Academic leaders are often asked to “make a few remarks” or “give a welcome” at various gatherings. One temptation is to overprepare by writing a full-on speech. Sometimes an actual speech is required but it often feels overly formal on many occasions. In a casual context, reading a speech can make you seem distant and artificial. Scripted remarks are especially awkward in informal settings where there is no obvious place to set your paper down. Moreover, relying on a prepared script for every such occasion leaves you at sea when there is an impromptu request for your words.
The most common alternative to scripted remarks is to stand up and say some banal or clichéd words of welcome or appreciation. This is fine. But it doesn’t advance your leadership agenda or move your audience. It is much better to craft a strategy for meeting these moments in ways that are more than merely fine—that are actually inspiring and memorable to your audience.
Over time I have developed a practice to more effectively use opportunities to make remarks. I begin by taking a moment to reflect on the nature of the event I am about to attend and the hopes and dreams of the attendees. What is the deep “life magic” that brings us together right now? Is it a moment of transition? Of accomplishment? Of collective grief or worry? Having an answer clearly in mind makes it easier for me to find words equal to the moment. I also consider how this event relates to my own leadership agenda. What can I say that will reinforce elements of my vision and values? And finally, I ask what this event means to me on a personal level. Authenticity is a key to effective leadership. I do better as a speaker when I am genuinely in touch with my feelings and my immediate experience. With answers to these questions in mind, I can more easily stand up without a script and say something that touches my audience, lifts up our forward path, and gives a genuine piece of myself to others.
There are a few other helpful considerations I always keep in mind. Is the audience standing or sitting? If they are standing, make sure to be very brief. For a standing audience, every minute of a speech feels like five. Is the audience empty handed or holding a drink? If their hands are full, they will not be able to applaud so better to end your remarks with a short toast, which gives the audience an opportunity to respond. Is there a microphone? Do everything you can to insist on one. Without it you must assume that many people will not hear your specific words so tone and body language will count even more. Don’t be fooled into thinking that your loud voice is enough. Many, many people are hard of hearing. A microphone is a basic requirement for inclusion. One more tip: take a lesson from experienced public speakers and learn to make eye contact with people on every side and level of the room.
Questions for reflection: What are three elements of your leadership vision that you want to reinforce as often as possible? What kind of public events are on your agenda this month and what is the life magic they represent? What are your “go to” clichéd phrases and how could you express yourself more authentically and imaginatively? What kind of public speaking is most comfortable for you? How can you get some practice at other types of events?
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