From the Desk of Doug
Prison Dads
Happy Father's Day?
After honoring mothers last month, it’s only fair that I focus on prison dads this month…the month of Father’s Day. It brings up so many memories.
I’ve seen a father visiting his young son in prison, with obvious anger on his face for the kid’s predicament.
I’ve seen grandparents visiting a young man in prison with obvious pain on their faces, saddened by their grandson’s predicament.
I’ve seen young dads in prison, trying to be good fathers---even reading books to their children---when wives bring the kids to the visitation room.
I had an angry adult son come to me one day, upset that his elderly father caught a prison sentence. “Do you want my dad? I don’t want him anymore!”
I was there when a former prisoner wept as he told of his father’s death during his time behind bars. He was unable to say goodbye or attend the memorial service.
I share these examples with the hope that you’ll remember the many fathers, inside and outside of prison, who will not be having a happy Father’s Day.
For the fathers and grandfathers in prison, or who have a family member in prison, I offer these words of encouragement from the book of Joshua: “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go.”
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