In this weeks message, I need to teach you a new word. More specifically, I need to teach you all how to be better liars then you may already be.
To start, there is lying like we all know; deliberately not telling the truth. Then there are other forms of lying like equivocation where you use ambiguous language to conceal the truth or to avoid committing.
There is also prevarication which is to make a statement that deviates from or perverts the truth in a way that still creates a false sense of knowing. But, the very best way to lie is learned by most of our politicians and diplomats. This way of lying is to lie by telling the truth.
How can you lie by telling the truth? I’ll give you any example
You are a young kid and you come home one day from school. Your parent greets you and asks you about your day and even inquires about the homework you have. They ask if you finished your homeworker for the day, and you respond that you finished your book report that is due tomorrow morning. Well done, you have finished some of your homework, and this may be true that you did all of the report, but it may not mean you are all done with everything due tomorrow or even for the week. You have just lied by telling the truth.
The new word that you are learning today that defines this action of truthful lying is paltering. When you palter, you lie by telling the truth; you don’t give the whole truth, nor just speak truth. Paltering can involve failing to disclose relevant information, but unlike lying by omission, paltering involves the active disclosure of true but misleading information. Paltering is powerful; it enables would-be deceivers to actively influence a target's beliefs. You just say true things that lead others to believe a lie.
Now, I hope none of you fall into using paltering, but we have to understand paltering in order to make sense of the gospel lesson this week.
In Matthew 16, Jesus asks a question; “Who do people say that I am?”
Well, when the disciples were asked this question, they responded with a couple opinions. Some said He was Elijah, others said John the Baptist, or even Jeremiah was thrown out there; all prolific and powerful people within their religious history. And, just like the disciples, we take examples, or modern day equivalents, and we make Jesus out to be what we want Him to be. We say Jesus is a great teacher, helper, leader, and even protector.
Now, while these depictions and choices about who Jesus is may be true, there is a lie that is wrapped up in these truths; these are our personal depictions of who Jesus is, not who He is truthfully said to be.
You see, God defines who His son is, not us. Someone who justifies their poor actions by saying Jesus was with them, or use Jesus to validate their actions is not truthfully depicting Jesus the way He has been depicted. Using Him to validate our own costs falls into paltering.
An example of this is how we say Jesus looks like us. He looks like a white man and even whiter when we put a light behind him in our churches, and that Jesus is just like us. Therefore, we say He must think like us and have the same values like us, and while it is true Jesus is very much a part of us as anyone can be, it is a lie that is used for the benefit of people that look like me to abuse their authority and perpetuate their power in the world; they palter.
Paltering turns a little truth into a lie to control people for their own needs, privilege, and gain.
Out of all the disciples, Peter did not Palter. When asked who Jesus was, Peter answered by saying Jesus was the son of God, Messiah, and the God on this planet.
The truth is that Jesus was born of Mary, suffered on a cross, went back to heaven and now sits at the right hand of God who will come to judge the living and the dead. There is no agenda there. There is no paltering there. There is just truth; truth given to us by God Himself.
There is something profound in this gospel that we need to hear. Whenever we need Jesus to be something for us, for power, money, privilege, we are paltering so that He is serving our agenda. We must be mindful of that. We must call that out. You see, Jesus does not to change who He is. He does not change to look more like us. Instead, we need to conform to the image of the broken Christ and live and walk as disciples carrying our own cross. That is the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.
Amen
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