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Rita, our anchor
And then there is Rita Weick, who has been at every retreat since our first, and will be with us again in October. Rita is responsible for much work, both visible and invisible. She is diligently building a wider pool of people to rotate through retreat service, so that no single person has to say yes every year. Some of that growth is already underway with newer volunteers starting to participate, initially as apprentices who watch, help, and learn what it takes to hold the container of silence. We recently spoke with Rita to learn more about her own story and how she got involved. She said it happened almost by accident, as she “just kind of falls into things,” as with most important things in her life.
For years, Rita presented Centering Prayer workshops in local churches. She loved sharing the material, but she kept noticing a drop-off once each workshop ended. People would come back a week later a little sheepish. “I did Centering Prayer for ten minutes the other day,” someone told her once, sounding pleased with himself. Rita was glad for him. She was also quietly aching for a group that was hungrier than that.
Around that time she watched a documentary called The Dhamma Brothers, about Buddhist teachers bringing meditation retreats into a high-security prison. She remembers thinking that would be an extraordinary group to sit with. Having no idea how she would ever find her way there, she put the thought on a shelf.
Then, one day, she had a serendipitous run-in with a man who had attended one of the church workshops with his wife. He mentioned, almost in passing, that he facilitated a Buddhist group at a nearby prison and asked if she wanted to come along.
Walking into the prison chapel, she watched the first man arrive, nod to her, sit down, place his hands palms down on his thighs, and close his eyes. “Here's my tribe,” she thought.
Ten-plus years later, she is still going to that same prison, now alongside Robert, who joined her about 6 years ago. What began as one presenter's restlessness has become, in Rita's own words, “our group,” shaped by everyone who sits in the circle. “When we dive down into the silence,” she told me, “that's the common experience. The level of intimacy really surprises me.”
Listen to Rita share more of her story in this video below.
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