeMuth at 480.345.2626. Training will be provided, and you will work with an experienced partner to start.


Submitted by Lynn DeMuth

Linktree for Action Ideas


Connecting to organizations doing advocacy and organizing on various issues? Want to know what’s happening or what you can do? Check out some of these organizations.


Want to add a link? Contact Rev. Sarah at minister@vuu.org.  

Volunteer at the AZCEND Food Bank with Rev. Sarah


Date: Friday, March 28


Meet at 8:30 am at 345 S California St, Chandler, AZ 85225. Go inside to the Food Bank area, sign in, and make a name tag. Wear comfortable clothes and closed-toe shoes.


Email me if you’re planning to come: minister@vuu.org. This is a great way to learn more about this organization and also help out.  


Rev. Sarah

Support My Fundraising Efforts for AZCEND!


Did you know I have the honor of serving on the Board of AZCEND? AZCEND provides food, housing support, and essential services to families facing hunger, poverty, and homelessness. I’ve seen firsthand how this organization transforms lives, and I’m reaching out because you have a unique opportunity to make a direct impact—and also earn a valuable Arizona state tax credit. 


As a Qualifying Charitable Organization (QCO #20491), AZCEND is eligible for the Arizona Charitable Tax Credit. This means your donation—up to $470 for individuals or $938 for couples—can be claimed as a dollar-for-dollar credit on your 2024 Arizona state taxes when you give by April 15. Learn more about the tax credit from the Arizona Department of Revenue.


Every dollar helps local families in need and can reduce what you owe in state taxes. I’d love for you to join me in supporting this mission, and if you can, please share this with others who may want to give.


Make your tax credit donation today.


Thank you for being part of something that truly changes lives! For more information about AZCEND and our campaign, please click here.


Best, Sarah Oglesby-Dunegan, AZCEND Board Member

On-Going Donation Drives

Paz de Cristo


We are currently not collecting donations for Paz. We need someone to take over this role. Please reach out if you are interested.


Contact: Megan Kimball

Border Support


Donations needed for asylum seekers at the border:

  • Small handheld fruit cups
  • Small handheld juice
  • Veggie cups or squeezies
  • Used clothing (all sizes, all seasons)


Please put donations in the "Refugee Aid" box in the sanctuary foyer.



Contact: Sharon Kopina

Partners in Education


Adams Elementary appreciates your TAX CREDIT donations. Get dollar-for-dollar credit to offset AZ tax liability this tax season!


Contact: Adrienne O'Donnell

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