March 20, 2025

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IN THE SANCTUARY

Sunday, March 23


"Five Things...Centering Love, Trusting Each Other"


Rev. Sarah leads service with Obi Duru.


While Elon Musk is demanding that federal employees claim five things they accomplished to prove they are productive employees, I invite you join me in a practice of naming five things that have freed you as a human being–today, this week, this month or this year, even–the five things that are bringing you hope or healing, the five things you are grateful for or that remind that you that being alive is a gift…five things that aren’t about being productive (unless you produced joy) and aren’t about proving your worthiness as a human (because you don’t need to prove that). How can these practices help us connect to our theology and solidarity as universalists at this crucial moment in history? 


Music led by VUU Choir and Beth Wyman with Laurie Fagen.  

YouTube Link - Sunday Service
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IN THE EDUCATION BUILDINGS

FAITH FORMATION



This is our third week of exploring The Practice of Trust. So far, we have explored trusting ourselves and others. This week, we look at what it means to trust life. We will talk about how we can support those voices in our heads that say, “Life is good!” and develop the courage to take “leaps of faith.” Should we ask, “Is life just random and full of luck, or does it lean in the direction of goodness?”


Hey, Kids! The Fidget Library has NEW FIDGETS! Yep, new fidgets are on the way! Be sure to look for them this Sunday.

Enroll for Children's 2024-2025 Faith Formation Classes Here

DALAI LAMA AND FRIENDS



8:30 am Meditation

9:00 am Discussion  

In person, in the board room, and

Via Zoom here

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Calendar

Thursday, March 20

  • VUU Ensemble 3:30p
  • Finance Committee 5:30p
  • Page Turners Book Club 7p

Friday, March 21

Saturday, March 22

  • New Participant Class 9:30a

Sunday, March 23

  • Dalai Lama and Friends 8:30a
  • Sunday Service 10:30a
  • Faith Formation 10:30a
  • Adult OWL 12p
  • CN/VIP Building Community 12p
  • Coming of Age 12:15p
  • Empathy Circle 12:15p
  • Voices Lifted 12:15p
  • Grief Group 1p

Monday, March 24

  • I-Help Meal & Shelter 5:30p

Tuesday, March 25

  • I-HELP Shelter 5:30p
  • Harvest the Power 6:00p

Wednesday, March 26

  • Book Discussion 7p
  • VUU Voices 7p

Thursday, March 27

  • Board Meeting 5:30p
  • EastVUU Online 6p
  • Facilities Committee 6p

Friday, March 28

  • AZCEND Food Bank 8:30a
  • Singles Dinner 6:30p
  • Deadline to Register for Retreat

Saturday, March 29

  • Trans & Non-Binary Resource 10a

Sunday, March 30

  • Dalai Lama and Friends 8:30a
  • Sunday Service 10:30a
  • Faith Formation 10:30a
  • Retreat Planning 11:45a
  • Adult OWL 12p
  • VUUJAZ Coffee Conversation 12p
  • Empathy Circle 12:15p
  • Coming of Age 12:15
  • Grief Group 1p


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Save the Date . . .

Abbreviated information about upcoming events

more than two weeks out or without an article below


  • New Participant Meal - Apr 5 RSVP here
  • Parents & Pastries - Apr 6
  • Pacific West Region Meeting - May 29
  • New Participant Classes - Jun 7 RSVP here
  • UUA General Assembly - Jun 18-22 Register Here


Desert Notes

VUU has been building our budget based on the pledges and other income we have received and continue to receive from each of you. At the beginning of March we celebrated Mary Erickson as someone who has consistently supported VUU financially and as a volunteer in a number of different ways. “Wise elder” is not a term we use at VUU often–not because we lack wise people, but because so few want to be named an “elder.” However, I think we need to cultivate this role more. Someone who has given so much over many years and continues to learn, grow and lead is an asset we should celebrate! 


