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Welcome to the very first Books, Birds, and Gardens column for Locally Sourced!
The name’s a bit of an inside joke, a nod to an old NPR study that found the top three hobbies of NPR listeners were (you guessed it) books, birds, and gardens. I picked it partly for the laugh, but mostly because I genuinely love all three.
I guess that makes me an average NPR listener too.
While spending some quality time with my friend Google, I stumbled across something unexpected: “death cafe” and the Rest in Pages book club. I was intrigued! Turns out, Rest in Pages is a book club hosted by The Whimsy Mercantile in Lansing, where folks gather monthly to discuss books that deal with, in some way, death and dying.
Now, I’m very Southern and southerners are obsessed with death. So a book club focused on death? I’m definitely vibing, as the kids say.
The genres vary: one month it’s a memoir, the next, something more surprising—like The Martian by Andy Weir. I asked what space farming had to do with death, and owner Jamie Hazzard said the group dove into how they'd face similar life-or-death decisions if stranded on Mars. Would they go quietly or fight like hell? Now that’s a book club conversation.
Jamie, who is also a death doula (and believe me, I plan to do a totally different story on that!), told me that the purpose of Rest in Pages is to provide a safe space to talk about death. The books help create the framework for conversations that can be really hard, or full of laughter. Sometimes both. (After all, ‘laughter through tears is my favorite emotion.’ There’s one for my Steel Magnolia friends!)
Past picks include The American Way of Death, I’m Glad My Mom Died, and Discerning Spirits: Divine and Demonic Possession in the Middle Ages (I’m really sorry I missed that chat!). And I threw in a suggestion for a future discussion: Nikki Erlick’s The Measure.
The next meeting is July 19 at 3 p.m. The group will be discussing hospice nurse Julie McFadden’s Nothing to Fear. Come as you are, curious, nervous, or just looking for a good conversation.
Now, where there’s death, there’s also life—and summer is overflowing with it. I love birding, but long hikes can be tricky for me some days. That’s why I was thrilled to discover Sapsucker Sits, a weekly stationary birding event from the Cornell Lab of Ornithology. You just show up at the pavilion by the pond, grab a chair (or bring your own), and enjoy the view. Wheelchairs, folding chairs, binoculars, and friendly staff are all on hand. It happens every Tuesday from 9:30 to 11 a.m.
While you’re in the area, stroll through the Cornell Botanic Gardens or join a guided event like Mindfulness Meditation on July 11 or Exploring the Trees of the Arboretum on July 13. There’s a lot more listed on the website too.
Finally, I’d love to hear from you: Where are your favorite birding or garden spots? Got a backyard you’re proud of? Send me a photo—I’d love to feature some of your green spaces in a future column.
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