Growth Mindset
Self-Awareness: Understanding One’s Emotions & Thoughts, Strengths & Challenges
Social Skill: What is it?
We want our students to have a growth mindset instead of a fixed mindset. A growth mindset is when you believe that failure is not a setback, but actually an opportunity to grow. You can learn from your experiences, and take feedback to better yourself next time. You focus more on the process rather than the product. You believe that your attitude and effort is more important than anything.
On the other hand, if you have a fixed mindset, you believe that any failure is the limit of your abilities. When you’re frustrated you give up and shut down. You feel like you either know something or you don’t. You do not like to be challenged and you do not learn from feedback. You are very hard on yourself. We want to shift student’s mindset to be growth centered.
Home Connection: How can we re-enforce this at home?
- Read books and talk about characters and real people who have faced challenges and used strategies to better themselves.
- Be a role model- when you’re frustrated, show your child that you don’t give up right away.
- Rather than awarding feedback focused on the child’s product like, “You did a great job getting a 100%,” ask questions about their process like “Why did you think you got a 100%?” If they got a 60%, talk about how they could work to improve like “What do you think you can do differently next time?” Also, focus on what they took away from their mistakes like “When this happened, how did you feel? What did you learn from it?”
When a child says something with a fixed mindset, help them to rephrase it in the moment.
Instead of:
“It’s good enough”
“I give up”
“I’ll never be that smart”
“I’m not good at this”
Try:
“Is this really my best work?”
“I’ll try a different idea”
“I’ll learn how to do this”
“What am I missing?”
Book Suggestion: Look this up on YouTube or check it out from the library! The Magical Yet By: Angela DiTerlizzi
Weekly Affirmation: Have your child repeat these words each day. “I am getting better everyday.”
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