We also have many new folks showing up and contributing to VUU who are sharing new perspectives, resources and ideas for how we can grow as a community–also bringing new questions and a desire to feel a sense of belonging and connection. Last weekend we were blessed by an opportunity to learn together and remember together the legacy of Cesar Chavez and other leaders in the United Farm Workers Union. This program was the result of planning and conversations with members Beatriz Arias Cisneros and Sheila Lopez, who joined within the last two years. At a time when our current administration is destroying our connections to important and diverse leaders by taking down web pages or editing out their contributions, it feels important to be honoring these legacies. Simultaneously, it feels important that we look for ways to show up in our community and speak up against the destruction of our democracy.  


There are so many ways to do this, but I want to encourage us to be thinking more about how we can be doing this together. Are you going to a protest? Reach out to let us know so some of us can join you. Make signs that reference our VUU community support! Wear UU shirts! Going to a meeting? Volunteering somewhere? Writing letters to legislators? Invite members of the VUU community; create a team to do these things with you! I was listening to AZ Attorney General Kris Mayes at a Civic Engagement Beyond Voting Meeting (CEBV) this week (more than 400 people on a zoom call, a number of them VUUers!) She emphasized that two strategies right now are “courts and crowds.” We can’t all be the AG and fighting the court battles, but we can show up and create crowds to draw attention to what is happening. We can make phone calls, write letters, and plan actions. And we can take care of the needs that arise, whether it’s helping pay for the legal costs of an immigrant family we are accompanying, providing safe space for groups to meet and discuss actions and needs, or participating in mutual aid structures. And friends, I can’t organize all of these pieces by myself or even initiate all of these. Some of you are going to have to organize meetings, post information, and invite others to join you. (And some of you are doing this! Thanks!)  I can help you get the word out to other VUU folks, we can offer meeting space resources and share ideas. Sometimes having “300 roommates” is a great way to start a movement.  


Rev. Sarah Oglesby-Dunegan

Photos from last week's service, "Remembering the Legacy of Cesar Chavez," with Marco Albarrān, Zarco Guerroero, Carmen de Novais. Brought to you by Beatriz Arias Cisneros and Sheila Lopez. Piano Accompaniment by Felix Werwer.

Pacific West Region

Would you like to represent VUU at General Assembly in June?


The VUU Denominational Affairs Committee (DAC) is looking for candidates to become VUU delegates to the UUA General Assembly (GA), which will be held June 18 - June 22 in Baltimore, MD. We are looking for interested members who are willing to represent VUU, make connections among GA attendees, and to learn and bring ideas back to our Committees and the Congregation. They will need to represent the diverse perspectives of VUU members and congregational opinions in discussions and voting matters.


This year, GA will be held in person and virtually. Delegates must attend the Business Sessions at a minimum, but ideally they would also attend the workshops and lectures, where many of the ideas to be brought back to VUU will be found.


Details about GA can be found at uaa.org/ga. Please reach out to us at dac@vuu.org with any questions, or to let us know you are interested in becoming a delegate.

Looking for Denominational Affairs Committee Members


The DAC is looking for additional members! Are you interested in learning more about UUA and the new Pacific Western Region? Our committee follows activities in both organizations and brings our findings back to the VUU congregation. Attendance at the UUA General Assembly (either virtually on in-person) is desired but not a requirement. To learn more, email us at dac@vuu.org.


Submitted by Linda Rand

Save the Date: PWR Business Meeting


Please save the date for our 1st Annual PWR Business Meeting! 


We are meeting via Zoom on Thursday, May 29 from 8:00-9:00 pm MST. We will provide a regional update, approve the annual budget, and approve board members. As we approach the meeting, be on the lookout for further details, including meeting materials. 


Blessings, PWR Board 

March PWR Newsletter


The March PWR Newsletter is now available here. It highlights PWR and UUA news, as well as resources that maybe useful to VUU members. It's worth a read! Subscribe to the newsletter here.


More information on the PWR can be found on this website.


