December 4, 2025

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Celebrating the gardens, stories, and friendships we’ve shared along the way.

~ Stephanie

Follow me on our Beyond Behnke's Facebook page where I will post updates and share articles.

I am trying to post more on Instagram but it is a work in progress.

I love Pinterest and tend to get lost scrolling through all the different boards. Beyond Behnke's does have a lot of different boards about plants

Check out all of our videos on YouTube. I have so many from Behnke Nurseries along with new ones from other garden centers

 Thank you for being 
part of this journey


Last June, I decided to send this email once a month instead of weekly. At the time, I honestly thought it was just a little break for me, and come September, I would be back at it weekly. Of course, as you have seen, it has stayed monthly. I have spent these last few months thinking of what I should do in the future. I was leaning toward keeping it to once a month, but these previous three emails have taken a lot out of me. By not doing them weekly, I forget the little tricks for putting them together, and then the company I use to send them out raised the price. I deleted the names of those who do not open the email, which reduced costs, but I also lost many of the features that made it easy to put together.


So after all of that and conversations with my husband and, of course, the other two men in my life, my good friends Larry Hurley, who edits and writes for me, and Larry Bristow, who takes care of all things IT, I have decided it is time to say goodbye to this email.


Gosh, that was a lot of explanations, but you have all been with me through so much that I really wanted to explain why. I just spent the last month going through over six thousand photos I have used in this email since 2007. I know one day my family will wonder just why I kept them, as I am sure they are somewhere else on my computers. 


My plan going forward with Beyond Behnke's is to keep our website going. I hope to write a few times a year for the blog, and maybe Larry Hurley will write about some of his upcoming adventures. Follow Beyond Behnkes on Facebook for the most up-to-date news, articles, and events.


I will keep all our articles, and Behnke's history will remain on the website. I also plan to keep our social media accounts active on Facebook, Pinterest, and Instagram. I will also do some craft shows in 2026. I cut way back this year, but I love seeing everyone, so keep checking our event calendar as the year goes on to see where I will be. Plus, I hope to share other events at all the great garden centers in our area on the calendar. 


I really do want to thank each of you for all your support and comments on these ramblings I have shared over the years. What started in 2007, when I first went back to work at Behnke's and put together this email to let you know about plants and what was happening at the nursery, has become my way of saying goodbye to the place I will always consider my home. Behnke Nurseries and Beltsville.


You have all read my thoughts on pretty much everything, and I feel so blessed that I was able to share my love for this amazing company that my grandparents, Albert and Rose Behnke, started in 1930, and so many made it the best darn garden center around. From the hundreds of 'Behnke Best Employees' to the thousands of our customers who supported our small business. 


This last message from me is getting rather long, but there is so much I want to say to you and so many stories I have yet to share. 



I wish you all a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.


With love always, and my warmest goodbye, my friends.

~ Stephanie

 

Feathered Friends, Near and Far, by Larry Hurley

Larry Hurleys back yard in the winter
Gentoo penguin by LH


It's never too early to lay in a supply of birdseed. You never know when the DC region might experience a Nor'easter snowstorm that shuts everything down for a few days, and your feathered friends are depending on you to make life easier for them. Here, from the window of our former home in Maryland in February of 2010, we have two male cardinals, a junco, and a white-throated sparrow perched on a potted laceleaf Japanese maple. They are staged to come in under an overhang, where the snow wasn't as deep and where we had set out sunflower seeds.


Speaking of birds and snow, we were privileged to take a trip to the Falkland Islands, South Georgia Island, and Antarctica in November. I remember when Stephanie's mom Sonja came back from an Antarctic trip, and she was raving about it. I thought, what is there to see besides ice? It turns out that the ice, snow and glaciers are beautiful, but for me, it was all about the birds. We saw eight species of penguins, a half dozen species of albatross, and lots of others for my bird life list. The photo is from the Falkland Islands. It's a Gentoo penguin picking up a chunk of mud to add to a small ground nest, which at the time his mate was sitting on. He just went over, tapped it onto the side of the nest, and then waddled back to get more mud. I thought I would include it as a "bow" to all of you who have been kind enough to read my writings over the years. ~ Larry Hurley, Garden Writer


Helmut T. Jaehnigen

March 8, 1936 — November 15, 2025

Helmut Spring

Over the years, if you came to Behnke Nurseries to buy shrubs, trees, or your Christmas tree, chances are you met Helmut. For me, Helmut has been a part of my life for as long as I can remember, from the time I was a little girl living in that old brick house on the nursery, all the way through adulthood.


