NEW EDITORIAL

GORDON ON ENDLESS BEGINNINGS


BY GORDON NEUFELD

'Tis the season of beginnings, most obviously of a new cycle of time of course. This often comes with some attempts at fresh starts and renewed resolutions. I have a number of such beginnings in mind for myself.


What I am thinking about however, is something more philosophical but also much more salient, especially in the current context of the confusion that still reins regarding human development – that is, how to raise children to their fullest potential as human beings.

 

In a nutshell, everything development-wise begins with attachment – whether it is particles that combine into atoms, elements that merge into compounds, seeds that attach by their roots, humans that couple up to make babies, and of course, the attachments of the zygote, embryo, fetus, baby, toddler, growing child, adolescent, and beyond – each a prerequisite for the further unfolding of potential.


READ THE REST OF GORDON'S EDITORIAL HERE >

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EDITOR'S NOTE: In keeping with the preeminent nature of this theme, we decided to release Gordon's 2023 conference keynote on The Wisdom of Dependence on the Free Resources page of our website. Please feel free to share this resource with others. We have also decided to make available for purchase the complete the recordings of last fall's Wisdom of Dependence Webinar Series for those who were unable to attend. And in keeping with this perspective on mental health, our upcoming conference theme will be 'The Current Crisis of Well-Being.' See below for more details.

NEW FREE RESOURCES:

2023 CONFERENCE KEYNOTE & FOLLOW-UP PANEL:

The Wisdom of Dependence

BY GORDON NEUFELD

There is nothing that influences our parenting or teaching more than our attitudes towards dependence and independence. We thought the message too important to bury it under a price tag. 


In this keynote address, Dr. Neufeld goes right to the heart of the matter to reveal how today's society has been thinking about this all wrong, as opposite states rather than as co-existing dynamics. He reveals that it is in our basic nature as creatures of attachment to depend, not only as children but as adults as well. Yet, the fear of dependence continues to dominate, both in regards to ourselves and our children. Received wisdom for generations has called upon us to strive for independence for ourselves, while pushing for independence in our children and students. In so doing, we not only have become stuck and dysfunctional, but we have thwarted Nature in its attempts to take care of us.


We hope you find this timely address and it's follow-up panel informative, inspirational and even transformational.


For those who find they want more on this important topic, visit our Webinar Recordings page to purchase the recordings from The Wisdom of Dependence Webinar Series held in October 2023. 

Wisdom of Dependence YouTube recording

View the keynote (29 min) and follow-up panel discussion (33 min) on YouTube, and feel free to pass them along to anyone who might find it helpful!

NEW ONLINE CLASS OFFERING!

The Natural Roots of Empathy


Offered by Heather Ferguson

and Michele Maurer

Fridays from 10:00 - 11:00 am Pacific

Feb 2 to Mar 8, 2024

$150 | Runs for 6 weeks


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Jan 26, 2024

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Watch this short preview of The Natural Roots of Empathy course

The Natural Roots of Empathy Preview Video

Empathy, it turns out, is not simply an attribute that can be taught, a value that can be inculcated, or a skill that can be trained. In this 4 minute preview video, you will begin to see Dr. Neufeld trace empathy to its roots in attachment, emotion and development. Once we understand what is missing or what has been lost, the challenges for restoring empathy become clear.


Join faculty Heather Ferguson and Michele Maurer in our first ever online offering of The Natural Roots of Empathy.

What's included with a Scheduled Online Class registration?

In addition to a weekly live class with a Neufeld faculty member, you receive a 4-month study pass (or 8 months for Intensive courses) to our Virtual Campus featuring Dr. Neufeld's video material, discussion forums, study guides, supplementary resources, and much more. Participants view Dr. Neufeld's recorded presentations prior to the scheduled support session with a faculty member. Visit More On Online Campus Courses for further details.


Class recordings

Not able to attend the live class due to a scheduling conflict? No problem! Classes are recorded so you can catch up later in the week when it works best for you.

Jan 10 -

Mar 13

Adolescence Part I:

Making Sense of Adolescence


Offered by Robin Brooks-Sherriff & Lisa Weiner

Wednesdays from 1:00 - 2:00 pm Pacific

Jan 10 to Mar 13, 2024

$275 | Runs for 10 weeks


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Science of Emotion


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May 16

Playful Facilitation Module:

Putting Play Into Practice


Offered by Tamara Strijack

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Prerequisites: Intensive I, Intensive II, Science of Emotion, and the Neufeld Institute Play series (Play 101, Play and Attachment, Play and Emotion)

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Mar 26

Alpha Children


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Adolescence Part II:

Adolescence & Sexuality


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More online courses are

being scheduled for 2024,

including the newly revised version

of our Resilience course.


Stay tuned for details

and registration!

AUSTRALIA SEMINARS WITH DR. MACNAMARA

Stay tuned for upcoming New Zealand

events with Deborah!

Making Sense of Discipline


Students and young people are increasingly angrier, lonelier, more anxious and less able to self-regulate. These one day presentations speak to the question of what to do when feelings get big and the behaviour gets bigger!


Neufeld Institute Faculty member Deborah MacNamara will be touring Australia this March to present Making Sense of Discipline. Sign up for one of six full day presentations offered on March 11th, 14th, 15th, 18th, 19th, and 21st in various locations across Australia.


Receive a special discount using the word ATTACHED when registering.

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