Submitted by Linda Rand

VUU Updates

Don't Miss Out! Register Now for the 2025 VUU Prescott Retreat!


Hurry! The deadline to register is Friday, March 28 (two weeks before the retreat)! If you've been waiting until the last minute, this is it!

Click Here to Register.


The VUU Prescott Retreat is an amazing opportunity to really get to know some of your fellow VUU members while soaking in the beauty of Prescott! Whether you're seeking relaxation, a sense of community, or a bit of adventure, this retreat has something for everyone—those new to VUU or longtime members, young or young-at-heart, single or with family. Don't let this opportunity for a memorable, fun-filled weekend pass you by!


Retreat Dates: Friday–Sunday, April 11–13

Location: Friendly Pines Camp

933 E Friendly Pines Rd, Prescott, AZ 85303


Retreat Highlights:

  • Cozy Cabins: Comfortable accommodations for two nights with bunks, bathrooms, electricity, and AC. Accessible cabins available.
  • Delicious Meals: Enjoy five tasty meals, with options for dietary restrictions.
  • Staff-Led Activities: Archery, climbing wall, and low ropes/team building will be available for all skill levels.
  • Good Times: Fun activities led by fellow VUUers for everyone to enjoy.
  • Un-Talent Show: A VUU tradition filled with laughs and creativity.
  • Saturday Evening Service: Celebrate community with Rev. Sarah.


The cost is $160 per person, which includes two nights and five meals. We also have a scholarship fund available if finances are a concern. Email Megan Kimball with any questions. Click Here to Register.


—Submitted by Megan Kimball

2025 FUUNd Last Chance Sale is Open


The Last Chance Sale for the 2025 FUUNd is open. All items are being offered at a “buy-it-now” price. Payment must be made at the time of purchase. You can view the items, make your purchase(s), and pay via credit card here.


Here are a few events coming up in April. (See the website for additional items.)


EFT Workshop: Tapping Away Undesired Emotions and Pain (Sunday, April 13, 1:00-3:00 pm) In this self-help workshop, you will learn about the benefits of using the Emotional Freedom Technique (Tapping) to release undesired emotional attachments of your past.


Hand And Foot Card Tournament (Saturday, April 19, 5:00 pm) The hand and foot card game is a fun and exciting card game that is played with multiple decks of cards. It’s great for family gatherings or friendly competitions.


Beginner Line Dancing Lesson (Saturday, April 5, 1:00-2:30 pm)


Tie-Dyed Easter Eggs (Saturday, April 12, 1:00-4:00 pm)


Texas Hold’Em Poker Tournament & Dinner (Saturday, April 26, 5:00 pm)


Workshop on Creating a Connected World with Empathy Circles (Sunday, April 27, 1:00 - 2:30 pm)


Email fuundtogether@vuu.org for questions or other assistance. Come join the FUUNd! Get your bids in today!

New Participant Class


Saturday, March 22, 9:30 am - 1:00 pm


Want to learn more about VUU and Unitarian Universalism? Considering joining us? Come to this class and ask all your questions! 


Refreshments provided.  In the VUU Board Room on the education side of campus. RSVP here.

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Special Funds Grant Dollars Remaining



As we approach the end of our fiscal year, the Special Funds Committee wants to remind you that we still have $7,760.15 available for grant distributions from the Endowment Fund for the fiscal year. Applications and instructions can be found on the VUU website at "About VUU/Elected Leaders/Special Funds Committee," then open "SFC Grant Application and Process." Or use this link.


Here is a list of the Grants we have already funded this fiscal year.


Please contact Carl Anderson at 480-529-4365 if you have any questions.

EastVUU

EastVUU Online: "Where is Your Faith?"


Thursday, March 27, 6:00pm


Where are you placing your faith in these difficult times? How do UUs bolster their faith when shared values and institutions seem to be crumbling? Let’s talk about what faith means to us individually and what works to keep our spirits whole.


