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SPECIAL EVENT NOV. 12

METROPOLITAN MUSEUM OF ART

Dr. Maryan Ainsworth, a longtime Curator of European Paintings at The Met (now retired), has offered to give a highlights tour of the Early Netherlandish Paintings Gallery, an area of her expertise. Afterward, attendees can visit other galleries as desired.


November 12, 2026 is the date. Meet Maryan and Chuck at the Egyptian statue in the Great Hall at 11:30 a.m. to receive your entrance tickets. We can then go to the American Wing Café for an early lunch together (around 11:45-12).

 

Afterward, Maryan will guide the group to the Early Netherlandish Paintings galleries for the tour at around 1 p.m. All attendees will pay $20 each, as required by The Met, for a group tour. For the Education Department administration, we need to know how many will participate, since Chuck must purchase all tickets in advance. Please email Chuck or call him at 203-554-4214 to register by October 30. 

Cape Cod once again drew a large group of members from the New England, McBurney-Morse, and Central Atlantic Chapters in October. Top row: Go Travel's Bob Cook. The group poses in front of the Sea Crest Beach Resort. Bottom row: Always beautiful Cape Cod; McBurney-Morse's Co-President Chuck Ainsworth.

THREE CHAPTERS ENJOY THE CAPE

FIFTH ANNUAL EVENT: GOOD SPEAKERS, FELLOWSHIP, FUN

Under the incomparable leadership of the New England Chapter and with the dedicated support of the Central Atlantic and McBurney- Morse Chapters, the fifth annual meeting of YMCA Alumni members occurred at the Sea Crest Beach Resort in North Falmouth on the shores of Cape Cod in Massachusetts.


The three-day event, held October 6-8, offered a warm reunion in a beautiful seaside setting, combining diverse activities ranging from receptions and meals to thoughtful content sessions and free-time activities.


The event was the result of a year of planning by a dedicated committee chaired by Nancy LaRue Bonell, with Steve Clay, Lisa Drouin, Karen Leslie, Martha Machnik, Laura Prisco, and Andrea Vignali of the New England Chapter; John Hedbavny of the McBurney-Morse Chapter; and Len Wilson of the Central Atlantic Chapter.


Their efforts resulted in an outstanding program. One presenter, Kellie Wardman, Director of Strategy, Governance and Leadership of the DBD Group, enthusiastically engaged attendees in a conversation about "Still Becoming: the Infinite Game of Life After the Y", an engaging discussion about thoughtful, continued post-career personal growth.


Another remarkable presentation by Dr. Dana Yoerger, Retired Senior Scientist at the Woods Hole Oceanographic Institute, explored the science behind amazing underwater discoveries, including the Titanic, unknown marine life, and research on historic climate conditions.


Attendees were also engaged by two AARP MA Speakers Bureau volunteers on cybercrime; by Go Travel's National Sales Director Bob Cook, who shared a look at the YMCA Alumni Travel Club and the upcoming Kansas City Reunion; and by Larry Garvin, YMCA Alumni East VP, who gave an overview of YMCA Alumni.

RALPH CHRISTIAN

SALUTING A DEDICATED CHAPTER MEMBER

“The YMCA should not just be a convenient nicety. It must always strive to remain a community necessity…”


Born in December 1942, I grew up in Newport News, VA, a shipbuilding town surrounded by beautiful waterways, river views, war museums, and rich history. Schools, public rest facilities, theaters, public transportation, and the local YMCA were all segregated.


As a tiny tot, with the YMCA off limits for me, the YWCA saved the day, and I enrolled in my first childcare and preschool programs there. 


My initial YMCA career started in New York City in 1967 as a counselor in the YMCA’s Mobil Youth Program. The Harlem Branch of the YMCA of Greater New York City sponsored the program as part of the Y’s new outreach initiatives.


It was a summer program, designed to bring YMCA activities to underserved kids. We loaded large vans with recreation and sports equipment and drove them into underserved communities. The police closed the designated street. We then unloaded the games and equipment onto the street, and the kids came out to play. It was an Urban Street Camp program.


The success of the YMCA’s Summer Mobile Youth Program led me to an offer to work full-time with the Y of Greater New York. I was assigned to the Clinton Youth Center, located in the Hell’s Kitchen Area. We focused on the teenage gang crisis. In that role, I became a member of the Y’s professional staff.


At the McBurney Branch YMCA, as Dir. of Urban Affairs, I was charged with creating a plan and raising initial seed funds for programs designated for Lower Manhattan, and for a location that eventually became the Chinatown YMCA. From there, I moved into executive positions in Mount Vernon, NY, Oklahoma City, OK, Indianapolis, IN, and eventually back to New York City.