Helmut came to America as a young man from Germany to work for my grandparents. We had an apartment in our basement where many of the men from Germany and Holland stayed when they first arrived. Helmut was one of them. I can’t remember exactly how long he lived with us, but eventually he moved into his own home and started a family.


As far back as I can remember, he ran everything in the woody plants department; he was the buyer and the manager, choosing the plants, caring for them, and helping customers find just the right tree for their yard. It was a big responsibility, and he carried it with such dedication that people came looking specifically for him.

And for me, whenever I stopped by the nursery, it was always his big hug that I looked forward to. With no father in my life, I was blessed to have many good men around me growing up, my grandfather, my uncles, Helmut, and others who were always there.


A few weeks ago, Linda reached out, and I was able to go see Helmut and say goodbye. Helmut was one of those people you carry with you, part of the fabric of Behnke’s and part of my own story.


We have a few articles on our website about Helmut, and I wanted to share one from 2011. Just click on the green boxes below. And that little girl Helmut is holding below? That is me!



Helmut wasn’t just part of the nursery; he was part of my family. Rest in peace.


helmut

December Garden To-Do List 

You can find ALL our monthly Garden Tips

on our website under Resources

Protect branches

Trees and Shrubs


  • Pruning of spring-blooming deciduous (leaf-dropping) trees and shrubs should be limited to removing dead, broken or diseased branches. (Major pruning of spring-bloomers should be done soon after blooming; that way you get to enjoy the blooms.) It’s fine to take some trimmings from your evergreens for holiday decorating, though. Hollies, boxwoods and pines are great for this.


  • If we have a heavy snow, try to keep it from building up on the gutters and eaves above shrubs. Also use an upward motion to gently sweep snow off the shrubs to prevent breakage.


  • Every year after a heavy snowfall we’re asked about Japanese Maple branches that break due to the weight of snow. So here’s the way to prevent damage to them: Make sure there is no accumulation of leaves on branches. You can even do what they do in Japan – support branches with a board that has a V notch cut in it, then wrapped in burlap (to avoid abrasion to the branch).

Final Thought

All that said, Susan O’Hara (Behnke's former graphic manager) has this answer to the question of what to do in the garden in December (and who can argue with it?)

It’s December. Enough said. Spend much time enjoying the company of friends and family. Even in this economy, we can all do that. Money’s too tight for buying gifts? Give the gift of yourself. Rake someone’s leaves; take out your elderly neighbor’s trash; drive your mom through the neighborhood to look at the lights. Make memories.


SAVE THE DATE

My last event of 2025

December 7 ~ Turf Valley

I will be still doing craft shows in 2026. Check out our websites event calendar for dates

Treasures That Tell a Story

Old World Santa's Furry Friends
Old World Santa

Some of my favorite moments in this little shop have been sharing ornaments and treasures that bring back memories, those special pieces we unwrap each year with a smile.


I still have a small number of Old World Christmas ornaments and Egyptian Museum Glass pieces left. When they’re gone, I won’t be restocking them. The links are below if you’d like to take a look at what remains.


Even though the emails are ending, you can still visit my online shop anytime through the Beyond Behnke’s website. I’ll continue offering Fairy Garden pieces and other items there throughout the year, including our German ornaments and nutcrackers, and Quilled Greeting Cards.


Thank you for being part of this community, whether you’ve been with me since the early days or just joined along the way.


~Stephanie 🌿

Quilled Greeting Cards

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Quilled Christmas Goose

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The last photo below is of Albert and Rose Behnke's home on Behnke Nurseries in the 50's, with the "The Man Who Sold Hot Dogs " sign right out front. I now have the sign at my home. For my entire life, it hung at Behnke's. Maybe you saw it when you visited the nursery back in the day. ~ Stephanie

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