New(ish) Zoom link: Join Zoom Meeting

Meeting ID: 812 3702 9733

Passcode: 597613


—Submitted by Janice Miller

Food for Life and the Planet (FLP)

VUU Green Sanctuary Garden Seeking a Co-Chair


Four years ago, FLP assumed responsibility for VUU’s Green Sanctuary Garden. Kat Karpinen and I became co-chairs, and along with Ken St. John, numerous gardeners and volunteers, and grants from Special Funds, we made many significant improvements and successfully provided vegetables to the community and to our members.


Although we thoroughly enjoyed our time at the garden, Kat and I feel that it is time to hand the responsibility over to the next garden leaders. Krista Zabor has graciously stepped up to be a chair. We would like to have a co-chair to assist.


If you love gardening, won’t you please consider joining us to bring the garden to its next phase? Kat and I will be available to provide direction and Ken is remaining actively involved. Please contact Kat Karpinen and/or Denise McLeod if you have an interest and would like to learn more. Thank you!


Warmly, Denise

Faith Formation

Game Lounge: First and Third Wednesdays


Next date is Wednesday, April 2 at 6:00 pm.


Parents and Pastries


Our first Parents and Pastries was held on Sunday, March 9 on the playground. We will be hosting this event monthly on the Second Sunday of the month. Is your family new to VUU? Join us and get to know other parents while your children make new friends. 


Next meet-up, Sunday April 6 at 9:30 am.

Playground or Rooms 1&2 depending upon the weather.


Sara Sautter, Interim Director of Faith Formation

Music Ministries

Help VUU come alive with the sound of music!


There are many opportunities to help make beautiful music at VUU. Contact the music team at music@vuu.org, or talk to Beth Wyman and Lynn DeMuth for more information on any of the following.


Love to sing but can't commit to a regular rehearsal? Sing with the VUU Spirit Choir. Show up early on any first Sunday of the month, learn a song, and sing at the service. If you can carry a tune, come join us! Next date is Sunday, April 6.


Want to join the VUU Ensemble? This group rehearses the 1st and 3rd Thursdays of each month at 3:30 pm in the Sanctuary. If you have an alternative work schedule or can’t/don't want to commit to weekly evening choir rehearsals, please join us. Some musical experience is helpful but not a must. Next date is Thursday, March 20.


Play the guitar, bass, brass, harmonica, percussion, keyboard? Join the Sunday worship band!


Want to sing with a fun, welcoming choir? VUU Voices, a four-part choir (SATB), rehearses Wednesdays at 7:00 pm. We perform monthly at Sunday services. No auditions! Just bring your love of music. Next date is Wednesday, March 26.


Are you passionate about collaborating with vocalists and ensembles or supporting Sunday congregational singing? We're seeking talented musicians to join our network of accompanists. Pianists and string players are especially welcome!

Joys and Concerns

Building Community Relations: House Meetings


Every Fourth Sunday, immediately after the service, we host a "Building Community Relations: House Meeting," coordinated by Valley Interfaith Project (VIP) together with Caring Neighbors.


The purpose is the share stories of challenges currently affecting you and your family/friends. The goal is to build compassion, connection, and solidarity in our VUU community.


Please join us in the Flex Room after the service on Sunday, March 23 for a chance to get to know each other better. We offer a friendly, safe space--and we look forward to talking and listening together. And feel free to bring a friend.


Submitted by Kathy Melamed

Life Crisis Forms


Printed forms will be available Sunday, March 23. Stop by the Caring Ministries table at the rear of the Sanctuary before or after the service. 


The Life Crisis Form can be found on the VUU webpage. Due to confidentiality concerns, the form cannot be filled out online. Print the form, fill it out, and return it to VUU. It can be mailed or dropped in Rev. Sarah's mailbox.