Chuck Kujawa, National Y Camping Executive, once told me that in the YMCA, it helps to be a little nomadic if you want to move up. I did move up, and my wonderful wife, Eleanor “Ronnie,” and our family always supported me.


Joining the Y’s professional staff ranks opened a whole new YMCA world for me of training, travel, international service, fund development, and connecting with great YMCA “Sheros” and Heroes” who, over many years, fought the good fight in making the YMCA what it is today.

My YMCA contacts, colleagues, and friends showered me with such support that I became a believer that a genius is really upholding the Y’s red and blue triangle, a genius that generally leans forward and toward success.  


I retired from the Y in 2020 and took a deep breath. Several weeks later, one of my mentors, Bob Wilson, called and invited my wife and me to an elite gathering of friends. That marked the start of my second Y career: YMCA Alumni and the McBurney-Morse Chapter. I was named chapter president and served for four years.


My good friends, Dr. Paul Sharar and Bonnie Mairs, and others offered strong support and worked hard as we all struggled to keep our chapter viable. With Julius Jones’ and Len Wilson’s encouragement, I became Vice President of the East Region of Chapters, just in time to start planning for the 2014 Eastern Region Reunion.  


Ronnie and I have one son and four granddaughters; all have worked or participated in the YMCA. Ronnie and I have had many wonderful experiences as Y retirees and as YMCA Alumni members; among the most memorable and satisfying are the annual summer parties given on the shore with the Wilsons, a wonderful vacation in Cambridge, England, hosted by a then-new friend, the late Jim Lamb, as participants in the Y’s Ambassadors Program.


I look forward to continued involvement with YMCA Alumni, building new relationships, refreshing old ones, gaining new growth experiences, and upholding the mission of the YMCA.

HOW DO YOU SPEND YOUR TIME?

HOBBIES AND RECREATION AMONG OUR MEMBERS

WE PUT JACK YOUNG ON 'THE HOOK' IN THIS ISSUE

Recently, we learned that YMCA Alumni, particularly those in the McBurney-Morse Chapter, would like to share information about their hobbies and the interests their former colleagues pursue in retirement.


If you have a particular interest in which you have engaged in your retirement and would be willing to share it with your fellow YMCA Alumni, then please contact either or both Chapter Co-Presidents Janice A. Higgins and Chuck Ainsworth.


Our first contributor is Jack Young, former CEO of the Kingston YMCA. Jack began his 32-year career in 1975 as the Physical Director at the Coatesville PA YMCA. Within the year, that Y closed. Undaunted, he immediately moved his career forward as the Aquatic Director of the Auburn, NY YMCA-WEIU, followed by positions as the Branch Director at the Downtown Atlanta, GA YMCA, Branch Director at the Greensboro, NC Central YMCA, CEO of the Hagerstown, MD YMCA, and finally CEO of the Kingston and Ulster County, NY YMCA. In summary, Jack says the journey was PRICELESS! Here's his story:


"Fly fishing in the Catskills is legendary, and after reading about it as I prepared for retirement, it went on my list of things to do when that day finally came. I purchased Fly Fishing for Dummies by Peter Kaminsky and signed up for a 10-week beginner’s course from Trout Unlimited. 

Jerry Huncosky, former CEO at nearby Frost Valley YMCA (and fellow member of McBurney-Morse Chapter), extended me a lifetime membership for fly fishing at Frost Valley at my retirement event. 


So, I wrapped the book, the class, and the membership into a hobby that carries me into the rivers and streams of the Catskills for wonderful times connecting with nature. On occasion, I do get lucky and land a nice-sized specimen from the trout family. 


The physical connection from my casting arm, through my rod and reel, to my line and fly, to a hungry fish is a reward that leaves me speechless with gratitude and disbelief. The final reward is holding that fish in my hand, removing the hook from its mouth, and releasing it back into the wild. 


Every time I go out, I am guaranteed a connection with a deer, an eagle, a beaver, and even trout who tease me without taking my flies. As they say, PRICELESS!"

 

Be sure to watch for the new issue of YMCA Alumni’s PERSPECTIVE eZine in your email on Nov. 15. The issue theme is “Hobbies for Fun and Profit,” and there’s a special story inside by McBurney-Morse’s Jack Young titled “The iPhone and I.” Jack shows us how he discovered just how good the iPhone camera can be and offers plenty of tips to improve our photos. There's lots more, too; you'll find it fun to read.

 

CHAPTER LEADERS

MCBURNEY-MORSE

Co-Presidents: Janice A. Higgins;

Chuck Ainsworth

Vice President: John Hedbavny

Treasurer: Bob Hastedt

Newsletter Editor: Bonnie Mairs


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