Joyce Donahue, Caring Neighbors Co-Chair and Melissa Bush, Lay Pastoral Care Associates Co-Chair

Update on Sandy Whitley


Sandy Whitley is making noticeable and steady progress in her recovery, albeit at a slow pace. She needs volunteers at meal-time, occasionally for assistance, but mostly for interaction and visiting.

You can sign up for a meal here.


Thank you for your care and concern.

Submitted by Janet Cantley and Sandy's son Zach Green

Who is my Caring Neighbors Coordinator?

Share your Joys and Concerns here



Fellowship and Social Activities

Trans and Non-Binary Community Resource Day


Saturday, March 29

at VUU, on west side of campus


RSVP Here

View Flyer Here


10:00-10:30 am: Opening Ceremony in the Courtyard, led by Indigenous leaders

10:30-11:00 am: Welcome and Itinerary in the Courtyard

11:00 am-12:00 pm: Potluck & Resource Fair, Classrooms 1&2

12:00-2:50 pm: Workshops


Save the Date: Sunday, March 30

Trans Day of Visibility Service at VUU


For Questions contact minister@vuu.org.

Book Discussion with Rev. Sarah


Wednesday, March 26, 7:00-8:15 pm


RSVP HERE to get zoom link.

 

Authentic Selves: Celebrating Trans and Nonbinary People and Their Families is the UUA Common Read this year. This volume includes photos which are also part of a a traveling exhibit. Jozeppi Morelli, one of the people featured in the book, frequently accompanies the exhibit at public events led by congregations and other organizations interested in learning about and growing support for trans and nonbinary people. Currently a resident of the Phoenix metro, he is working with Rev. Sarah on programs related to this read.

Singles Dinner


When: Friday, March 28 at 6:30 pm

Where: Ryu Sushi and Teppanyaki,

2512 S Val Vista Dr #101, Gilbert

(near Val Vista and Williams Field)


This was described to me as the inexpensive Benihana, with the same quality at much lower prices. Lively chef performances as he prepares this 5-course meal including vegetarian choices.


RSVP to this email, or contact Claudette by phone or text 973-768-6047


Submitted by Claudette Wassil

Page Turners Book Club


The Page Turners Book Club is open to all members, visitors, and friends of VUU who enjoy reading and discussing a variety of books. The next meeting is Thursday, March 20 at 7:00 pm. We meet at the home of Johnnie Godfrey in Tempe (near Baseline Rd. and the 101).  The book is From Here to Eternity – Traveling the World to Find the Good Death by Caitlin Doughty.


Fascinated by our pervasive fear of dead bodies, mortician Caitlin Doughty embarks on a global expedition to discover how other cultures care for the dead. From Zoroastrian sky burials to wish-granting Bolivian skulls, she investigates the world’s funerary customs and expands our sense of what it means to treat the dead with dignity.


For the meeting address or questions, please contact Johnnie at 480-231-8381 or email Amy.


Empathy Circles at VUU: Hybrid Option Coming Soon!


I’m working on making Empathy Circles at VUU hybrid (in-person/online) to include those who can’t attend in person. This would allow experienced facilitators and interested individuals from outside our community to join, expanding the reach of this resource and potentially posing unique challenges. With both pros and cons considered, I believe this growth could strengthen our collective capacity to practice and embody diverse connection skills and expand our choices beyond habitual responses like comparison, judgment, avoidance, the need to be right, interrogation, defensiveness, fixing, pleasing, intellectualizing, interrupting, minimizing, withholding, and sarcasm—just to name a baker’s disconnection dozen.


To accommodate as many people as possible, I’m considering offering this up to four times per month, alternating between daytime and evening. I’ll be creating a Doodle poll with potential times—if you'd like to receive it, please reply here!


Save the Date

The next scheduled Empathy Circle is Sunday, March 23, 12:15-2:00 pm in the chancel area of the Sanctuary.


Submitted by Teri McGovern-Nitzel

Ukester Friends


Thanks to the few who attended the March Ukulele meet. We are now a once-a-month group! We meet on the first Thursday of the month 6:00 to 7:30 pm. Our next meeting is Thursday, April 3.


Submitted by Maria Wildflower

Giving / Volunteering

We Need Office Volunteers!


Each week, a team meets to prepare VUU's weekly bank deposit. This small but mighty group needs more folks. If you can spare an hour on a Monday mornings, please contact Lynn DeMuth at 480.345.2626. Training will be provided, and you will work with an experienced partner to start.


Submitted by Lynn DeMuth

I-HELP Meal on Monday, March 24


Our meal will feature the ultimate comfort food: stew. Coming Of Age participants are making the stew, but we still need some help with the other meal items!  


Sign Up Here

Linktree for Action Ideas


Connecting to organizations doing advocacy and organizing on various issues? Want to know what’s happening or what you can do? Check out some of these organizations.


Want to add a link? Contact Rev. Sarah at minister@vuu.org.  

Volunteer at the AZCEND Food Bank with Rev. Sarah


Date: Friday, March 28.


Meet at 8:30 am at 345 S California St, Chandler, AZ 85225. Go inside to the Food Bank area, sign in, and make a name tag. Wear comfortable clothes and closed-toe shoes.


Email me if you’re planning to come: minister@vuu.org. This is a great way to learn more about this organization and also help out.  


Rev. Sarah

Chandler School District Action


On Tuesday, March 25, students will be returning from Spring Break, and CUSD teachers are planning to welcome them back and to demonstrate our commitment to public education. Arriving between 6:30 and 7:00 am, teachers will be outside with signs with statements like "We love public schools!", "We love [School's name]", "CUSD Pride!", and "We love ALL students!"


Teachers will need to go inside when our contract hours begin, so we need community members to continue to help us welcome students back and demonstrate our community's commitment to public education. Classes start at 7:25 pm, so most students will be inside at that point. 


Key points:

  • Arrive between 6:30 and 7:00 am. Dress in red [Red for Ed].
  • Stay on public sidewalks in front of or around the school, and be careful of traffic.
  • Show your support! Brings signs of positivity.
  • Spread the word! Invite your friends, family, and community to join us in this heartfelt celebration.


Submitted by Kiersty Lemon-Rogers

Support My Fundraising Efforts for AZCEND!


Did you know I have the honor of serving on the Board of AZCEND? AZCEND provides food, housing support, and essential services to families facing hunger, poverty, and homelessness. I’ve seen firsthand how this organization transforms lives, and I’m reaching out because you have a unique opportunity to make a direct impact—and also earn a valuable Arizona state tax credit. 


As a Qualifying Charitable Organization (QCO #20491), AZCEND is eligible for the Arizona Charitable Tax Credit. This means your donation—up to $470 for individuals or $938 for couples—can be claimed as a dollar-for-dollar credit on your 2024 Arizona state taxes when you give by April 15. Learn more about the tax credit from the Arizona Department of Revenue.


Every dollar helps local families in need and can reduce what you owe in state taxes. I’d love for you to join me in supporting this mission, and if you can, please share this with others who may want to give.


Make your tax credit donation today.


Thank you for being part of something that truly changes lives! For more information about AZCEND and our campaign, please click here.


Best, Sarah Oglesby-Dunegan, AZCEND Board Member

On-Going Donation Drives

Paz de Cristo


We are currently not collecting donations for Paz. We need someone to take over this role. Please reach out if you are interested.


Contact: Megan Kimball

Border Support


Donations needed for asylum seekers at the border:

  • Small handheld fruit cups
  • Small handheld juice
  • Veggie cups or squeezies
  • Used clothing (all sizes, all seasons)


Please put donations in the "Refugee Aid" box in the sanctuary foyer.



Contact: Sharon Kopina

Partners in Education


Adams Elementary appreciates your TAX CREDIT donations. Get dollar-for-dollar credit to offset AZ tax liability this tax season!


Contact: Adrienne O'Donnell

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